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Posted: 15 years ago
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There is a way of discussing things. She saw Abhi comforting her sister. Why did she go away, close the door behind them ? Was she doing them a favor by standing guard so that no one sees. She should have stood there and talked to both of them. if she can not think by herself or felt pressurised to talk by her mother, she could have talked to both of them together. She should have told Mili that she had warned earlier and also told Abhi that both of you are alone upstairs, what if someone else had seen you like this instead of me. Both would have understood.
Abhi's way of touching on Mili's head each time proves the relationship of an older sibling that he finds himself as for Mili. Mili is going through a phase where she is just not ready for marriage and the journey with Vishal. She requested both Abhi and Simi to go along with her. With Simi he caressed her face and went. So he too knows the difference and his feelings to Mili and Simi are clearly different.
Abhi handing over money to Mili was because he knows Simi is not into this parlour and beauty and cosmetics and he also tells Mili to advise Simi not to get engrossed in household work all the time and to relax a little. I can see he cares for Simi.Mili agrees to Abhi's advise to give Vishal another chance. Just that the engagement came as a shocker to her and she needs time. Its not easy to forget her assault incident and the worries she has when she has to start a married life with Vishal.
Simi should have shared her insecurities with him. But there is a way of handling things. She should tell Abhi that she is not comfortable when he spends time with Mili the way he does. He would understand and lay her apprehensions aside which he has always done. Even when Anu was brought home by Anita, Simi was worried when Abhi hugged Anu and also took her to the room. That time too Mili came over, held Simi's hand and asked her not to worry. Abhi has been like this right from the start. He has been a comforting friend to all who needed help. Whatsoever it is he is a young 22 year old with his share of enthusiasm and zest for life. He has missed the dating period after his college because he chose to get married to a woman who carries or thinks she carries the burden of her entire useless house and siblings. Watch the scene at night. Abhi says he has been waiting for her for an hour and when he pulls her close and says I need to chat a lot with you, what does Simi do? She says she has work. each time she does not even give the quality time necessary for a husband, and he is also disappointed but quickly decides to give her a helping hand to sort things in the kitchen. All the time she snubs him emotionally and physically too and she expects and flares up and tomorrow we can see an outright accusation at Abhi.
Discussing the issue and concerns is different from open accusation after all that he has done. Does she not know that Abhi is not a flirt who would want to have fun with his wife and SIL at the same time. His actions before has proved that he is not one. He has never forced himself on her neither before nor even after marriage. Does not all those qualities matter in assessment of a person's morality.
A real shame on this woman. Shame on the writers who are giving this to us. The concept of the age difference dished out to us with wrong people/relations.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Very truly said.
I would want abhi to leave simi at the very moment and let her know whats shes lost.
Simi is the most unromatic person on earth and the bedst person to create problems in others life. especially her husband. she and manju should get that award.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ssree

Very truly said.

I would want abhi to leave simi at the very moment and let her know whats shes lost.
Simi is the most unromatic person on earth and the bedst person to create problems in others life. especially her husband. she and manju should get that award.

agree with you....i remember she told him once...that we are not only husbund and wife....we are friends too....so why she is not telling her feelings to him about milli and his behavior....in other way Abhi is too much for milli.....he is......
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thanks Mesimi, As usual, hats off to the wonderful post, 👏⭐️
Coming to the point,
Abhi is the gem of person, and really everyone should admire this person, in the whole KB family.
Despite every problems, tensions worries, he is there to take care, fight and give the pleasures and happiness to all the individuals, whether it comes to simi, mili, tarneja house, anuj or any one.
he has done a lot lot lot for the sethi family and the members.
He only loves simi and his world is simi,
He cares for mili, because it is simi's jaan (remember the dialogue anuj, mili, neetu meri jaan hai)
Mili, she has not yet fallen for Abhi, she has suffered a lot at her younger age. First of all her dream to study in london was shattered by her own brother anuj,
Secondly the abuse and she is completely shattered, she really need time and any one at this point will need time, and Abhi is the person who comforts hers through his friendly behaviour, naughtyness, ..................etc, just to bring the old mili back.
now when Abhi brought the cake and mili wanted to taste or see it, but Abhi refused it not now.
By holding her hand, now i don't know what was wrong in it. Siblings used to do this. The way manju was looking as if they are having an affair.
Abhi comforting Mili by hugging, now let me tell you that huggying was just a siblings hug or brotherly hug nothing else.
As Mesimi said caressing simi and mili is totally different.
Why people are misunderstanding them , heights yaar.
Why every now and then Manju takes and decision, Why RS is not doing his responsibility as a husband and father, why he gives up when he comes in front of Manju, Why CVS, why?
Simi, i know she is a old lady and have insecurities, but why is she listening to her mother and neetu. Don't she trust her husband.
Don't she realize that in Abhi's every action, every work, Simi is his priority.
Now suddenly what happened simi, till this time you have not given any happiness to Abhi, always surronded by KB problems
Now you got the insecurities, now you are doubting your husband. who is living only for you.
Shame on you simi?
I just pity fo Abhi.
He will be shattered today, because of Simi's behaviour.
Simi will value Abhi when he will leave KB. Then only she will realize the worthness and importance of him.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Somini,

Thanks. I am happy you are someone who can understand that relationships are not just by birth. Relationships are always built by trust and understanding.

A real friend is not one who only entertain you, but one who cares about you, one who will be there when you cry. Best friends are better than boyfriends.

Mili will be better off without Vishal who did not even play a friend, forget being boyfriend or future husband.

One has nothing to lose by loving but we always tend to lose by holding it back. Now thats what I wish should happen to Simi. By being unnecessarily doubtful and trying to hold Abhi back, she has to lose him in the process.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mesimi

Somini,

Thanks. I am happy you are someone who can understand that relationships are not just by birth. Relationships are always built by trust and understanding.

A real friend is not one who only entertain you, but one who cares about you, one who will be there when you cry. Best friends are better than boyfriends.

Mili will be better off without Vishal who did not even play a friend, forget being boyfriend or future husband.

One has nothing to lose by loving but we always tend to lose by holding it back. Now thats what I wish should happen to Simi. By being unnecessarily doubtful and trying to hold Abhi back, she has to lose him in the process.

Hey mesimi, thanks for what yaar,
our understanding is mutual and i agree with you in order to gain something you should lose something
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Posted: 15 years ago
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my grief too😭😭😭 on her demise 🤢🤢🤢.
but i dont sympathize with anymore ,how can she even think of doubting abhi that too just for sake of her mother's ego and her idiotic sister's words who herself doesnot know what love is .😡😡😡😡
last but not least her death will also kill abhi .😭😭😭😭😭

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