DOTW: Duty or something else... - Page 2

What i find interesting is that she gets so very hysterical when this issue comes up. eg. remember when he asks her if she's forgiven him, she says ardhangini hoon main tumhari, farz hai hindustaani patni ka etc etc. even with the nun she becomes so hysterical that she goes on her knees. this kind of reaction seems to suggest that she's almost afraid of even articulating any relationship beyond duty: if she says it once, even to herself, then its out there and she can't avoid it. I think she is not mentally ready for everything that would happen once she accepts the fact that she loves him. She's hated him and been afraid of him so long, and even his love would be very invasive... it would not leave her with a self to call her own, it would demand complete submission of her own identity. Perhaps this is what she fears, this is what she's not ready for and this is why it is difficult for her to accept even to her own self the way she feels about him. The more she can convince herself she does it out of duty, the safer she feels.

perhaps she feels safe thinking that way..

WHT I FEEL ISSS

1) She is afraid of him !!! He is very passionate ..

2) She does not want to b a badd wife i understand but
the way she gets hysterical and the way she reacts
to him when he says something sweet...She tries to
show him...she does not feel the same!! but her eyes
say somfin else....
3) She is confused and i am positive not very soon but
eventually she will burst ....

WOT U GUYS THINK....!!!!

Originally posted by: Fair_N_Lovely

WHT I FEEL ISSS

1) She is afraid of him !!! He is very passionate ..

2) She does not want to b a badd wife i understand but
the way she gets hysterical and the way she reacts
to him when he says something sweet...She tries to
show him...she does not feel the same!! but her eyes
say somfin else....
3) She is confused and i am positive not very soon but
eventually she will burst ....

WOT U GUYS THINK....!!!!

Agreed 100%............ we all think the same way😛.... only Rusty does not seem to see all her actions this way😕.

Looks like our sexy Sam needs to do something about it... she is a tough nut to crack. She saved him alright but without any confession did you notice that......😆 😆😆.... meaning more intense situations are comming up... it's tooooooooooooo much ......😉

too ziddi to confess.....what is she going to get out of it?

as you say...we are more in for interesting scenes..

also is rusty afraid of falling in love again after losing her first love ajit?
both rusty and sam have lost love in the past. sam seems to have moved on but maybe rusty is afraid to love and lose again.

maybe she is afraid of the fact that if she lets herself go and admit to herself she loves a guy that did so much injustice to her family...what sort of love is that? that has to be a very passionate love (to love someone regardless of what injustices they have done to you) and maybe she is afraid of loving someone to such an extent ?

or maybe she is just blind that she cant see what a gem samay is 😆

Originally posted by: whynot

What i find interesting is that she gets so very hysterical when this issue comes up. eg. remember when he asks her if she's forgiven him, she says ardhangini hoon main tumhari, farz hai hindustaani patni ka etc etc. even with the nun she becomes so hysterical that she goes on her knees. this kind of reaction seems to suggest that she's almost afraid of even articulating any relationship beyond duty: if she says it once, even to herself, then its out there and she can't avoid it. I think she is not mentally ready for everything that would happen once she accepts the fact that she loves him. She's hated him and been afraid of him so long, and even his love would be very invasive... it would not leave her with a self to call her own, it would demand complete submission of her own identity. Perhaps this is what she fears, this is what she's not ready for and this is why it is difficult for her to accept even to her own self the way she feels about him. The more she can convince herself she does it out of duty, the safer she feels.

👏 well said. couldn't agree more. Her spurts of confusion are confusing me into laughter.

If Sam had put my family through all the crap that he has. It would be really hard to love him or do anything in the name of duty for him. 🤢

Originally posted by: jprasad

If Sam had put my family through all the crap that he has. It would be really hard to love him or do anything in the name of duty for him. 🤢

Then why is she doing all these for him? 😕

Originally posted by: shweetdreamz

also is rusty afraid of falling in love again after losing her first love ajit?
both rusty and sam have lost love in the past. sam seems to have moved on but maybe rusty is afraid to love and lose again.

maybe she is afraid of the fact that if she lets herself go and admit to herself she loves a guy that did so much injustice to her family...what sort of love is that? that has to be a very passionate love (to love someone regardless of what injustices they have done to you) and maybe she is afraid of loving someone to such an extent ?

or maybe she is just blind that she cant see what a gem samay is 😆

I think this could be one of the reasons....unfruitful love...is agonising yaar....

Samay has moved...but being the woman...can't easily forget...takes a L........ng time...

I did watch only a clip of Ajeeb Ajith and R....she clearly was interested....