WHAT CAN YOU DO IN THIS LOVE SITUATION??

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Posted: 18 years ago
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hi guys !!

i just wanted to know what can you do if you find out that the person you love more than anything in this world and you going to marry and live with that person and you find out that she loves someone else??please guys help me out

thanx alot

JIGBAB😭

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Posted: 18 years ago
#2
Your question is too general
Can u specify a bit more like
Yr n her age, arranged or love marriage

How did u find out that she loves someone else?
Why is she marrying u? (any kind of pressure)
Is the marriage date very near?
How is her reaction to u? (polite,adoring,respect)

Without such inf.it is difficult to answer

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Posted: 18 years ago
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You should confront her about it. Ask her why is she doing dis marriage. Is she sure that she will be able to love u after marriage. And then decide. 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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well, you really only have 2 choices...

either let her go, or confrot her like Pooja said :)
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Posted: 18 years ago
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marriage is a relationship of trust and love. she doesn,t love u. just ask her if she really loves someone then u should let her go cuz
it,s really hard to spend a life with a person who doesn,t love u. in marriage u have to stay with each other ur whole life so it,s really important decision. just let her go cuz it,s no use of a spending a life with a person who loves someone else. she going to be unhappy and so u are too and this going to create lots of problems in ur marriage life.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I disagree here. Its not hard to spend life wid sum1 who doesnt love u, bec lets not forget 80% marriages in eastern countries are still arranged and happy marriages. Its difficult to spend ur life wid sum1 who loves sum1 else. 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: cool_pooja

I disagree here. Its not hard to spend life wid sum1 who doesnt love u, bec lets not forget 80% marriages in eastern countries are still arranged and happy marriages. Its difficult to spend ur life wid sum1 who loves sum1 else. 😊


i agree with you. i messed it up. 😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think u shuld confront her.. talk abt it! n u can find a solution to ur problem.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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you need to talk to her
marriage isnt a boyfriend girlfriend relationship
tell her how you feel and shell tell you how she feels
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Posted: 18 years ago
#10

Oh yes, it will be very hard to spend life with someone who loves someone else. And, how are you guys engaged (or decided to get married) when you know the person loves someone else?

Well anyway, like everyone said, talk to the person openly and let your feelings out and if you are totally sure that your feelings are not being reciprocated, then just let it go. It is better to start life over again, then to mourn over someone who does not love you!

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