really hating life.. - Page 2

dw fings change n life wud change
dont die its not da solution
face up to ur challenges and u wud get through it.I have been down that road its so much better my lifes better.Forgot the past think of the future the only thing u can make a difference is your future theres no point try to enjoy every small things in life and the big things wud add up.

im guessin you wrote this topic before your family vs bf thing?

and is that matter resolved now?

but u know, many times, when we dwell on a problem, we actually give it more importance and more weight than it actually deserves.

is ur whole life only worth that one single problem? is now ur whole life ruined coz of that one single situation?
think about it, people in this world are right now fighting cancer, with a smile, little kids are suffering from terrible diseases, yet they're fighting. when u put things in perspective, our problems dont seem that huge anymore.

and if u dont think u can talk to any close friends...then ur doing the next best thing, india-forums advice corner! many ppl can offer u different views and suggestions. awesome!

and never think of taking your life! that would be horrible. for all the ppl that love u, u may not realise it right now, but the people u think that dont love you anymore, def. do. if theyve hurt u in anyway, but only those who r close to our hearts can hurt us...and the only ppl close to our hearts are those whom we treasure...so a couple of misunderstandings or a bit of anger should never come in between such special relationships.

and besides, taking ur life coz u cant handle it anymore is running away from problems...u shud be strong and fight for ur survival!

wow! that was reallly deep and u really do have a point! its true ppl have bigger problems than us and we shud always be happy wit wat we have. ur sooo right! i dont knw..i guess im just tired of crying every nite. however, no one knws wat im going thru, cuz im always happy in front of everyone and i dont let anyone knw sumthing is wrong wit me. so yea...thnk u so much for that amazing advice u just gave! like really its like i got a motivation to stay strong and face the problems and feelings. also..my family is fine..they've moved on wit the situation..im getting no problems from them..but its actually another problem wit my bf. sumthing is wrong wit him...and we dont even talk like we used to..we dont even see eachother..and im jus losing my patience dats da reason for my breakdown

hey hey, maybe he's also undergoing some problems...and sometimes with guys, i guess they have to be 'strong' so he's trying to sort out his problems by himself, hence why he isnt confiding in you?

but please don't cry urself to sleep. it wont achieve anything for one thing, and u'll just feel exhausted and in an even more depressed mood. and if ur not happy, dont put on a fake smile. just dont smile...or if u think u can't do that, (yes i understand how we just have to pretend sometimes that nothing is wrong), just spend some time by urself. with ur thoughts. and sort them out.

coz im sure ur sick of crying by now. it exhausts u out. lol.

and with ur bf, tell him that ur always there for him if ever he needs to talk. but don't nag him to tell u whats wrong, he'll come round soon enuf. i mean, he now also has to plan out his life...starting uni and what not. he can see responsibilities ahead of him, so im guessin he's just sorting himself out.

and family life is better now. when u got busted...did u ever think family life would get better?
same situation now, it will get better, just dont lose hope.

and start watching fun movies! and talk to ur frends about u feelings, if u unburden urself u feel better. at least u wont have to fake smile near them then! :D

no..i knw abt my bf's problem. it's sumthing big. and whenever we talk..we fite...so dats y i guess he doesnt talk to me. i jus call his mom n see how he is..dats all. and normally he asks his mom if i called or not n watever. but i jus feel like he's trying to distance himself from me. i really dont knw...i cant even break up wit him..cuz first of all i cant live without him. secondly, i dont wanna hurt him. he's not willing to break up! like i dont knw wats going on! i dont knw wat he wants! and the problem he has is..jus soo hard to understand! sumone did sumthing to him...:(

u know, do one thing, whenever u have problems with him, dont think of breakin up, dont even let that thought come into ur head, coz u dont wanna do something u will regret.

well, just talk to him about other stuff, and dont mention the problem. he's trying to sort it out his way, so let him be with that.
and just talk about normal stuff that u used to, before the problem came up.
and if he wants space, then give it to him.

i dont think he's distancing himself from YOU, i think he's just avoiding the problem, and he knows u will bring it up, and so, just doesnt wanna talk about it. he loves u too much 😃

and yeh, actually try to be happy, coz then maybe ur happiness and optimisim will rub off on him. and just dont bring up the problem. and if he wants space, give it to him. but don't fear the worst! u know he loves u, hell, WE all know he does. 😆 😉

ok i'm off to bed now, it's like 1.45am here! 😆 dangg!

good night! and good luck!

let us know of any updates! 😊

oh wow!! dats really lateeee!! u shud go to sleep! take care! byee! nite nite..sweet dreams! by da way thnk u sooo much for ur great advice! and its 11:48am here! lol..wat a time difference! n e ways! byeee..

n oh yea! i will update u wit watever happens!

just try to keep ur mind away from problems...