One honest and difficult question

So, I've been wondering about this a lot.

If we were in Krishna's shoes in real life, how many of us would still want to marry Pinto ji? Please don't get me wrong and misunderstand me. This is not about Pinto ji. Pinto ji is an awesome person. But, if we were in Krishna's shoes and our dad has to go to jail not ONCE but TWICE because of someone else's bad deeds (TTS), how many of us would still want to get married into that family?

Please answer this objectively and honestly. My question has nothing to do with Pintoji. Its just unfortunate that he is TTS' son.

And my dear fellow IF members, I have no intention to hurt anyone. I hope we can have some healthy discussion even if we may have different viewpoints.

Honestly Real life is very different from Serial life. Real life mein bahut kuch aesa hota hai jo serial mein nahi hota.

Mohini19,

Interesting question ! 😆

If I were in Krishna's shoes, considering the fact the Pintoji loves me, will support my thoughts, respects my family and has walked out of his father's house and if really made a mark for himself...a real man, I would have married him. No doubts!

As for my parents supporting that decision, they shall if they find it right like me. It may sound strange but every case is a subject in itself and we can never say that universal philosophy be applied to that person..we can apply philosophy, general thought as a guidance for handling situations, circumstances. It cannot be used for judging people and should be used only for judging their individual actions.

However, after today's episode, I have a big reservation. It is a plain no - no to me. I wouldn't be able to handle such a highy emotional person who is inflammable like that in emotions. Applying heart to matters is acceptable to me, this is what I loved about the Pinto until yesterday. But applying heart without logic or reason is detrimental quality within a man. Typically it has always been a desired quality within bachelor to show rational mind. Shaadiyaan aise hi to tikti hain. 😊

There were many of his actions in the past that could have had dire consequences, but still his actions pardonable along the growth curve. But going back to square 1 position; away from all the maturity and knowledge received from actual wordly consequences of being a Tuntun Singh's son and being taunted openly by people; doesn't put him now in a good light for me. Today I wouldn't want to promote our relationship as it is too risky...but good thing is I did not have to say that, Pintoji will not want to talk to me !

Good question, I would still marry him, we cannot choose who or what our parents are. U have to live your life.
If u find someone who love, trust and respect u, u don't give that up no matter the circumstances.
My mom always say love those who love u and love those who hate u only then u will b happy in life.

Very Good Question .

Well In real life as well I would have married Pintu becozz First Foremost thing is that He is a very very good and pure hearted person , thinks abt others first rather then himself . yes he is very Emotional , impulsive and person who doesn't go with rules n all But that doesn't makes him immature person or doesn't gives a reason to us for not marrying him . Most imp thing is that he loves me madly .And it is always said that u shld marry the person who loves u . Pintu so many times showed his maturity and trust on his love So why not ?

Good question.for me i will marry pinto ji.past is past.no one change it.but future will depend on ours doings.in that tts is only bad.i hope he will surely change.coming to pinto ji.how can a girl refuse him.ofcourse misunderstandings happens due to some situations.forgetting that is better than keep on thinking that how could he talk like that.

Good question! 👏

In real life, I would not really have made a decision at this point about something as big as marriage but would have certainly distanced myself from the relationship to get some perspective. I mean Krishna has a lot to think about in this situation. Sure, Pintu supports her in all her endeavours and she knows he is a good person, but if he can turn around in one moment and make the bases accusations on her character because things did not go his way, is he the right life partner in her greater mission of being a good and honest officer? Contrary to the Beatles, love is not all you need and if Pintu is not going to be able to control his emotions, he won't be a strength but a weakness to Krishna which would also make me question whether he could really and honestly tolerate, for the rest of our lives, me always putting my job first.

This situation reminds me of one of my favourite movies, Aandhi, where the protagonist's marriage cannot function, despite a deep love and soul connection, because of her political dreams.

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

Good question! 👏

In real life, I would not really have made a decision at this point about something as big as marriage but would have certainly distanced myself from the relationship to get some perspective. I mean Krishna has a lot to think about in this situation. Sure, Pintu supports her in all her endeavours and she knows he is a good person, but if he can turn around in one moment and make the bases accusations on her character because things did not go his way, is he the right life partner in her greater mission of being a good and honest officer? Contrary to the Beatles, love is not all you need and if Pintu is not going to be able to control his emotions, he won't be a strength but a weakness to Krishna which would also make me question whether he could really and honestly tolerate, for the rest of our lives, me always putting my job first.

This situation reminds me of one of my favourite movies, Aandhi, where the protagonist's marriage cannot function, despite a deep love and soul connection, because of her political dreams.

I guess I do agree with most of what you've said. I don't have a strong opinion at this point. But, I concur with you that it is perhaps time for Krishna to step back and get some perspective.
It definitely takes more than love to make a marriage work. And I'm not particularly worried about pinto being impulsive. Most of us would have reacted the way he did when warrants against his mom were issued.
The big question for me is if I would want to subject myself and my family the humiliation and scheming at the hands of TTS. TTS may chane in reel life. But, in real life, people like TTS hardly change. And in real life, a marriage is not just between 2 people, it is also between 2 families.

Very well Question

Well for me yes i would Marry Pintu ji ,Yh i Know you wont like to go in a House where Everyone don't like you ,well For Pintu ji it is not his fault that his Father is A fraud Man Pintu ji mein toh koi Burayi nahi hai So for me i would Marry a guy like Pintu ji who loves me dearlyy... Waise you are marrying the guy not the family ...YH Ye alag baat hai ke mere gharwale nahi chahenge aise ghar mei meri shadi karna jis ki waja se mere papa ko jail jana pare but we could come to conclusions when the boy is Responsible ...