Shouldn't simi take this as a positive sign?

Simi should take this as a positive sign since they say shaadi ke baad aurat ka naya janam hota hai, Beti becomes bahu. In some parts of india they even give their bahu new name. as they say she is new born and change her name as well.

I don't really think this is a good idea since Bahu getting a New name with Love from Sasural is very very diffrent from what is happening in Simmi's life. As a Woman I've always felt n would forever beleive in 1 thing that no matter how good your Husband is,your Sasural is....Mayka is always Mayka and a Strong Support of Mayka is very very Necessary in Women's lives..... seperating yourself from your Mayyka because you've got a Good Husband is neither sensible not wise.....Well.... Who can say what'll happen in the Long-Run?????😲People's intentions do change,relationships do change... Husbands and in-laws might become Ex-husband and Ex-inlaws but the girl's own Parents always will remain her Parents and most of the Parents do support their children even if they're upset or angry or hurt intitally by some of their decisions so even after marriage a Woman should always keep relation with her Mayka very strong- if not for anything else then only for her sake!

Originally posted by: iamindian

I don't really think this is a good idea since Bahu getting a New name with Love from Sasural is very very diffrent from what is happening in Simmi's life. As a Woman I've always felt n would forever beleive in 1 thing that no matter how good your Husband is,your Sasural is....Mayka is always Mayka and a Strong Support of Mayka is very very Necessary in Women's lives..... seperating yourself from your Mayyka because you've got a Good Husband is neither sensible not wise.....Well.... Who can say what'll happen in the Long-Run?????😲People's intentions do change,relationships do change... Husbands and in-laws might become Ex-husband and Ex-inlaws but the girl's own Parents always will remain her Parents and most of the Parents do support their children even if they're upset or angry or hurt intitally by some of their decisions so even after marriage a Woman should always keep relation with her Mayka very strong- if not for anything else then only for her sake!

so true but the point here is manju broke simi;s ties with her myka. Simi has no saying in the matter. So rather than moping and crying over it. Why not take it as postive sign for now and just like you say things change. Manju says things out of frustration and more so now because simi always did everything manju wanted and yet she made a biggest decsion of her life without her approval or knowledge and she comes to know this way in public.

different people mayhave different point of view but this posts of rama is truely good and i must say this posts is so delicate that it can only be answered by experience not by watching film or taking example of others every girl who got married and went to sasural experienced a different feelings, surroundings sometimes it is easy to adjust with sometimes it is not difficult but impossible but the big deal is always your hubby is good everything is more even than good.

Originally posted by: daboo89

So true ramas...... I feel Simi should do what she is good at! And that is to live life with true indian sanskar and forget her maayka and make her sasural her home😃 And if asked about her mom she should say WHO?

So true she should but I would not go that far. For every girl her parents are very important and more so after going far away from them. We do need our parents regardless of what age we are and Who knows more than this as I lost both my parents in my 20's almost 20 some years ago . I hardly shared my problems with my parents as My dad had several heart attacks and my mom was like very sensitve person . yet I needed them for comfort and talk to them. It has been over 20 years and I still miss them and cry every now and then. Sometimes I even wish my dad would come back knowing he is not coming back despite having most wonderful loving caring man in my life who has tried his best to make me forget my parents..

agree with all of you but i also feel that she should forget her mayka and her saasural. all she needs to remember is abhi and her. she needs to live her life with the support of her hubby. learn to be strong and make the due changes in her life. she needs to live for abhi and herself, no more hurting herself, no more taking on responsibilities of others, of course she should make sure no one gets hurt but not at her own expense. cus if they can't see her happy then so be it let them rot

Originally posted by: alujna-21

different people mayhave different point of view but this posts of rama is truely good and i must say this posts is so delicate that it can only be answered by experience not by watching film or taking example of others every girl who got married and went to sasural experienced a different feelings, surroundings sometimes it is easy to adjust with sometimes it is not difficult but impossible but the big deal is always your hubby is good everything is more even than good.

I so agree with you. Even if it is all new to you if your huby is supportive then things get lot easier. I know exactly what you mean by difficult and impossible, especially when you mate watches you being treated so unfairly and keeps quiet and ask you to ignore things as if it is not happening.

Ramas Post- Mother is always a mother and she becomes a friend after a girl gets married..Mother is always a mother and she becomes a friend after a girl gets married I Agree 100%...That's what my point was too....