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Posted: 15 years ago
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Simi will agree to sleeping with Rajeev Bhalla. She agreed to marry RB and she will agreed to marry Nakul. No-one put a gun to Simi's head; she was engaged to Abhi at the time. As Bana and MeSimi pointed out, Simi pretended that she had not choice and she expected Abhi to understand.
We need to understand that getting married to someone whom you don't want to marry involves sleeping with them. Getting married to someone and sleeping with them doesn't make the whole act any better. It's even worse if you're engaged to someone else who is meant to help you.
In the first case - with RB - we can have some sympathy for Simi in that she had NO choice and was pressued to marry RB. Despite her willingness to leave him after he had attempted to rape her, she agreed to marry her attempted rapist to save her family and her father's shop. In those days she never had a knight in shinning armour - Abhi. However, when Nakul came on the scene, she had her knight but she never turned to him for help. He fretted and worried about the immending marriage and she was worried about being seen with him in case it ruined her chances at getting married.
Abhi went to great extremes to safe her, fought with Nakul and nearly died. It took Nakul ready to drive a daggar into him (perhaps that is where he gets his name) to get her to wake-up. NOT once has Simi shown her gratitude to Abhi for saving her from sleeping with either RB or Nakul. Seems to me she's not interested in even getting down with Abhi!!!
So when RB will make this offer, Simi WILL agree to it. It's part of her nature. She can't help it. She will do anything to help her family even if that means being unfaithful to Abhi. Of course we are supposed to admire this in her character. Please wait and see.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I understand your frustration Lailla......But I think (and hoping) Simi feels now that Abhi is her life and she is not going to ruin any thing with him...As far as getting down with Abhi goes I think she is expecting him to make the first move...infact all the moves....She has never started but she has never stopped Abhi either..... Except for that first time in the park........But the next time near the car she was ready and willing and expecting😃....So hopefully she will stick to that.....
And by the way why is Abhi waiting for her approval for the SR? One night when she is cuddled up next to him then start....You know first let the hands to the walking and then the mouth☺️....But please no more planning.........
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: daboo89

I understand your frustration Lailla......But I think (and hoping) Simi feels now that Abhi is her life and she is not going to ruin any thing with him...As far as getting down with Abhi goes I think she is expecting him to make the first move...infact all the moves....She has never started but she has never stopped Abhi either..... Except for that first time in the park........But the next time near the car she was ready and willing and expecting😃....So hopefully she will stick to that.....

And by the way why is Abhi waiting for her approval for the SR? One night when she is cuddled up next to him then start....You know first let the hands to the walking and then the mouth☺️....But please no more planning.........

Daboo, I am not in the least bit frustrated. The character of Simi was ruined for me several months ago. The creative team "created" a dreadful leading lady which I hope is not a reflection of their true characters. She's not in the least bit a likeable person;
her treatment of Abhi leaves little to be desired.
Bana said it well in another post. It doesn't matter if Simi doesn't end up sleeping with RB. The fact we all know it is that it is NOT going to happen. No drama viewer will tolerate it. The writer will take the viewer all the way to the bedroom and something will happen to prevent Simi from sleeping with RB at that point. Simi went all the way to the marriage ceremony with RB - she just didn't put the mala on him. Then with Nakul she even started the pheras - it was only because Abhi was able to get there and Nakul stopped that she never ended up marrying him. As Bana said, had Nakul finished the pheras and ignored Abhi, she would be Mrs. Nakul Singh Daggar today. I didn't see her trying to get ouf the mess at any point. If anything she was getting angry at Abhi for trying to get her out of it.
The writers suggest that she has not sympathy for her love as if she is such a wonderful person, but that's not what makes a person great. A good person is not someone who just sacrificies themselves.
Fate just stepped in the way for Simi. On neither of these occasions has Simi said she was glad she never ended up marrying the guy. On neither of these two occasions has she even acknowledged the financial burden it placed on her family - marriages are not cheap.
Abhi is waiting for her approval because she, Simi, wears the pants (or should I say Shalwar) in the relationship.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

Daboo, I am not in the least bit frustrated. The character of Simi was ruined for me several months ago. The creative team "created" a dreadful leading lady which I hope is not a reflection of their true characters. She's not in the least bit a likeable person;
her treatment of Abhi leaves little to be desired.
Bana said it well in another post. It doesn't matter if Simi doesn't end up sleeping with RB. The fact we all know it is that it is NOT going to happen. No drama viewer will tolerate it. The writer will take the viewer all the way to the bedroom and something will happen to prevent Simi from sleeping with RB at that point. Simi went all the way to the marriage ceremony with RB - she just didn't put the mala on him. Then with Nakul she even started the pheras - it was only because Abhi was able to get there and Nakul stopped that she never ended up marrying him. As Bana said, had Nakul finished the pheras and ignored Abhi, she would be Mrs. Nakul Singh Daggar today. I didn't see her trying to get ouf the mess at any point. If anything she was getting angry at Abhi for trying to get her out of it.
The writers suggest that she has not sympathy for her love as if she is such a wonderful person, but that's not what makes a person great. A good person is not someone who just sacrificies themselves.
Fate just stepped in the way for Simi. On neither of these occasions has Simi said she was glad she never ended up marrying the guy. On neither of these two occasions has she even acknowledged the financial burden it placed on her family - marriages are not cheap.
Abhi is waiting for her approval because she, Simi, wears the pants (or should I say Shalwar) in the relationship.

Poor Abhi will old and gray before she gives her approval. The thought of RB touching anyone should make your skin crawl. But yes I agree she will agree to sleep with RB and wait for Abhi, Mr. Simi Seethi to save her. Can you imagine if the CV's really let her get down with RB and she got pregnant. I can see that baby now in it's gold diapers and ugly teeth ala RB. We've all grown tired of Sacrificial Simi Sethi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: RoyalT

Poor Abhi will old and gray before she gives her approval. The thought of RB touching anyone should make your skin crawl. But yes I agree she will agree to sleep with RB and wait for Abhi, Mr. Simi Seethi to save her. Can you imagine if the CV's really let her get down with RB and she got pregnant. I can see that baby now in it's gold diapers and ugly teeth ala RB. We've all grown tired of Sacrificial Simi Sethi.

I am at a stage right now that if Simi did sleep with RB it wouldn't bother me. It would bother me more if Simi agreed to do it and Abhi praised her for it or if he got her out of the mess and she never appreciated what he did for her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: RoyalT

Poor Abhi will old and gray before she gives her approval. The thought of RB touching anyone should make your skin crawl. But yes I agree she will agree to sleep with RB and wait for Abhi, Mr. Simi Seethi to save her. Can you imagine if the CV's really let her get down with RB and she got pregnant. I can see that baby now in it's gold diapers and ugly teeth ala RB. We've all grown tired of Sacrificial Simi Sethi.

If Abhi is waiting for Simi's approval then Abhi deserves to be called a beccha...He needs to prove he is a true man and not a mere wife's pet toy......

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