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oh so ur aunt wanted to marry your cousin.

they'll get over it, well even if they don't, who cares? it doesn't matter. theyre only pissed off coz their sons didnt end up gettin hitched.
they dont matter.

ur parents do, and hey, ur dad seems to be helpin you out! it'll get better.
but r u sure it takes a yr? try getting advice from a lawyer, maybe they'll be able to help u better. dont rely on a lawyer who lives in pakistan but...get one where u reside. lol.

and what about if u save up and visit him in pakistan instead in time for eid? look ur parents will have to be supportive of u, ur married to him, plus he's successful. they'll get over the fact that u didnt marry ur cousin.

yeh i hate my auntys they hate the fact that wen i was in pakistan earliar this year we were allover each other like joking taking the mick out of each other,,, the fact that we were getting along like a house on fire...plus i live ere in the uk...its like ticket to england 4 my auntys they wanted there sons o cum 2da uk....my rents are kool...but its us we kinda cant stay from each other that long 😉 lol i know were sad people. lol .........im working now (auntys hate that im workin cuz they dont want my hubi cumin ere)i gna be hard to take time off again...ive already had a 4 month holiday 2 get hitched soo.....im praying that the visa is accepted frst time round...... 😭

i understand naz .. yea do talk to your lawyer first though .. I live here in US so it's a bit different here and I think a bit easier.

Like everyone said i would advise you to talk to a lawyer or if you have any friends or if you know anyone that brought their spouse over from Pakistan...you can ask them what you have to do =]

I'd say get a lawyer as soon as possible. You may not fully understand all the legal stuff, but lawyers do so if you can find a good trustworthy lawyer, your husband will be with you in UK alot quicker.