Y IIs Life SOO Unfair!!?? Plz Read!

Awwww well if it bothers you- then it is a problem, no matter how big or small you think it is - especially if you feel it's killing you inside.

It always is nice to let out feelings and share them as you feel better.

For your problem, well i guess this is always a common Problem for girls. They see all their mates etc getting married, dating etc and want the same.

Trust time, and in this case your Parents. Have faith in them to find you someone if thats what you want. But not having someone right no, is not the end of the world. In life there wil be plenty of Oppurtunity to meet someone right for you.

The first person that comes along, isn't necessarily the best person.

I am sure, if you wait, you will meet a special person. Just because everyone else has one, is not the bet way to solve such things and yes i can understand that you may seem two faced but it is not really as everyone has these sentiments. If you are genuinely happy thn it is not being two faced, as your problem only is you wis to have someone lse to you also, but i am sure you are still young and have a great long life.

So wait for someone right for you, not just the 1st guy you see, 😳

Just be patient, you never know what is around the corner, just don't getdown about it, as all girls will have this problem i am sure, 😳 and maybe tell some close friends, you never know their BF's mates etc you might get to know and like and so on.

However, being single isn't the end of the world, even if your mates are all dating. Being single has its Advantages😉

Originally posted by: sweet_angel_29

Hi guys...Ok i have neer told neone abt my prom...coz its totally internal & its killing meee....I dnt know if its a prom...but im very lucky person who has 4 best friends in my life..they all hold a very special part in my heart...& we r all the same age...& one of the biggest co-incidence is that they r All getting married this yr 2 of them in Summer & 2 in November...al of them..& Im really very very happy 4 them...they tell me evrything that happens everyday in their life with them & they Guyss....i get 2 hear 4 different stories from all of them everyday....even 2 of my other very good friends r al set 2 get married next yr...my bro who is 2 yrs younger 2 me..is all set 2...so that jst leaves me ... I dnt know y God is doing this 2 me...whenever i hear all their stories or wat they did with their guys....I jst feel when m i gona get there...Everyone is all set in their life...how come im the last & the only one left...i dnt kn ow it feels like im putting in being two faced...really happy 4 them...@ the same time i m soo sad & upset...& it feels like im such a position in my life that i cant share this prom with ne1...none of my friend...not my best friends...not my fam..& its jst kiling me inside...My parents told me that they r gonna start loooking 4 guys soon..but i dnt thnk so....i cry everytime i hang up the phone with each of them...y is life sooo unfair.....WHY????😭 I jst hope i find some1 good in my lifee....

I dont thnk this is a prom...but i seirously needed to let it go...it has been kiling me inside..so decided 2 write it here & share it with u guys...u guys r free 2 comment.& its ok if u dont.....

Thanks for reading it..:D

Originally posted by: Ektas_Angel

Chillax dude the right person will come along at some point remeber theres someone out there for everyone..i am saying this as a single person 😆...i do kind of get how you feel but trust me ok those people attached are having a good time but thats because they are enagaged trust me nothing is rosy for ever especially in relationships if those people were going out with someone trust me the story would be very different amount of times i have heard my friend moan about her bf 😕 😆. Just remeber its only because they are engaged which tends to be one period people do get on really well.

As for your parents trust me if they said they gonna look they will every parents one wish in life and goal is to get their daughter married

Yah i know nothing is rosy...but when i keep hearing all this relationship stuff everytime i answer my phone..it drives me up the wall...it got soo bad that i js stopped answering their calls 4 a few dayss..jst so that ii culd b @ peace...well hopefully jst like them i find some1 soon... yah alotta ppl r prolly thinkng im soo stupid 2 say that...but hwne ur surrpunded by ppl who r always with their BF's...& whne u dont have 1...even though they r ur best frineds....they share everything...i feel ttoally outta place...totally lost..ughhhhhhhhhhhhhh....talking abt it makes me cry!!😭

Originally posted by: devilangel

I have an advice for you...Let It Go!

Stop moping around and whining about how unfair life is. You're not the only one with problems, and not everyone's whining about it. Surely it didnt take you this long to figure out that life is ALWAYS unfair? How do you expect something to happen if you dont work for it? Do you expect that suddenly a guy will fall from the earth and you can get married and live happily ever after like a romance novel? That doesnt happen. This might be very harsh, but you need to face reality. And from your post, I'm not even sure you know what you want. It seems to me that you just want to have something about yourself to tell your friends. Figure out what you want. Do you want to get married? or do you want a job or career? And whatever you want, work on it and work hard to get it. And stop comparing your life to cinderella type romances. As I said, it doesnt happen.

And if you need to really talk and can face whats real, PM me.

I do know wat i want in life..& im @ a point in my life where im ready 2 settle..thats y im complaining abt it..its not like im 18 yrs old & want a cinderalla type romance...im more matured than that.....but im @ a point that i want 2 b settled like others who r my age....thats y i made this post....& im very well aware of the reality....life is not easy i know it...

Originally posted by: anon

Awwww well if it bothers you- then it is a problem, no matter how big or small you think it is - especially if you feel it's killing you inside.

It always is nice to let out feelings and share them as you feel better.

THANK you!! i really needed to let it out..& thats y posted my prom..im not a person who loves 2 talk abt myself...infact i hate talking abt myself....but i thnk i was @ a point where i needed 2....

For your problem, well i guess this is always a common Problem for girls. They see all their mates etc getting married, dating etc and want the same.

yah i know...but when u have 4 friends & thats 2 best friends...its a BIGGER promblem...

Trust time, and in this case your Parents. Have faith in them to find you someone if thats what you want. But not having someone right no, is not the end of the world. In life there wil be plenty of Oppurtunity to meet someone right for you.

The first person that comes along, isn't necessarily the best person.

I am sure, if you wait, you will meet a special person.

Have my fingers crossed.... hae meet a couple of wrong guys...

Just because everyone else has one, is not the bet way to solve such things and yes i can understand that you may seem two faced but it is not really as everyone has these sentiments. If you are genuinely happy thn it is not being two faced, as your problem only is you wis to have someone lse to you also, but i am sure you are still young and have a great long life.

So wait for someone right for you, not just the 1st guy you see, 😳

Just be patient, you never know what is around the corner, just don't getdown about it, as all girls will have this problem i am sure, 😳 and maybe tell some close friends, you never know their BF's mates etc you might get to know and like and so on..

They all take me 2 their parties & stuff..jst so that i culd meet ppl...& get in their "club" but i feel more weird that way....im jst hoping something good is anrd the corner rite now...& yah im 100% sure its a lottaaa gurls prom....& surpirsingly i fall under that catergory rite now..😭

However, being single isn't the end of the world, even if your mates are all dating. Being single has its Advantages😉

Originally posted by: IceFire

lol wow that was cute. well marriage is not something that you have to do right away ;) i myself is engaged though and my fiance and i aren't rushing into getting married yet.

Aww congrats...well im sure ur not rushing coz u have other priorities..& 4 me i dnt....@ the moment no i dont..my life is going smooth...& the nly thing lacking is that "some1"

hey don't feel bad the right guy will come along, if you keep on thinking about it than than that's al that's ever going to be on your mind, so try to stop thinking about it and watch you'll meet someone, don't stress about it, think about all the other wonderful things that are going on in your life, don't worry about it 🤗🤗