Why did Loha agree to Suman marrying Madhur

AFter watching the show yesterday we saw that Loha approved a marriage between Sunman who was excited. Madhur agreed but is not happy and of course Rekha was hurting.
The doc also agreed to the wedding.
Suman was floating on air.

Why is this wedding happening? What does Loha want this? Is it to have easy access to Laali and convince her to come back?

Suman needs to pack up her stuff and go off to college and find a man more of her age if that is what she is looking for...In a day and age where women have more educational opportunities she wants to get married.... 😡

😆😆Televs : i hv written in another post..this CV's r doing all this without any aim...Neela written this all r assumtions..we know this show goes on in base of assumtions also.😉...So Loha is assuming dat by this way Laali will come to haveli...as and after she stay there for ever..he'll tell doc..Now u and ur daughter can go..i got my laalia....mom of my pota..patni of my beta...so now u can goo..😆😆

Originally posted by: Neela10

I remember the part when the Doc told Loha to keep
what happened to Suman a secret because if people knew about the
attempted rape they would shun Suman in society. It is so
stupid..always blame the woman...the man is the one who instigated it.
Such double standards...such a shame because that means at 16 or
whatever her age is her life is tarnished for life. This mean the doc
is so worried about society but not about his daughter. Loha does not
care about Rekha and Madhur...first of all he was telling Rekha to be
happy...remember how Sumita was saying to Rekha leave Ranjavi and think
about yourself and get married to Madhur. What happened to this
conversation...now look at what Loha Singh is doing????


<font color="#000000"><font size="3">T<font size="3">elenv: The doc is just one man, the society has many mouths. How many mouths can you go around shutting up? The only person getting hurt would be Suman. People gossip ... and gossip hurts. The doc won't be around his daughter always to protect her. Her pain is his pain too.

Also, remember it was Suman who had gotten into the trunk of the car to follow a man. Therefore, to some extent it was her fault too.

By the way, Suman is not 16, she is just on the verge of going to college, therefore she should be 18. Remember, the doc was asking her to fill the forms for going to college.

I think Loha has his own plans. Let's see what it is.
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Well in every society people gossip over stupid things. How to avoid it all? He needs to teach his daughter to be strong to take the heat...ya it is not nice but that is life and in the society she is living in it is tougher to avoid people looking at you etc...The rape is always blamed on the woman...so of course her image is tarnished but the guy is a star!! 😡 😡 I think the aunt should take the blame as well because when they called the house about Suman she did not give her brother the message. What a witch..how can she even do that to her niece....also Laali should have told the dad about the note..he found out after the call suman gave him.....anyway we know the entire thinig makes sense right??? 👏 ah what logic.... 😆 😆

I firmly believe that no woman ever deserves to be raped or molested for any reason, but this situation shows such an appalling lack of judgment on Suman's part that even I am having a hard time justifying the idea that she has no fault in it.

She is an idiot. Bottom line. No woman in her senses would do what she did--getting into the trunk of a man she hardly knows and following him to his house, knowing full and well that he has no interest in her at all.

She was also extremely stupid to go into a strange man's room, and on top of that, it was a drunk man. She is so stupid that she couldn't tell he reeked of alcohol, or that he was slurring his words and stumbling around?

She is by far the most stupid, brainless character that has ever been on this show, and that is saying a lot.

I'm doubly shocked that her father agreed to this marriage, after all of his insistence that she goes to college. Yes, society is cruel, but he isn't helping her by mollycoddling her this way. She can go to college and meet a good, educated guy there (who is actually her age) who isn't going to care one bit about her past. Instead he is getting her married into a family where a man tried to rape her.

I hope and pray Shyamli/Laali will put a firm end to this dysfunctional marriage. I am roughly Madhur's post-leap age and the idea of marrying a 17 or 18 year old makes me physically ill 🤢

I hope and pray Shyamli/Laali will put a firm end to this dysfunctional marriage. I am roughly Madhur's post-leap age and the idea of marrying a 17 or 18 year old makes me physically ill 🤢

I find the above statement rather amusing. Why?

Well, here's a story. There was a young man called Shekhar, who at the age of 23, met, fell in love and married a young girl called Laali, who was aged 17. This girl Laali is almost seven years younger than the young man called Shekhar. Laali got pregnant and at 19 years of age, had become a mother.

Then there is another young man called Madhur, who at the age of 24 (or so) has agreed to marry a young girl called Suman, who is aged 18. (Unfortunately, he does not love her, and only agreed to the marriage to save the girl from getting her reputation tarnished.) Suman is also about seven years younger than Madhur

Then there is a man called Ranvijay, who at the age of 40, is sexually very active with a girl called Jamuni, who is 26 years old.

And finally, there is the Doc, who is also 40-42 years old, and has married a young woman called Shyamli, who is 26 years old.

Well ... this is the end of my story ...

Neela-

Originally posted by: Neela10

I hope and pray Shyamli/Laali will put a firm end to this dysfunctional marriage. I am roughly Madhur's post-leap age and the idea of marrying a 17 or 18 year old makes me physically ill 🤢

I find the above statement rather amusing. Why?

Well, here's a story. There was a young man called Shekhar, who at the age of 23, met, fell in love and married a young girl called Laali, who was aged 17. This girl Laali is almost seven years younger than the young man called Shekhar. Laali got pregnant and at 19 years of age, had become a mother.

Then there is another young man called Madhur, who at the age of 24 (or so) has agreed to marry a young girl called Suman, who is aged 18. (Unfortunately, he does not love her, and only agreed to the marriage to save the girl from getting her reputation tarnished.) Suman is also about seven years younger than Madhur

Then there is a man called Ranvijay, who at the age of 40, is sexually very active with a girl called Jamuni, who is 26 years old.

And finally, there is the Doc, who is also 40-42 years old, and has married a young woman called Shyamli, who is 26 years old.

Well ... this is the end of my story ...

Madhur is older than 24. Pre-leap he was around 20-21 (slightly younger than Shekhar), so now he must be at least 27. That's 9-10 years between him and Suman. I found his relationship with Rekha a bit disgusting when she was 14 or 15, but now they are both in their 20's, and have known each other for many years, it is much more believable and acceptable. Suman meanwhile is a complete stranger and doesn't have half the mental maturity of Rekha. She is still a child, in every way except physically.

Laali, again, has 10 times more maturity in the tip of her nose than Suman has in her entire body. The age difference between her and Shekhar was less, and there was a natural build to their relationship. I don't think a relationship between a 17 and 23 year old is generally acceptable, but in context of the story it made sense. This Suman-Madhur thing makes no sense, and neither did Rekha and Madhur initially. I wish they didn't begin Rekha and Madhur's romance before the leap. It would have been much more understandable.

In the end, one must also remember that Laali was a poor, low caste girl who was sold into slavery. She had no education, nor any hope of education. There was nothing in her life to look forward to. Falling in love and getting married was the best outcome she could hope for. That is not the case for Suman. She is just stupid, through and through. She has options and a bright future that she threw away over a stranger who doesn't even care for her.

Ranvijay and Jamuni don't represent any kind of moral standard so it's not even worth discussing them, and Shyamli and Doc were sort of forced into what is ultimately a platonic relationship.