Too much of tongue lashing, Vidya.....

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Sowmya

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Posted: 16 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: pennu

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tropickiss

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Posted: 16 years ago

#12

I don't think vidya is not wrong. It will take her time to forgive aditya completely because what he did is really unforgiveable. Remember vidya gave up everything to be with him, but he cheated her. it is only natural for her to be upset.

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skeptical

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Posted: 16 years ago

#13

Hi folks,

I am not saying Vidya hasn't been hurt. She has been tremendously hurt by the very man to whom she had given her soul. She has also put aside all her pride and suffering and returned to her home to keep her son happy. Adit has been a cad, there's no doubt about that.

Nobody is going to forgive him for what he did. Neither Vidya nor us.

He has fallen to his knees and asked for forgiveness and even hinted that it was p'haps nothing but a one night's stand 🤢. He even thought of putting Angel in the orphanage so that Vidya and Abhi could return. 😡 💔

Vidya stopped him from doing so and told him why Antara should be made to suffer when the mistake was solely his. We all agreed to that argument as well and applauded her.

Vidya has been told by Adit that his daughter is autistic and would remain like what she was for the rest of her life........ quiet and introverted. I think Vidya had that much sense to realise that something was wrong, but she was fighting her own inner battles to really realise the gravity of the situation.

When Adit the next day yells at Billo for calling his child "mad" she admonishes the child and tells him not to say ill things like that. Good work Vidya.

In my opinion, she was at least somewhat aware that Antara had a problem. In a fit of rage, she tells Adit that he is the cause of her condition. That was not justified. I thought she had gone a bit overboard with that remark. It was totally uncharacteristic for her to have said such a thing, since she's shown as being level headed and kind hearted.

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Padmajaan

@Padmajaan

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Posted: 16 years ago

#14

Yes I agree with skep. Even I felt that it was really hitting below the belt to an already tormented and visibly shaken man who we must admit is a great human being otherwise maybe a little weak in the sense of not being able to say no, a bit unsure of himself, an introvert and a very soft-hearted person.

I understand what Vidya is going through as well especially since she is also filled with even more turmoil ever since she knows that she is expecting but she decided to come back and should try to restore normalcy soon given the fact that she is concerned about aditya as it comes out quite clearly.

As for forgiving aditya my opinion also is that if she chose to come back whatsoever may be the reason thereof she should try to forgive and possibly forget because it is quite clear that she is the one aditya so truly loves and because he is so genuinely contrite. He didnt tell her about what happened because as most men go, he is weak, doesnt wish to disbalance the applecart and doesnt want to see vidya hurt. Most men are like this and they want to avoid scenes over and above anything else.

Even I felt very very bad about what she said especially at that given moment and juncture and context.

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manalee

@manalee

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Posted: 16 years ago

#15

First , i think vidya is unaware about antara's condition...secondly she is confused and at the same time she is dissapointed as i think she is pregnant and she can't even cnvey this news to adi,remember she tells to adi ''mujhe tumse bohot jaruri baat karni hai'' but adi tells her that what he wants to tell is more imp,about antara....i think vidya gets heartbroken at this statement of adi,she may be thinking that now adi is nly concerned about antara.... And next morning i think both adi and vidya are not in thier proper state of mind to react imagine adi condition where he comes to know about his child autism and vidya's condition where she cannot even share her news of pregnancy to her husband i think what both reacted was not wrong taking in mind the conditions.

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Bugger

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Posted: 16 years ago

#16

hi skep ...wassup buddy ??:)) i m here again to reply though my views r a bit different here

.....ok after reading every post here .....i think vidya did got a bit rude here but i will give her a benefit of doubt!!

if u see the situation frm diff angle ....vidy told adi tht there is no use of taking out anger on tht child as teh mistake is solely yours!!

the way of saying mite b wrong but i guess wat she said was rite!!

there was actually no use of shouting at a child.......he has to accept teh situation as he has to take care of antara also. he cant stop ppl frm talking...........and cuz of his one mistake vidya's whole world came crashing down and cuz of him everyone is suffering!! tht is the truth!!

i can undertstand adi's state of mind and his reaction on billu but we hav to consider vidya's state of mind too when even she is going thru the most diffucult times!! she can hav her mood swings too after all she is staying wit a man who cheated on her and a girl who alwayz make her remember of tht betrayal!she is kind -hearted but she is a human too!!! why alwayz woman has to be considerate even when she is teh one who is suffering !! aditya is also suffering but he is repenting for his mistake!! wat is vidya's mistake??

its juss her frustration tht is cuming out on adi as it is still difficult for her to accept her husbands dhoka and tht child!! i think its only human to behave like tht!!

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sasha722

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Posted: 16 years ago

#17

My Pov i didn;t feel dat there was to much of
tongue lashing , it was quiet natural
if we go to c she planned to go 4 fly dinner
& she wanted to tell Adi about her pregnancy
she was trying to forget the past & wanted
to restart her fly as she is aware dat adi loves her
& vice versa
when he gets up from d bad dream & runs about frantically to find antra
she holds him & tells dat she fine & she with kids playing carrom
but adi is so much is his thoughts he goes to room & hugs Antra
His own son abhi face is fallen he feel deprive of his father hug or love
in dat fit her anger accumulated and she bambared by using a slang tongue
dats my pov dats very natural to spit out anger
but i feel she mells down by her mother affection
(not terminate preg)
i feel the creatives r doing gud job by showing to the pt what is about AKA

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poetic

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Posted: 16 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: sindoorfan
Vidya's character has been so realistically shaped !!!! Yes, she is confused. She is still unaware of Antara's med. condition. She is trying very hard to come to terms with the storm that has more than just ruffled her trust, faith, and confidence on the man she still loves. She is hurt, and in her anguish she lashes out at Adi . As a wife and a mother I feel Vid is an awesome wife and mother. What she is doing for the sake of the man she loves ... ....the one who though loves her, has betrayed her trust......deserves great appreciation and not negative criticisms.

I agree with you SIndoorfan. Vidya's character is the most realistically shaped over here; it's difficult too.

Yes Antara is a special child and she needs care, I agree whole-heartedly. But is it necessary to brush aside everybody else and their emotions, feeling and suffering because Antara is a special child? Just because Vidya is oh-so-normal, does it mean that she has to accpet everything with her mouth shut? Maybe I don't agree with the words that she says, but it really reduces the impact of the happenings on her as she is just expected to be the perfect Mother, wife and whatsoever.

She is willing to start anew but like any normal human being, she feels hurt and betrayed when she sees the kid in front of her.

But I guess no use trying to say otherwise.

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poetic

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Stunner

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Posted: 16 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Bugger
hi skep ...wassup buddy ??:)) i m here again to reply though my views r a bit different here

.....ok after reading every post here .....i think vidya did got a bit rude here but i will give her a benefit of doubt!!

if u see the situation frm diff angle ....vidy told adi tht there is no use of taking out anger on tht child as teh mistake is solely yours!!

the way of saying mite b wrong but i guess wat she said was rite!!

there was actually no use of shouting at a child.......he has to accept teh situation as he has to take care of antara also. he cant stop ppl frm talking...........and cuz of his one mistake vidya's whole world came crashing down and cuz of him everyone is suffering!! tht is the truth!!

i can undertstand adi's state of mind and his reaction on billu but we hav to consider vidya's state of mind too when even she is going thru the most diffucult times!! she can hav her mood swings too after all she is staying wit a man who cheated on her and a girl who alwayz make her remember of tht betrayal!she is kind -hearted but she is a human too!!! why alwayz woman has to be considerate even when she is teh one who is suffering !! aditya is also suffering but he is repenting for his mistake!! wat is vidya's mistake??

its juss her frustration tht is cuming out on adi as it is still difficult for her to accept her husbands dhoka and tht child!! i think its only human to behave like tht!!

I will go with you Bugs. 😛 After a long time. We are back to agreeing it seems.

I agree with everything you wrote here, so I am not goign to get tired by typing any more.

Thanks buddy.

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Bugger

@Bugger

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#20

@rachna - heyyyy .......i m glad too we back on "i agree wit u" words 😆its been ages we have agreed on sum issue!!😆😆 glad to see u meet u here ..........

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