b/f vs a complete stranger?

Problem: My mom's friend semi-brainwashed my mom in letting me marry an ILLEGAL immigrant n nt my b/f who will b visiting US in February jst bcz my mum dzn truss my b/f.....my dad married my mum fr immigration only n ws a vry abusive husband n father.....jst bcz my b/f dinT gave me his own phone number bcz i kpt forgetting to ask him buh v stay in touch thru emails, she kps makin excuses fr me to never meet him.....he will b visiting Vegas n hs invited me to cum fr a holiday since I never go anywhere n am alwys busy @ home.....he understands my house circumstances, thats y he hs invited me to holiday w/him in Vegas to gt away frm my all day stress....im kp askin my mum to let me go fr a holiday buh she kps gtn angry.....tht ILLEGAL immigrant is her friend's son's friend buh i barely know him or evr met him....she mentioned abt my b/f to her friend n her friend said tht he will divorce me so becareful like Pakistani hubbies dont divorce or torture their wives n tht illegal immigrant dzn hve any1 besides his own cousin.....i've known my b/f fr 4yrs n ds May is gna b the 5th n he proposed me few times n hez vry serious in marrying me n abt me.....my b/f evn mentioned abt sponsoring hmslf whn v gt married cz he understands my financial situation....hez alwys full of surprises where he alwys surprise me all of a sudden.....she kps arguin w/me to nvr visit him.....the vegas opportunity is perfect since i cant visit him in India so i planned on driving there instead of takin a flight due to my financial issues.....shez worried abt me nt bein able to mke it to my doc appoinment on time which wont happen since im plannin to leave Vegas a few dys early to mke it on time n wha if my b/f dzn show up at tht hotel.....shez so insecure in lettin me live my life d way i want to evn tho im 23 goin on 24.....evrytime i listen to her, i alwys end up in a huge mess.....i told my b/f the hotel i will b stayin at n he replied bck to my email sayin we'll meet @ tht hotel buh my mum dzn believe he will b there n i will mke it on time.

I personally think you should go see him.... i mean u cant get married 2 someone you dont even know and i understand how u feel rite now?? and ur not the only one who is going through that --- there are a lot of other people who go through something ur going through.

Originally posted by: pearls1124

I personally think you should go see him.... i mean u cant get married 2 someone you dont even know and i understand how u feel rite now?? and ur not the only one who is going through that --- there are a lot of other people who go through something ur going through.

I also think ur bf is serious about you b/c if he wasn't serious. he would've stopped talkin 2 u long time ago bt no that didnt happen... so dont worry everithing will be aiirite okay.......

I know ur mom cares bout u a lot but she needs 2 understand that, she needs 2 let u live ur own life since ur 23 year old u know what i'm sayin. if she doesn't get it then jus go meet him up b/c u mite jus lose beautiful and honest soul....... plus someone who loves you alot :)

Thanx 😊 I kno I cant marry sum1 I dont kno esp whn v nvr evn met or sawed each othr....I fink he might b a yr or 2 younger thn me buh I dont wna marry a younger guy cz i prefer marryin an older guy.....yea Thank GOD tht he still talx to me n I noticed hez gtn serious each yr.....i kno wha ure sayin.....thts wha all my relatives kp tellin me to do zwell.....thats wha im plannin to do - jst c him in cse cz wha if hez a gr8 soul....

No problem girl any time aiirite..........