I like a 21-year old guy!!!!!! - Page 2

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Dear...As everyone is saying...You are too young...the things u must face now is studies and responsiblities...

He is 21...You are way younger than him...This is a crsuh which sometimes turn into obsession... And remember ur 14 yet...u have a long life still...and he is not the only guy that you will fall for...I am sure there is a guy for u but not now, later when ur older and wiser.

For now, you have to get over him. the only way u can get over him is to avoid him. Dont mail him, dont think abt him. get ur mind in some other activties...

Take Care

~Mona 😛
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Posted: 17 years ago
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aww dats so sad my friend was goin through the sme prob. the best fing to do is trty n focus on other stuff like spend time wit family n friends u wud eventually get over him cos u wud forgot bout him i no it sounds impossible but the fact is u wud meet someone else. your young n st ill got time try not to rush fings. you wud soon get ur life bak to normal. gd luk
and try to keep ur mind of fings. keep us posted. have fun.
gd luk
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree wid what everyone else is sayin... you have sooo much time! your 14! .. and ur just obsessing over him 'coz of his looks... dude one day, your prince WILL come and he will be waayy better loooking than the 21 yr.old... and it will be true luv.. but it will come when the time is right...right now... just study!!... i kno i sound old, but im 14 too! and i obsessed over a very cute older looking dude too once, but i kno that i dont luv him or anything... i barely even knew him!! lol!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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just keep him in ur dreams that will make u feel better 😃
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadia_lahori

i think u r just attracted to him not in love with him and ur too young to date aswell and one more thing i must tell u i have this cousin who agreed to marrie a guy just because he was very handsome and every body knewd about his chracterr my father fored them to say no but my cousin insisted and got married u know that sooo called handsome man mad her life HELL and now my own sister she got married to a doctor not good looking but u know wht she is V.HAPPY with her life soo tell wht u want

👏👏👏 u inspired meee 😆😆 i guess ur parents do kno bttrr..

&& as for the one who started this post..

well i can understand hes DROP DEAD GOREGOUS..but u rele dnt lyk him u jus think hes CUTE..nd well i think my frnds brother is soo HOT.. nd i even tell him all the time tht hes hot.. but we both kno tht nuthin is gunna happen..&& i dnt even lyk him lyk tht i jus think hes HOTT 😆😆 soo well i guess u can EMAIL him wit ur real ID nd real information n juss b lyk "HEYYYY itss meeee ( urr frnds cuzins blah ) n juss b lyk "do u kno ur rele hott" nd he'll probably b lyk thnku .. nd eventually u'll realize its nuthin but an attraction... nd u will juss becum frnds 😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hey -- Well the only thing I can say is, YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE!😆 I mean come one, it's obvious you think he's hot & drop, dead gorgeous but that doesn't mean you're in love! Well for once, I think lots of guys are cute/hot but that doesn't make me "in love" with them. Like everyone else said, I think you should just forget this guy and stop e-mailing him. Just b/c he's somewhat hot doesn't mean you should waste your life over this one guy. You're only 14 and you will def. know when you're in love...but this is just an obsession. Try to move on with your life and forget him. If you lie about your age and all, you don't wanna give him the wrong impression. So I think you should just forget about him & move on with life...

--Hope I helped!😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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i have the same problem and i liked a 19 year old and i am
going to be 16 in jan the guy was cute and everything but when i think about the age i was like he is older than me
so i just tried to forget him it,s pretty easy don.t think about him think about someone is better than him and believe me there are guys better than him at ur age and u are not really in love u just got attracted to him and just try to get hold urself like not email him and look around u will find a better guy at ur age that u really love it will kinda take time but u will have to be patience but u will get over with it.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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just tell the truth i think he will understand bcoz he is mature enough to undersatand u and tell him all your problem
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hey guys age difference doesnt mean alot..... i agree that she is tooo younger to get into these things but if u people are saying that he is way older than her then it is not right, age difference doesnt matter. but i must say that u've gotta know him very well, love his nature not his looks coz he may became ugly but his heart will be the same.... and i dont offence u that u r too younger for this love problems.....kehte hain na pyaar umer ko nahin dekhta, pyar to kisi chote bache ya boorhe ko bhi hosakta hai there is no boundary of age in love coz ap beshak bache ya boorhe ho but apka dil to jawan hota hai aur kabhi bhi kisi bhi umer mein apko pyaar hosakta hai.... it doesnt matter baby..... enjoy your life. but meri advice apko yehi hai k uss ka nature jano...kya woh sharif and decent hai??? cozz jo bohat ziada cute and stunning boys hote hain woh sometimes kharab hote hain. mere sath aisa ho chuka hai. mujhe ek cute boy se pyaar hua tha v became friends but us ka nature nahi acha tha he was only cute but he was not a good and simple thats why mein ne usse chor diya. nature mean a lot than looks.......

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mahnoor
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Heyyy..... it often happens at dis age ..when u r arnd 13 or 14 ... u start finding guys cute and gorgeous..u seem to fall for someone handsome and think u r in love.... It will pass honey...And meybe after some time u'll think about this guy and say to urself 'how silly i was' 😊
ITs happened to me too.....ive had serious crushes wen i was 13 but now it only makes me laugh..
But at that time its great..
U find him gorgeous,ull even enjy dreaming abt him and i know its great.. but dont do anything serious plsss..

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