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Sarah

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Posted: 17 years ago

Never knew abt the advise corner....hoping som1 wioll help me now!

well, I'm in 11th and I seriosuly need to study but I'm d sort of person who wants to enjoy all the time! I just can't concentrate! Well I guess I shud just STUDY! problem is I CAN'T.

This has been happening ever since di got married when I was in 10th....I'm like totally dependent on her...I know I know....I shud learn not to be...but I can't help it!

Didi had to come back for my public exams....after she came back I actually studied and got good marks in the public exams....I've just got this thing that I can't study without her....

it's been over a year since she got married....I shud've learnt by now....

But I still miss her a lot.....I just dont know what to do at times.....

And I'm the worst best friend ever....

I just dont know what to do to help my best friend.....I love her a lot, I can't see her sad....

she's depressed abt studies and all that.....

and some days back I thot it wud be funny to post some funny pix of hers on facebook....she got angry...

I'm feeling sooo guilty......I can't take it...I hate myself.....

why do I always mess up things!!!!!!

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shobbybee

@shobbybee

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Posted: 17 years ago

Hi Zuman.. I m shobby.. even I just got to know about advice corner..

thats a MajOr prob evry1 face I guess.. S T U D Y... hehe

I used to b dependent too.. as I really need pushing...

but now am trying to change a lil.. I had a lecture just now.. n I was really impressed by those words my proff said.. CHANGE CHANGE CHANGE!!! thats what we need to do..

U are what u are.. Evrything lies on u.. erm Have u watched Kabhi Kushi Kabhi gham.. that's a good movie to watch.. It really motivated me.. Shah Rukh will say *when u are scared or lose confidence, just think about your parents and u will gain your confidence*

well, just leave everything.. sit down n think

what is really distracting u.. do u need pushing??

as for me.. I used to have demotivated people around me..

now, I am just on my own.. n I m close to my lecturers n they motivate me.. stick some motivation quotes in ur study room.. pray before studying..

most important thing .. just think hard y u are actually schooling..

u don't wanna regret later by not doing well now..

If only U have done well maybe u would have the chance to become a Doctor, unfortunately ur laziness has caused u to just do some 9-5 office job..

stay motivated,,

mistakes are always part n parcel of life

as for ur fren, seek an apology from her..

try to prove her that u will never do such thing ever again..

I know she has a big heart to forhive u.. dun worry much

past is past.. plan for the future.. and do well at present..

I hope this would help u😛

ps: i am not good at writing.. sorry for any grammatical or vocab errors.

pm me if anything sweetie.. keep smiling

luv,

shobby

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Babi_angel

@Babi_angel

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Posted: 17 years ago

dats the same problem with me : (

I cant concentrate either !!!!!!

Edited by Babi_angel - 16 years ago

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-Pinky-

@-Pinky-

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: shobbybee

U are what u are.. Evrything lies on u.. erm Have u watched Kabhi Kushi Kabhi gham.. that's a good movie to watch.. It really motivated me.. Shah Rukh will say *when u are scared or lose confidence, just think about your parents and u will gain your confidence*

i have actually done that in the past. but didnt work😆

zuman.. i have the same problem. just cant study!!!!!!!!!!.... but u gotta do what u gotta do.. so i guess..force urself..i dunno

about ur friend.. apologize to her n i m sure she will forgive u..

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91118

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Posted: 17 years ago

What I suggest is that you make a schedule to follow, especially during exams and finals.

Allot time periods for specific subjects, and when you finish studying/doing homework within that subject, put a check mark in your schedule. If you don't finish it, due to laziness or lack of time, put a very large X through it. Trust me, as the number of X's increase, it'll start to make you feel guilty and you will sit down and study.

About your friend, just remove those pictures and tell her you are extremely sorry! :)

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shobbybee

@shobbybee

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: inavars
What I suggest is that you make a schedule to follow, especially during exams and finals.

Allot time periods for specific subjects, and when you finish studying/doing homework within that subject, put a check mark in your schedule. If you don't finish it, due to laziness or lack of time, put a very large X through it. Trust me, as the number of X's increase, it'll start to make you feel guilty and you will sit down and study.

About your friend, just remove those pictures and tell her you are extremely sorry! :)

wow .. I really liked that idea.. may be i Should try that.. thanks😉

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shobbybee

@shobbybee

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: -Pinky-

i have actually done that in the past. but didnt work😆

zuman.. i have the same problem. just cant study!!!!!!!!!!.... but u gotta do what u gotta do.. so i guess..force urself..i dunno

about ur friend.. apologize to her n i m sure she will forgive u..

hehe.. I know it's easy to tell others than doing it urself..

I think Inavars suggestion is the best..

But K3G is a really good movie to motivate u😉

it worked on me😃

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Mahi

@-Mystery-

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Posted: 17 years ago

Aww.... don't take all these things too seriously and give yourself a break, dear! These things are part of life.

Now by no means did I say that don't take studying seriously because it is a really important part of life and whatever you do today will determine what you will and can do tomorrow in your future so it's really imnportant that you pay attention to studies. I guess I can't relate to you in a way because I only have one brother and I have always been only dependent on myself and that's all. But I guess sometimes in life even if you are dependent on someone else, you have to move on and learn to be independent.

Whenever you're sitting down to study, remind yourself what will happen if you do well. Your parents will be proud of you and so will be your sister. You'll end up doing well in classes and maybe when you graduate you'll get a good job or get into a better college. I know one exams is not going to affect your future but if you think like that for everything you have to study for, you'll end up studying and not just not wanting to study. All the best in that!

An about posting pics and your best friend got angry, don't worry honey it keeps happening to so many people. We don't realize that it might hurt someone in fact we have noble intentions and something we do ends up hurting our friends. So we apologize. I know it feels miserable but let her know that you only wanted to make her laugh and if you are good friends then I am sure she'll understand. And just doing such a thing once doesn't make you a bad friend. Of course you are a nice and caring friend. That's why you're bothered by the fact that your one act made your friend angry.

-Mahi

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UDman

@UDman

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Posted: 16 years ago

Being able to study takes time to get good at, so I don't really know what to say about that

As for your friend, if you apologize to her and ask how you can help, that's the best solution...

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Ophelia

@Ophelia

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Hello zuman 😊

I'm a nerd so I think I can help you with studying. I don't think your sister's presence helps you in your studying technique itself. I think you like to have her company before you start to study. I like to watch my favorite show before I study. My idea would be to call your sister before you begin studying and tell her to encourage you (tell her to say your the best and can do anything you set your mind to etc.) As for studying technique most studying is just memorization of facts so look at a sentence and then repeat it five or more times in your mind without looking at the book.

I think you should write a public apology to your friend on the site where you posted the funny videos. Also have your other friends write on the site that the videos weren't that bad.

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