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Posted: 15 years ago
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Abhi has been behaving like a total idiot the past couple of days. Today was the limit. This responsible mature Abhi (the character i fell in love with) is behaving like a total baccha as Simi would say. Agreed Mili has lost her brain because of the sexual assault she went through, what happened to Abhi's. CouldnT he see through mili's ploy and manipulation. He was suppose to be responsible enough to get mili to meet Vishal and Mili please stop behaving like a 5 year old, it doesnt suit you anymore.
Agreed indian phones dont work when needed but after Abhi came back he just walked into his room to his closet door. He saw Simi sitting on bed eating fruits. Guy man you just wolfed down a big dinner with sis-in-law in a restaurant and cant even ask your wife whether she had dinner or not. 😡😡
Abhis attention should have 1st gone to simi and the fruits she was eating. For a guy who fed his wife lovingly because she would not eat well, this is a sudden change. I am extremely disappointed Abhi as someone earlier said there is a disconnect between u and simi. Even on the phone u could make out simi was upset, why not when she is sitting right in front of your eyes. Are your eyes so much covered by mili that u cant see simis hurt and pain.😡

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kalabhi

Abhi has been behaving like a total idiot the past couple of days. Today was the limit. This responsible mature Abhi (the character i fell in love with) is behaving like a total baccha as Simi would say. Agreed Mili has lost her brain because of the sexual assault she went through, what happened to Abhi's. CouldnT he see through mili's ploy and manipulation. He was suppose to be responsible enough to get mili to meet Vishal and Mili please stop behaving like a 5 year old, it doesnt suit you anymore.

Agreed indian phones dont work when needed but after Abhi came back he just walked into his room to his closet door. He saw Simi sitting on bed eating fruits. Guy man you just wolfed down a big dinner with sis-in-law in a restaurant and cant even ask your wife whether she had dinner or not. 😡😡
Abhis attention should have 1st gone to simi and the fruits she was eating. For a guy who fed his wife lovingly because she would not eat well, this is a sudden change. I am extremely disappointed Abhi as someone earlier said there is a disconnect between u and simi. Even on the phone u could make out simi was upset, why not when she is sitting right in front of your eyes. Are your eyes so much covered by mili that u cant see simis hurt and pain.😡

you stole my words. I won;t be that harsh with abhi. as this is all mili;s doing. . But true is this the same abhi who will ask simi tumne khaya and feed her first.
He makes plan to go see moive without simi and now he eats out with mili. I am sure he knows simi won;t eat without him the least he could have done is take out food for simi, and feed her.
mili in manipulating it all but then where is abhi;s mind and his care and love for simi
How can he forget simi has not eaten. and walks out in anger.
Abhi surely has changed. few minutes ago he was messing with mili about the keys.
He should have shown same care at least when he was at fault. for making simi wait and do not show up.
He should have suspected when simi did not reply to his call that simi is upset with him.
so shouldn;t he have try to make her happy some way.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nothing is wrong with Abhi. He is just being helpful. And according to him, he has already spoken to her over phone that he got held up. He has not realised that Manju has grabbed the phone and Simi did not hear his version out.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Just for once Abhi did not pay attention to Simi its a big deal?
So how many times did Simi paid attention towards Abhi's needs, his feelings, for his love? Did she ever treat him with respect?
He was so busy thinking about his ofiice meeting and sudden trip to Chandigarh.
How could he know that Simi didnt have her dinner?How can he think that Simi is having this thought about him in her mind?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kalabhi

Abhi has been behaving like a total idiot the past couple of days. Today was the limit. This responsible mature Abhi (the character i fell in love with) is behaving like a total baccha as Simi would say. Agreed Mili has lost her brain because of the sexual assault she went through, what happened to Abhi's. CouldnT he see through mili's ploy and manipulation. He was suppose to be responsible enough to get mili to meet Vishal and Mili please stop behaving like a 5 year old, it doesnt suit you anymore.

Agreed indian phones dont work when needed but after Abhi came back he just walked into his room to his closet door. He saw Simi sitting on bed eating fruits. Guy man you just wolfed down a big dinner with sis-in-law in a restaurant and cant even ask your wife whether she had dinner or not. 😡😡
Abhis attention should have 1st gone to simi and the fruits she was eating. For a guy who fed his wife lovingly because she would not eat well, this is a sudden change. I am extremely disappointed Abhi as someone earlier said there is a disconnect between u and simi. Even on the phone u could make out simi was upset, why not when she is sitting right in front of your eyes. Are your eyes so much covered by mili that u cant see simis hurt and pain.😡



Abhi forgot he came along on this date to appease Mili and once there, he forgot the reason for the date, to enable Mili and Vishal to get close again. He was reckless in his decision to stay, wrong on two fronts, one, they were here only for Vishal and Mili to be together and so should be appeasing Vishal. And this was his first date with his wife. With so little regard, he left her waiting.

And second, a very serious departure from the fabric of what made their relationship, he ate with Mili and left Simi waiting to eat with him. This was always their special thing, something between them, feeding each other. It started from the dabba as their personal tradition. When he walked into the room he was oblivious to Simi. No care for broken promise of first date. Not even an apology to her. He didn't even look at her. And like you poignantly said, no sensitivity to her pain, no notice that she ate only fruit without him. After this, burn this tradition too because like the lucky bell, it will never hold the same meaning.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: lucky_dreams

Just for once Abhi did not pay attention to Simi its a big deal?
So how many times did Simi paid attention towards Abhi's needs, his feelings, for his love? Did she ever treat him with respect?
He was so busy thinking about his ofiice meeting and sudden trip to Chandigarh.
How could he know that Simi didnt have her dinner?How can he think that Simi is having this thought about him in her mind?



I agree with you on how many times Abhi did pay attention to Simi. And you know and I know Simi never treated him with the same love. And we all are still waiting for it too. But this is ABHI yaar, he used to be able to see all these things earlier.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: lucky_dreams

Just for once Abhi did not pay attention to Simi its a big deal?
So how many times did Simi paid attention towards Abhi's needs, his feelings, for his love? Did she ever treat him with respect?
He was so busy thinking about his ofiice meeting and sudden trip to Chandigarh.
How could he know that Simi didnt have her dinner?How can he think that Simi is having this thought about him in her mind?

well lucky dreams u missed the point i am talking about abhi dear not simi. It is not a big deal if Simi doesnt pay attention to Abhi, that is expected of her character. But Abhi always has Simi on his mind so was wondering ........................ it is not the usual abhi. inspite of million problems it is not like him to forget simis needs, he has always put her first. I mentioned it because it was so out of character for him. I am not talking of a tit for tat situation here. Mera bas chale toh I would have preferred Abhi gave tit for tat to Simi long back. Chalo Der aaye durust aayen. Kahin na kahin to shuru karna tha. Amnesia sab ko lag gayen, everyone is behaving weird even RS the most sane person. Welcome Abhi u need to take care of your needs too. welcome to the new world.😉😆. I am very happy for u.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: AbhisBlueMoon



Abhi forgot he came along on this date to appease Mili and once there, he forgot the reason for the date, to enable Mili and Vishal to get close again. He was reckless in his decision to stay, wrong on two fronts, one, they were here only for Vishal and Mili to be together and so should be appeasing Vishal. And this was his first date with his wife. With so little regard, he left her waiting.

And second, a very serious departure from the fabric of what made their relationship, he ate with Mili and left Simi waiting to eat with him. This was always their special thing, something between them, feeding each other. It started from the dabba as their personal tradition. When he walked into the room he was oblivious to Simi. No care for broken promise of first date. Not even an apology to her. He didn't even look at her. And like you poignantly said, no sensitivity to her pain, no notice that she ate only fruit without him. After this, burn this tradition too because like the lucky bell, it will never hold the same meaning.

ABM very beautifully said excellent choice of words and yes that moment is gone it will not come back just like the bell.👏👏👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: AbhisBlueMoon



Abhi forgot he came along on this date to appease Mili and once there, he forgot the reason for the date, to enable Mili and Vishal to get close again. He was reckless in his decision to stay, wrong on two fronts, one, they were here only for Vishal and Mili to be together and so should be appeasing Vishal. And this was his first date with his wife. With so little regard, he left her waiting.

Abhi didnt agree for the first time.Milli had emotionally blackmailed him that she will jump out of the car?How is Abhi guilt and anyone would do the same thing what Abhi did.
Its Milli who took the car in wrong way and its all Milli's fault that they are caught up by police and they are late. How is Abhi guilty again?

And second, a very serious departure from the fabric of what made their relationship, he ate with Mili and left Simi waiting to eat with him. This was always their special thing, something between them, feeding each other. It started from the dabba as their personal tradition. When he walked into the room he was oblivious to Simi. No care for broken promise of first date. Not even an apology to her. He didn't even look at her. And like you poignantly said, no sensitivity to her pain, no notice that she ate only fruit without him. After this, burn this tradition too because like the lucky bell, it will never hold the same meaning.
Its Milli who forced again that she want to have her dinner as she is feeling hungry and Abhi did say that what Vishal and Simi will feel that they are late . How can Abhi think that Simi didnt have her dinner and she was angry with him? He didnt know who attended the called when he dialed to Simi?He is totally into his sudden trip to Chandigarh and didnt paid attention to Simi, it doesnt mean he is not concerned for her.


ABHI BEING WITH MILLI IS JUST TO COMFORT HER AS HE IS FEELING RESPONSIBLE AND GUILT FOR WHAT ALL SHE WENT BUT THIS ISWRONGLY TAKEN BY MILLI.AGAIN ITS NOT ABHI'S FAULT FOR MILLI MISUNDERSTANDING HIS CARE TOWARDS HER IN OTHER WAY.



Edited by lucky_dreams - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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one more important thing...(in my opinion)... he asks Simi to come to the restaurant in metro and decides to pick up Mili instead.. if i am in Simi's place, i too wud get hurt...

and about Manju... any normal sane mother in her place, would 1st worry about Simi n her marriage... But Manju behaves so cruelly with Simi as if she doesnt care about her marriage.. n her only concern in mili... Is simi her step daughter??

as everyone said...Abhi should have 1st gone to his wife n at least say sorry...and ask her if she had eaten at all...

its high time mili should come out of her so called rape infused trauma....


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