What should i tell my best friend

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Maan-Diwani

@Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 16 years ago

Hi so i need some help.

My best friend broke up with her boyfriend a month ago. She always suspected him of cheating on her and when she did confront him about it he never spoke up. So finally she got fed up and dumped him (i was happy because i hated the way he treated her).

But recently he's been phoning and texting her and she didn't reply back. But yesterday she found out from him aunt that he's in the hospital because he hasn't eaten for a few days, and he was outside in the cold trying to call here, and he's fallen really sick.

So I've told her that she should go visit him and see how he's doing but when she goes she should lay it on the ground that she is only here to see how he's doing and it doesn't mean that she wants to get back together with him.

So what should she do? what should i tell her to do?

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missynhassy

@missynhassy

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Posted: 16 years ago

hey i reckon u shud tell her 2 tke sum 1 wiv her like a lad or sum 1 or sum1 elder n tell her it l b ok its posesive ness unless the guy is willin 2 sort himself out 4 her 4 gud

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dream

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Posted: 16 years ago

Yea i think she should go to visit him just as a friend..she can take her frnds & i feel u can go with her as u knw abt them well.. :-)

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xox.iloveyou

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Posted: 16 years ago

Awww..

i think she should visit him but as frendzz thoo..

but if he WAS cheating on herr den how come hes acting this waayy.. waiting in da cold, getting sicckk, not eatiinngg??

too me it seems as if he wasnt cheating on her and actually relle liked heeer.

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Mmm

@xsweetbabygyalx

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Posted: 16 years ago

she should definitely visit him but i think you should go with her. His behavior pattern tells me that he's upset and he loves her a lot. Believe me, no guy would do this for all girls, just for the girl who he really likes.

From my own personal experience, yes my bf did cut his wrist once but he kept trying to hide his bandage, it was kinda big though, bigger than his watch. He cut his wrist because he felt guilty of hurting my feelings and getting me upset. I remember I broke up with my boyfriend once, he did got upset but he was kinda possessive and asked me to come back in the relationship in his cute hilarious way.

May be tell your best friend that you wouldn't mind going to see him with her but tell her that she doesn't have to get back together with him, she can visit him as if she's visiting a friend.

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Mahi

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Posted: 16 years ago

Well, people rarely ever change. So if he was like that in the beginning the chances are that he'll be like that. So don't expect change and that's why there's no point is starting the relationships again.

BUT as friends and as a human being she should go at least visit him because he's sick. Make sure he's not acting and just playing with her emotions.

She should go visit him but she should also clear it that she is not thinking about him anymore.

-Mahi

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Eran

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Posted: 16 years ago

^^^Ditto- couldn't have said it better. It would also be good if a friend of his could talk to him about his situation.

EraN😊

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lovepreet

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Posted: 16 years ago

I also think that she should go visit him.........

Infact I think they may broke up bt they can still be friends bt I know some people don't believe in that which is ok.....

she should just go there and tell him that there is nothing between em and everything is done.... she only came as a friend.............

I don't think she should patch up with him b/c its not easy to forget someone that easily bt if she goes back 2 him again its gonna be harder for her later on if he didn't change.............

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Maan-Diwani

@Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 16 years ago

thanks every1 4 the advice

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Aditi

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Posted: 16 years ago

#10

She should visit him, but on a friendly basis. If he treated her badly, I don't think she should go back to him as in a relationship and I also think you should go with her so that he doesn't do anything like emotional blackmailing....

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