How do i tell him the truth??!!!-i said it!! - Page 2

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Good luck Niki! Let us know what happen's :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: niki_09

kk guys.thanxx for ur suggestions😊......ill tell him soon.........lets c whl hppn...........😔..wish me luck ppl.........i need it...........

Good luck plz tell us wat will happen!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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the longer you take to tell him, the harder it will get for you...itd best if you do it sooner
When you get it out, atleast you wont feeel guilty anymore
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Tell him! It's the best thing u can do!
If he does really like you then surely he cannot get that mad at you!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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First and foremost, your "joke" was ridiculous. Yes, how's about we call some random person, give a fake name, and then have him tell us all the emotions, thoughts, confusions, anxieties, fears, and anger that goes throughout his mind? I cannot believe that someone can even do that to another.

Besides that, you should have told him the truth a long time ago. You have created a space in his mind, and he thinks you are his friend. I guess late is better than never, however. Tell him now, and understand that you should expect him to be angry with you. Don't expect to ever associate yourself with that person after that ridiculous joke you played on him.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I'm gonna say what pretty much everyone else said.
You seem to be falling for this guy and he seems to be falling for you too. Imagine a few weeks/months down the line IF he does ask you out and then you decide to come clean with him and tell him 'Oh btw, just for the info..my name is really...' If a guy did something like that to me, I would be scared to trust him again, even if it is something small like that. I would think he's be flirting with me for the last few weeks or whatever but he's not serious.

Just explain your situation to him. Tell him that you're sorry you lied to him but express your feelings for him and tell him how much you appreciate how close you both are now and how you want to continue being good friends. :) (or maybe something a little more? hehe)

The longer you hide this from him, the more it will hurt him when you tell him the truth.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: UDman

First and foremost, your "joke" was ridiculous. Yes, how's about we call some random person, give a fake name, and then have him tell usall the emotions, thoughts, confusions, anxieties, fears, and anger that goes throughout his mind? I cannotbelieve that someone can even do that to another.


Besides that, you should have told him the truth a long time ago. You have created a space in his mind,and he thinks you are his friend.I guess late is better than never, however. Tell him now, and understand that you shouldexpect him to be angry with you. Don't expect to ever associate yourself with that person after that ridiculous joke you played on him.


i understand dt.im a idiot dt i did dt.i noe..i don expect anything in return frm him nthng........at all........its okk if he hates me......coz i deserve dt..........ill just tell him d truth.........i cant do this anymore....... 😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well if ur gonna tell him tell him soon!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I hope he forgives you so that you can start over without any lies or secrets :)
But let this be a lesson for next time ;)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Aww I hope he forgives you and things are smooth in b/w you too!:)

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