To make the long story short, my boyfriend's following his ex on twitter but doesn't comment on her status then I searched her on twitter and came across a different profile of hers from which I sawed in his profile but she's not following him and he's not following me =[ and I think she has 2 profiles there but he also has a Facebook profile and I've send him a friend request then he told me that he ignored the requests I've send him in his private profile because either he was scared or being plain old dumb so he opened another fb profile and accepted my friend request but he doesn't have his ex there and I believe he doesn't have his ex on his private profile either because I can see his friends list via google. I've sawed only 3 pics of him with his ex on fb- one on family reunion in 2009 where he gave her a piggyback ride and 3 at a party but he wasn't holding her hand or anything, they were just standing together and in one pic he was sticking his tongue out but it seemed as if he was hiding from the camera.
I think he might not know how to remove her from his contact list in his email inbox because he does mention he isn't really good with technology so when he opened his twitter account, he probably imported his contacts from his inbox. From what he told me about his ex, she slapped him a lot for apparently no reason, threw his very first Valentine's rose bouquet straight into the trash can because she wasn't happy and they lived together for 2 1/2 years and he found me in their 1 1/2 year relationship (this is our 5th year) but they lived a lot like brother and sister and he was irritated by her but after the breakup, he found the irritating things she did cute. We started out as friends then things became serious.
The other day he mentioned I'm the girl who he would love to date. I hate seeing her on his profiles. He was upset with me not talking about our wedding for almost 2 years in a row so he threw me a jealousy test a week ago. Today on his fb page, I sawed he celebrated holi with her and the rest of his friends. I din't told him about this and I don't know if I should but I'm getting paranoid. He doesn't compare me with her or talk about her a lot, he mostly talks about dating and marrying me. He's sweet and caring in our relationship. I think he's just friends with her but I'm not sure.
Am I worrying too much for no reason?
I'd really appreciate your help =)
Edited by xsweetbabygyalx - 15 years ago