Originally posted by: kalabhi
yes mesimi i have read your posts on simis defence in the past no one is denying that and i also agree that Simi's character has changed over the course of time, i remember that dialogue to and i cringed when she said it.. even i am not in great defense of simi too I have bashed her charater too whenever the need arised.
but to be fair i wrote what i felt seeing todays episode about Abhi. I would not want Abhis character to change as much as they have changed Simis. I am pretty fair and balanced in my views. Just because I like Abhi very much doesnt mean I can overlook his flaws. and Abhi is my favorite one it is not easy to write negatively about a character u love so much. but I try to look at things objectively without my emotions coming in the way.
I am not here on this forum to defend any one character or thought or demean one. I write my opinion based on my observations and how I interpret them. I am entitled to my own views right? No one hear is saying that this thought is right or wrong. all people bring their own views to this forum and I welcome them and look forward to have a good intelligent discussion. that is all
cheers😃
I had written my opinion that Abhi is not wrong. You used the term I am bashing Simi which I did not. It was my interpretation. You are telling me its easy to BASH Simi. Trust me its not easy to bash Simi as a character. Her insecurities, doubts, love for family, magnanimity, all is commedable. It is a task to reach this state of not supporting Simi because she is expected to become better over a period of time, with her marriage to Abhi,etc. There is an expectation from a character to get bolder and strong who was once timid and required sympathy. But its sick to watch Simi still confused, unappreciative and tight lipped to all the wrong doers around her. i have my own expectation from a character. And when i dont see the change in her, i am not left with anything to reason out to support her baseless tensions. Its NOT EASY to bash Simi.
So I have no where asked you to hit the Like button for my interpretation nor asked you to change your opinion that Abhi was wrong. If you are saying your emotions dont come your way in interpretation, I should say mine does not either.
You can write what you feel kalabhi. Definitely no emotions come my way in applauding anyones performance whatever the character is. Both Abhi and Simi are my favorites. No denial there. I have overlooked Simi's flaws till now and I find myself at this juncture not being able to support Simi for her confused state of mind in spite of having such a loving and caring husband. There is always an option for her to leave the house and have a blast of her life with her doting husband.
When the need arises when I feel that Abhi's character is not to be supported anymore, I would surely do that too.
No one is asking you to change your opinion. You write what you feel. I shall give my version.
If you are feeling I am forcing my opinion, I am sorry I dont. If no replies will be around in support or against a topic in discussion, there is no reason for all of us to exist here. We all know its not going to make a difference to show organisers whatever we feel and write here. But still we write in favor or against such fictious characters imagining what need to have been done if such scenario existed in real life.
Its not the reason that the forum members ; all of them would BASH one person altogether deliberately. It would be surely strange to BASH just for the sake of getting diverse views for the forum to be active. I did mention to Rasha Di's post not to defend Simi anymore for the reason because myself and Raksha Di have always been strong supporters of Simi right from start. It was more of a friendly remark since i have known her for 9 months now.
Or if you feel, i must not put up my opinion in print here, let me know.
