Confused ..

hey all.... im actually new here......

well..... i'm very shy n reserved kinda girl...... in school i neva talked with any boy...n now in college....i neva talked to boys...

One boy is ther in my batch who is very social n talks with almost all girls n all boys of our batch. He tried to talk with me too but all i wud ever say is only "hii" so i neva gave him chance to talk more. i had an impression of him tht he likes girls company. then one day he suddenly came to me and asked my cel no. n i was in a shock for a moment not knowing how to respond as i neva talkd 2 ne boy n suddenly a boy is asking my cel no. ... i made an silly excuse n ran away frm ther😳😆.

but then i felt lyk talking with him...i dunno y.... whereever im i search for him around me. then after few days he again askd my no. n i gave him.... after tht we started talking a lot on phone n we became close frnds....n i started liking him a lot....n i came to knw hez such a sweet person...n tht he does talk to some girls but in limits jus as a classmate. ...

But i dunno wat he feels about me....

He talks with me so freely n lyk i share everything...even small small things with him.....wenever im sad i call him up. He cares a lot for me though he doesnt show it or say...but he does it n i feel it.

Even wen im silent...he wud knw tht sumthn is wrong n wud ask me.

even wen i dont speak anything...he wud identify tht its me on phone( wen i calld him frm outside number). but sometimes in college wen i try 2 talk with him he doesnt talk properly....n i feel ignored. ... then wen i dont talk with him... he comes to me and talks or calls me up.I'm so confusd about him....tht wat he thinks abt me?!!!...

Well if u all can help me out i'll appreciate....as im really going mad thinking wat hez thinking abt me!!!😳

hey it's fine too be shy but don't be so shy that your keeping people away from your self, if you want to know how he feels it's simple just start talking to himand get to know him. it's ok if he's a boy he won't bite 😉 good luck

Originally posted by: kuch kuch hota

hey it's fine too be shy but don't be so shy that your keeping people away from your self, if you want to know how he feels it's simple just start talking to himand get to know him. it's ok if he's a boy he won't bite 😉 good luck

thnks dear....but i guess u dint read whole thing properly.... i said tht we talk a lot ...n i share each n everything with him.

But i dunno wat he thinks of me...... only as his close frnd or sumthn else?!!😕😳

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But i dunno wat he thinks of me...... only as his close frnd or sumthn else?!!😕😳

Hi ! I think u need 2 give your self more time .you said he is good friend keep it 2 that and b sure before jumping into a relationship .

U said this is d first guy u ever spoke 2 ,may b its not luv , because he is d first guy u spoke 2 it is very easy 2 get friendship and luv mixed up,b sure before taking any step ,give ur self time 2 understand his feeling and ur's.all d best with what u deside.

I'm not sure but maybe he thinks of u just as a friend. if he never try to get u jealous or mess around with u then maybe just maybe he thinks of u as a friend.

the big question is do u like him more than a friend?

dude!tis guy likey ya man!
😉

Originally posted by: flowertot

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But i dunno wat he thinks of me...... only as his close frnd or sumthn else?!!😕😳

Hi ! I think u need 2 give your self more time .you said he is good friend keep it 2 that and b sure before jumping into a relationship .

U said this is d first guy u ever spoke 2 ,may b its not luv , because he is d first guy u spoke 2 it is very easy 2 get friendship and luv mixed up,b sure before taking any step ,give ur self time 2 understand his feeling and ur's.all d best with what u deside.

ya.....but though hez d first one in boys to whom i talkd... but now i do talk with sum more boys...but only regarding studies or ne work.... but this boy is really very close to me...

neways thnks 4 ur advise😊

Originally posted by: Angeleyes 2

I'm not sure but maybe he thinks of u just as a friend. if he never try to get u jealous or mess around with u then maybe just maybe he thinks of u as a friend.

the big question is do u like him more than a friend?

well....sumtyms he does behave weird n lyk talks with other grls in front of me..... n but wen i avoid him...then he himself comes 2 me n talks...

n as far as im concerned....yes...i think i like him more than frnd... actually...i feel lyk talking 2 him all the tym😳n spending tym with him...😳😳😳

Originally posted by: prithvi lover

dude!tis guy likey ya man!
😉

i too feel so sumtyms....but then i get confusd if he thinks me only as his close frnd?... e told me many tyms tht im his close frnd.... he cares a lot 4 me...😳

ok...
i think he likes u yet mayb not
try to do a few things tht will show u.ask him questions tht mite lead u to it..or make him jealous.unless u still cant talk to any guys
get rly close with him
BECOME HIS BFF
if u think he likes u
thn try to show tht u like him but dont make it too obvious
thn once he thinks tht u like him
thn mayb he'll make the move