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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes she is quite smart,but she has no idea what Loha will do to her once he has used her. I dont think Gangia has changed,i think there is some other reason behind what she is doing.


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I hope you are right!! I miss that evil witch!, with her evil ideas!! 😃😛 😆🤣
. It is just like when Loha turned good, and people started protesting they are missing the OLD Loha Singh.😆😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neela10

At 18 you are an adult to get married in America at least but that is way to young...live your life and have fun...strictly my opinion. Marrying young is the Indian way.

Telv: You said marrying young is the Indian way.
I am surprised. I have a next door neighbor (African American girl) here in America who started producing at the age of 14 and now at the age of 36 has eight kids!!! In America, more girls start having kids at 16 and younger, probably more than other countries in the world, including India. Most start from their school days. And they are not even embarrassed about it.

Promiscuity is the way of life here, and so is abortion. Nobody raises their eyebrows when their daughters get pregnant at 14, or 15, or 16. Sometimes these kids keep their kids, sometimes the child is put up for adoption and sometimes aborted.

I think age 18 is the legal age for marriage around the world.

I agree with you abot the statistcs here cuz I have heard them as well. I watch this show call 16 and pregnant on MTV and every week they show a girl who got preggie and how her family and boyfriend feel about it. It is a reality show.
What I meant is that generally speaking Indian parents think that once kids are finished college then it is time to get married around 21 or so ...I think that is young too. That is not all parents.
If you look at certain parts of Indian the kids get married very young like in the South...very conservative.
I know so many Indian girls from the South who got married really young.
Parents don't want you to wait around to get too old...there is always a lot of pressure to get married as soon as possible. I guess I should not say the Indian way because even in the Middle East and other place people get married really young.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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If you look at certain parts of Indian the kids get married very young like in the South...very conservative.I know so many Indian girls from the South who got married really young.

I think there are many reasons girls get married young in some rural areas in India. Sometimes parents can't afford to keep them anymore. They are too poor. In rural areas, people die young too (lack of good food, lack of medicine and other problems), so they probably marry young as well.
Sometimes there are other problems that only parents know. Sometimes tradition demands it - GET THESE GIRLS MARRIED OFF, NOW. THEY ARE GETTING OLD AT 16!!!.😆😆😆😆.

In the US, there are no reasons for girls to either get pregnant young or get married young. And yet, they are doing both all the time. Girls get pregnant in their early teens, they come to school pregnant, they don't get married to the boys who got them pregnant, and in some cases, the girl's mother has to bring up the grandchild, as well as her child. 😕😕😕😕

The difference is that in India they get married young and then get pregnant, and in the US, they get pregnant young and don't get married. Some may get married after producing several illegitimate kids from different men.


I think because it is the way of life here, nobody raises their eyebrows.🤢😕😡


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neela10

If you look at certain parts of Indian the kids get married very young like in the South...very conservative.I know so many Indian girls from the South who got married really young.

I think there are many reasons girls get married young in some rural areas in India. Sometimes parents can't afford to keep them anymore. They are too poor. In rural areas, people die young too (lack of good food, lack of medicine and other problems), so they probably marry young as well.
Sometimes there are other problems that only parents know. Sometimes tradition demands it - GET THESE GIRLS MARRIED OFF, NOW. THEY ARE GETTING OLD AT 16!!!.😆😆😆😆.

In the US, there are no reasons for girls to either get pregnant young or get married young. And yet, they are doing both all the time. Girls get pregnant in their early teens, they come to school pregnant, they don't get married to the boys who got them pregnant, and in some cases, the girl's mother has to bring up the grandchild, as well as her child. 😕😕😕😕

The difference is that in India they get married young and then get pregnant, and in the US, they get pregnant young and don't get married. Some may get married after producing several illegitimate kids from different men.


I think because it is the way of life here, nobody raises their eyebrows.🤢😕😡

Better to be young and married to have kids because you need two parents. Those girls over here who get preggie so young drop out of school, have no money, no education etc...poor kid grows up in a crapy home. It is a shame. People should look at this situation more.

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