Simi's Suitors - rapists

Well RB turned out to be an attempted rapist and Nakul an actual rapist. I wonder whether Manju will look at the men whom she chose for Simi and give her a big apology? Will she also acknowledge that Abhi has gone out of his way for her daughters? The only one who shows any appreciation is RS.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Well RB turned out to be an attempted rapist and Nakul an actual rapist. I wonder whether Manju will look at the men whom she chose for Simi and give her a big apology? Will she also acknowledge that Abhi has gone out of his way for her daughters? The only one who shows any appreciation is RS.

ALSO is dear Milli who has always shown her appreciation toward Abhi.. and actually understood him... Manju is already showing her love for Abhi in small different gestures BUT will the creative's show any response to this ideology??⭐️.
Now how true is this statement for the suitors for Simi to be rapist, and perhaps that is what the creative's are trying to show us with Simi's accolades to deserve these characters. Yes R.S was the first one to recognize Abhi's character along with Milli because she kept on praising him in front of Bhalla...AT THEIR FIRST MEETING ONLY.
Manju also just recently showed a token of her good will gesture showed her love for Abhi when she forced him to sit down at the breakfast table and eat and also when she point blank told him your mother is sitting right next to you and now let's see how are you not going to eat...Manju's appreciation was evident when she asked Abhi why was he late just before the luncheon...and not to talk about the packed lunch before his interview.....⭐️
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Originally posted by: SaNiCo

ALSO is dear Milli who has always shown her appreciation toward Abhi.. and actually understood him... Manju is already showing her love for Abhi in small different gestures BUT will the creative's show any response to this ideology??⭐️.
Now how true is this statement for the suitors for Simi to be rapist, and perhaps that is what the creative's are trying to show us with Simi's accolades to deserve these characters. Yes R.S was the first one to recognize Abhi's character along with Milli because she kept on praising him in front of Bhalla...AT THEIR FIRST MEETING ONLY.
Manju also just recently showed a token of her good will gesture showed her love for Abhi when she forced him to sit down at the breakfast table and eat and also when she point blank told him your mother is sitting right next to you and now let's see how are you not going to eat...Manju's appreciation was evident when she asked Abhi why was he late just before the luncheon...and not to talk about the packed lunch before his interview.....⭐️
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

She never apologized to him for all the wrong she did to him or to Simi for making her marry someone against her will. The woman owes Simi a MAJOR apology which she has not given her yet. I think it sets an example of what parents owe to their children - something I find lacking in a lot of Indian dramas where parents treat their children like indentured servants and take ownership of their entire lives right down to whom they will end up sleeping with for the rest of their lives.

Laila Manju ji has already in a mega way apologized to both SIMI AND ABHI right after the kanjkaan when Anuj was arrested. She very clearly stated to both of them that she was wrong and she is very sorry and Simi is very lucky to have found such a wonderful soul-mate. And then she also said to Abhi that she didn't recognize his accolades and good qualities which R.S did from the get go..Then she gives them her blessings also..⭐️⭐️


Yes**.. you are right she was wrong in thinking she owned her daughters and yes** you are tight because of her mistake Simi would have ended up with Nakul Singh Daggar and still be sleeping with him but If the children came up with instructions parents would never make mistakes and read the manuals.... but that is not the case and all parents make mistakes and thankfully this one the children didn't have to pay for them.⭐️.

And to answer your thought of the rights of the children** ANUJ did marry his LOVE AND RAJINDER SETHI at-least agreed against his better judgment to accept the daughter of this MR.T in to his family for the sake of ANUJ AND LOOK WHAT HAPPENED IN THE LOVE STORY AND THE WEDLOCK ???So this topic is open to discussion..?⭐️
WHAT IS BETTER FOR THE CHILDREN LOVE STORY OR ARRANGE MARRIAGE??

Originally posted by: SaNiCo

Laila Manju ji has already in a mega way apologized to both SIMI AND ABHI right after the kanjkaan when Anuj was arrested. She very clearly stated to both of them that she was wrong and she is very sorry and Simi is very lucky to have found such a wonderful soul-mate. And then she also said to Abhi that she didn't recognize his accolades and good qualities which R.S did from the get go..Then she gives them her blessings also..⭐️⭐️


Yes**.. you are right she was wrong in thinking she owned her daughters and yes** you are tight because of her mistake Simi would have ended up with Nakul Singh Daggar and still be sleeping with him but If the children came up with instructions parents would never make mistakes and read the manuals.... but that is not the case and all parents make mistakes and thankfully this one the children didn't have to pay for them.⭐️.

And to answer your thought of the rights of the children** ANUJ did marry his LOVE AND RAJINDER SETHI at-least agreed against his better judgment to accept the daughter of this MR.T in to his family for the sake of ANUJ AND LOOK WHAT HAPPENED IN THE LOVE STORY AND THE WEDLOCK ???So this topic is open to discussion..?⭐️
WHAT IS BETTER FOR THE CHILDREN LOVE STORY OR ARRANGE MARRIAGE??

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Sorry, but that was not satisfying enough for me. She never apologized to Abhi and said to him, that she was wrong in judging him. She never once said to him that she was unfair to him. Do you not remember the horrible way she treated him? She demeaned him, insulted him and she thought one apology would fix it? Sorry poorly done.

O, and while kids don't come with a list of instructions, there are some things that don't need instructions and that is making your children marry someone agains their will. In addition, as a parent, sometimes you have to let your children make mistakes. Just because your children might chose the wrong person doesn't mean that YOU have to decide for them.

Well MANJU did all that and more BUT she apologized for it and that was a heartfelt apology and not just the formal one..And this apology may be too little and too late but it is better this way than the way they were both going on .Personally i think a heartfelt sorry should be taken into consideration..or we would all be living with their past history and holding grudges and teaching our children the same values...Now you want to be that way so no one can stop you. BUT SHE DID TELL HIM SHE WAS WRONG

LAILA IT IS NOT JUST ONE APOLOGY THAT WOULD FIX IT BUT THE CHAIN OF EVENTS AND THE GESTURES SHE IS DOING FOR HIM AND THE LOVE SHE IS SHOWING HIM MORE THAN HIS BIRTH MOTHER** THAT SHOULD BE TAKEN INTO Considerations..If Abhi is loved by his M-I-L than who is to argue that he still should not forgive her...he may never forget all those insults but the time has come and Abhi has already forgiven her...
I just gave you the example of ANUJ and given the mistakes are of the children and they should be allowed to make them BUT having said that YOU HAVE TO BE A PARENT TO GET TO THE BOTTOM OF THIS STATEMENT and feel like a parent to allow your child to make a mistake and accept it is like** seeing a fly in the milk and still drink it..VERY DIFFICULT and takes a lot of training and will power to cut the ties given at birth and let your child FLY and be AIRBORNE!!

Another example is also of NEETU and yes MANJU did it wrong*** ethically and in all practicality cheated the Daggars and forced this marriage upon her for all the wrong reasons BUT NEETU is the one who is happier than ANITA ??
Manju was a bit over protective and naive and did all this for her selfish reason and not for her love exactly for her daughters no no** that was only showered for ANUJ and her loving values were misplaced where her daughters were concerned BUT she is trying to rectify her misgivings.. and mistakes!!⭐️

Originally posted by: SaniCo

Well MANJU did all that and more BUT she apologized for it and that was a heartfelt apology and not just the formal one..And this apology may be too little and too late but it is better this way than the way they were both going on .Personally i think a heartfelt sorry should be taken into consideration..or we would all be living with their past history and holding grudges and teaching our children the same values...Now you want to be that way so no one can stop you. BUT SHE DID TELL HIM SHE WAS WRONG

LAILA IT IS NOT JUST ONE APOLOGY THAT WOULD FIX IT BUT THE CHAIN OF EVENTS AND THE GESTURES SHE IS DOING FOR HIM AND THE LOVE SHE IS SHOWING HIM MORE THAN HIS BIRTH MOTHER** THAT SHOULD BE TAKEN INTO Considerations..If Abhi is loved by his M-I-L than who is to argue that he still should not forgive her...he may never forget all those insults but the time has come and Abhi has already forgiven her...
I just gave you the example of ANUJ and given the mistakes are of the children and they should be allowed to make them BUT having said that YOU HAVE TO BE A PARENT TO GET TO THE BOTTOM OF THIS STATEMENT and feel like a parent to allow your child to make a mistake and accept it is like** seeing a fly in the milk and still drink it..VERY DIFFICULT and takes a lot of training and will power to cut the ties given at birth and let your child FLY and be AIRBORNE!!

Another example is also of NEETU and yes MANJU did it wrong*** ethically and in all practicality cheated the Daggars and forced this marriage upon her for all the wrong reasons BUT NEETU is the one who is happier than ANITA ??
Manju was a bit over protective and naive and did all this for her selfish reason and not for her love exactly for her daughters no no** that was only showered for ANUJ and her loving values were misplaced where her daughters were concerned BUT she is trying to rectify her misgivings.. and mistakes!!⭐️

SaniCo, if it is good for you GREAT, but not for me. It's not how I would have had it written and it was not fulfilling for me. It's all fine and dandy she's doing nice things but she shows NO regret or acknowledgement of her past behaviors. Your setence in red I have underlined makes NO sense and has no logic. And please do not use the decision that Manju made in forcing a marriage on Neetu that turned out to be a happy one as an advert for FORCED marriages as working. We all know this is a show and not a presentation of reality.

Wow imagine If Bhalla or nakul had married Simi
but once Simi's friend said that however bad your husband maybe i.e. eye otherwomen or seeing themwith dirty looks at the end of the day he has to come back to you
Wow i was shocked when she said that
Simi was never accepting Bhalla's proposal in the first place The day she met him and the looks and talks he gave her she at that point had decided a Big No No to herself she would rather stay single but never think of marrying Bhalla
but she thought ( the biggest foolish things she did at that time even though her father never agreed to her decision) that it was best for her to marry Bhalla inspite of what he tried to do to her
Saviour Abhi !!!!

Then nakul's proposal
he would have treated her like Shit inspite of keeping such a good image of himself infornt of the Sethis

She never thought for herself
till our dear Abhi drilled somthing into her head and she wanted hinm to sweep her off her feet and take her away and thats what he did when he got almost killed at the wedding atler when she was being forced to marry naku;

Simi has been LUCKY to have had a guy like Abhi in her life but now she is loosing him BIG time since she never valued her husband as a husband but as he said he was treated as a person who is ready to do anything at the beck and call of her family or as he rightly put as a servant !!!

Its not the family's fault here its truly Simi who has'nt valued him as her husband in the true sense and always put her family infornt of everythinmg and by this she is loosing her husband who loves her the most in the world beyond his mother who is closest to his heart !!

Originally posted by: Laila2009

SaniCo, if it is good for you GREAT, but not for me. It's not how I would have had it written and it was not fulfilling for me. It's all fine and dandy she's doing nice things but she shows NO regret or acknowledgement of her past behaviors. Your setence in red I have underlined makes NO sense and has no logic. And please do not use the decision that Manju made in forcing a marriage on Neetu that turned out to be a happy one as an advert for FORCED marriages as working. We all know this is a show and not a presentation of reality.

We are not at the liberty to write this show are we??

It makes sense if you are willing to accept the changing behavior on the part of Manju and not otherwise... Like i said she was terrible and did some wrong doings to Abhi and Simi but to punish her now** when she is changing for the betterment of her family is also not the right thing to do ... She has apologized and paid the price (and probably will do it again in the future) by having a daughter in law like Anita and her husband being bed ridden and to even sell her jewelery for her family or for chowki. Small gestures but towards the right path..one step before the other.....
Manju is a mother and yes she has made mistakes and blunders and probably will make more but punishing Manju at this time won't help her ..... character especially when ABHI and R.S have forgiven her and that is what matters!! What Anuj did to her father was more despicable and now he is also forgiven by everyone including R.S himself and he is now changed man... Sorry I disagree with you on the punishment part......⭐️

Yes this is a show and not a reality but isn't that what we are discussing a show with its fault and all and in a show for the sake of entertainment purpose the punishment are sometimes not that severe as in the real life.. so in this show Manju did some horrific things but now after her apologies it is all forgotten so let us go with this notion and Abhi has already forgotten them !!⭐️.....

Originally posted by: shanti05

Wow imagine If Bhalla or nakul had married Simi
but once Simi's friend said that however bad your husband maybe i.e. eye otherwomen or seeing themwith dirty looks at the end of the day he has to come back to you
Wow i was shocked when she said that
Simi was never accepting Bhalla's proposal in the first place The day she met him and the looks and talks he gave her she at that point had decided a Big No No to herself she would rather stay single but never think of marrying Bhalla
but she thought ( the biggest foolish things she did at that time even though her father never agreed to her decision) that it was best for her to marry Bhalla inspite of what he tried to do to her
Saviour Abhi !!!!

Then nakul's proposal
he would have treated her like Shit inspite of keeping such a good image of himself infornt of the Sethis

She never thought for herself
till our dear Abhi drilled somthing into her head and she wanted hinm to sweep her off her feet and take her away and thats what he did when he got almost killed at the wedding atler when she was being forced to marry naku;

Simi has been LUCKY to have had a guy like Abhi in her life but now she is loosing him BIG time since she never valued her husband as a husband but as he said he was treated as a person who is ready to do anything at the beck and call of her family or as he rightly put as a servant !!!

Its not the family's fault here its truly Simi who has'nt valued him as her husband in the true sense and always put her family infornt of everythinmg and by this she is loosing her husband who loves her the most in the world beyond his mother who is closest to his heart !!

Shanti! I also remember that very line!!! It was the worst advise a friend or any woman could give. That's pretty much referring to your husband as a dog who wanders around town and comes home to you. That is not very satisfying to know either. It's actually very degrading to a woman.

This mahaan Simi I never liked; in the beginning her concerns were sincere but the second time around with Nakul? It was too much and overdone.

Simi has NEVER shown any appreciation for Abhi and the CVs continually ruin him time and time again.

I don't know why they have to ruin him because it never makes Simi look any good - only worse.