Cheater Cheater :(

okay so the story's pretty typical but i don't know what to do :(
so i'm a typical girl who fell in love :$
and as usual, my parents disliked the guy so the told me to break up with him
however, i thought he was my one and only and proceeded to running away from home and marrying him
anyways, we've been married for 2 years now and things haven't been goin so well :/
i thought it's probably cuz we're still studying so we don't have stable careers so we're often stressed out and whatnot.. but that's not the problem
the problem is he doesn't want me anymore.. :(
i was checking through his texts the other day and found out she's cheating on me :(
i tried to talk to him about it but now he's threatening to leave me and he told me to get outta his life.
he wants a divorce.. but what am i supposed to do?
i still love him so much and i've got no where to go
i left my family for him and now he wants to leave me :/

what do i do? :(
helppp

aww....vaishali...its good u bought it here... already know my view...jus give him the divorce..hes not worth u...the little scumbag...leave him nd then hell find out what he lost out on...

but :( i can't bring myself to getting over him...

Awe vaishali....i really und ur situation..but i think there must be some reason behind his this rude behaviour...1st of all both of u love each other right?..so try to talk to him...giving divorce can never be a wise decision as far as i thnk coz u love him...so u must find out whatz his problem..u can stay away frm him fr some time but plz dont give him divorce so early..its not a good solution..i really feel this..i guess as u both r studying n dnt still have a stable career there may be lotz of tensions itz natural..but divorce is not the solution..try to sort out the problem..u should behave like a mature sensible girl..aftrall marriage is a big thing..u cant leave him like this without any explanation as u left everything for him..

aw sweetie i'm so sorry to hear that, but i think that if he's cheating and he doesn't want to talk or try to work things out you should give him that divorce, b/c trust me you'll find someone a million times better than him that will love you all your life and not run away when things get hard. Good luck with everything, and keep us updated :).

Vaish,

I am deeply concerned about your troubles.

I think you should go back to your family bc they will always love you.

So if you need someone to talk to, i can assist,

Originally posted by: cute_bear

aww....vaishali...its good u bought it here... already know my view...jus give him the divorce..hes not worth u...the little scumbag...leave him nd then hell find out what he lost out on...

true panda,

things like this should be taken slowly,
but i believe if a guy cant relaize his gift, or wife, then he shouldnt have her...

Originally posted by: aish_punk

Aww Vaishali! I seriosly think u shudnt have run n married him..! Especially since u both are still studying..!

n now that you're married..n u truly love him..I dont think giving divorce would be the right thing..he cant just stop wanting u..he loved u n tats y agreed 2 marry u!

There must be some reason why he's cheating on u..so try n find out d reason..n sort things out..!

i agree he definitely loved you or else he wouldn't marry you, guys are afraid of commitment and he kept with it so you know he loves you and an affair cant erase the feelings he has they may be taken over for a little while because you said you two are studying and stressed...give him your time......whatever he wants he may not be getting from you...that's probably why hes cheating on you but i may be wrong...if i am i say you divorce him cause then he isn't worth you...everyone is right