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ashson

@ashson

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Posted: 17 years ago

Hey Friends,

I need some advice ...pls help yaar. =/

I'm in 10th grade and my whole life i've had crushes...but they've lasted for only a couple weeks (the longest one lasted abt 7 months) but last year I met this really sweet & funny guy who was also a family friend. He flirted with me, talked to me everyday, and hugged me and stuff. Eventually, i realized that i could not go a day without thinking about him. Everyday I missed him and hoped to see him. I would find ways to go see him ...for example for homework help and stuff. I realized that this was no longer a crush, i had fallen in loveeeeeeee.<3333

But just my luck, the boy who Ive loved for over a year now...the first boy i ever fell in love with

has a girlfriend. hai rabba ...idk what to do. im so shattered! i was 99% sure he liked me back..the way he talked/flirted/looked at me.

I need advice..how shud i get over this??

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Mahi

@-Mystery-

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Posted: 17 years ago

Well, first off, he just has a girl friend. He's not married, right? So you still have hope 😛😉

Ok, on a serious note now, I have never fallen in love so I can't give you much advice but make yourself stronger. Realize that it's not the end of life. Other people are more important too.... I don't know if I can give you more advice. But get yourself absorbed in work and hopefully eventually you'll forget about it.

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bewafa

@bewafa

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Posted: 17 years ago

well it could be love...or just a crush. some crushes go on for longer when we fantasise/romanticise them.

i had a crush on a guy for years and years...and no, it wasn't love. just because the length was long doesn't mean it was love. i got over him. lol can u believe it, i told him i liked him? amd that gave me closure...for some reason. he was my best bud's bro, lol, and she later on told me that he liked me too at some point...and it was like, dangg! 😆

and about the flirting, so many guys think that a bit of harmless flirting doesn't matter, and flirt because it makes both the parties feel good about themselves. since he has a gf, i don't think he's serious about his flirting, so don't take that as a sign.

unless he's single....just treat ur liking for him as a crush. coz seriously, it most likely is, and u wont end up torturin urself.

and trust me, just because u've liked him for over a yr, doesn't mean that it isn't a crush. i had my crush for around 6 yrs! LoL! Like, i had crushes on other ppl during that time, but i still had a crush on him regardless! LoL

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ashson

@ashson

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: bewafa
well it could be love...or just a crush. some crushes go on for longer when we fantasise/romanticise them.

i had a crush on a guy for years and years...and no, it wasn't love. just because the length was long doesn't mean it was love. i got over him. lol can u believe it, i told him i liked him? amd that gave me closure...for some reason. he was my best bud's bro, lol, and she later on told me that he liked me too at some point...and it was like, dangg! 😆

and about the flirting, so many guys think that a bit of harmless flirting doesn't matter, and flirt because it makes both the parties feel good about themselves. since he has a gf, i don't think he's serious about his flirting, so don't take that as a sign.

unless he's single....just treat ur liking for him as a crush. coz seriously, it most likely is, and u wont end up torturin urself.

and trust me, just because u've liked him for over a yr, doesn't mean that it isn't a crush. i had my crush for around 6 yrs! LoL! Like, i had crushes on other ppl during that time, but i still had a crush on him regardless! LoL

no this is definately love :(

that whole year...even know i cant go a day without thinking about him

whenever i see him my heart races & jumps

i get butterflies in my stomach

i care about him loads...his pain is my pain

his happiness is my happiness😳

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ashson

@ashson

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Posted: 17 years ago

and i neva had a crush on anyone after i met him..ive been faithful with him....

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ashson

@ashson

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: -Mystery-
Well, first off, he just has a girl friend. He's not married, right? So you still have hope 😛😉

Ok, on a serious note now, I have never fallen in love so I can't give you much advice but make yourself stronger. Realize that it's not the end of life. Other people are more important too.... I don't know if I can give you more advice. But get yourself absorbed in work and hopefully eventually you'll forget about it.

thanks buddy...i shall divert my mind to other things

pls pray for me

i feel so.........depressed :(

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Mmm

@xsweetbabygyalx

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Posted: 17 years ago

just as mystery said, you still have hope. Stay friends with him until he breaks up with his girlfriend or his girlfriend breaks up with him so you can be his next girlfriend. 😃

continue staying in touch with him. If you want to gi ve it a try, throw him a jealousy test talking about him to him but switching his name around to something else (trust me, that works 😊) to see if he'll get jealous or not. If he will get jealous, he'll talk loud, he'll flirt with other girls just to get you jealous.

If you want to get over him, try to keep yourself busy to try to not think about him. The decision is yours.

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Mmm

@xsweetbabygyalx

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: bewafa
well it could be love...or just a crush. some crushes go on for longer when we fantasise/romanticise them.

i had a crush on a guy for years and years...and no, it wasn't love. just because the length was long doesn't mean it was love. i got over him. lol can u believe it, i told him i liked him? amd that gave me closure...for some reason. he was my best bud's bro, lol, and she later on told me that he liked me too at some point...and it was like, dangg! 😆

and about the flirting, so many guys think that a bit of harmless flirting doesn't matter, and flirt because it makes both the parties feel good about themselves. since he has a gf, i don't think he's serious about his flirting, so don't take that as a sign.

unless he's single....just treat ur liking for him as a crush. coz seriously, it most likely is, and u wont end up torturin urself.

and trust me, just because u've liked him for over a yr, doesn't mean that it isn't a crush. i had my crush for around 6 yrs! LoL! Like, i had crushes on other ppl during that time, but i still had a crush on him regardless! LoL

yea don't take his flirting sign as of him liking you because they enjoy flirting with girls even when they have a gf. My bf flirts with other girls but that doesn't mean that he loves them the way the way he loves me. It gives them a kick in life, I think. I remember my bf used to be romantic and he tried so hard to get his romanticism back so i'm guessing he'll flirt just to get his romanticism back 😆 he wants to get his romanticism back for me but I still think he's a bit romantic though.😆

here are the signs when a guy is into you: he'll remember everything you say, he'll find excuses to spend more time with you, he'll blink a lot, etc.

Edited by xsweetbabygyalx - 17 years ago

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ashson

@ashson

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Posted: 17 years ago

hahah thanks guys! it really helped! =]

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Babi_angel

@Babi_angel

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Posted: 17 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Mystery-
Well, first off, he just has a girl friend. He's not married, right? So you still have hope 😛😉

Ok, on a serious note now, I have never fallen in love so I can't give you much advice but make yourself stronger. Realize that it's not the end of life. Other people are more important too.... I don't know if I can give you more advice. But get yourself absorbed in work and hopefully eventually you'll forget about it.

that is so true hes not married so u still have hope

dnot worry time would tell .

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