Am I the only one - Page 4

Originally posted by: shanti05

Now what will Neetu do11 She lost hehehe!!! Simi got Abhi!!!

Neetu is a survivor. She is tough. She is adjust to anything.She will def make use of the sacrifice she had to give and will not leave any opportunity to make Simi & Abhi life a mess. She is not a girl who is going to keep quiet. She will be more venomous than Anita now.

I loved the way Neetu stood her ground when she said that she will wait for Vicky till eternity and didnot hesitate to say that loud and clear to her parents when the Dagar family was waiting for her approval in the living room.

Later what Neetu did is totally ruthless and I don't give a damn to her love, Neetu is not a positive girl, in the sense that she will not see what is positive in a situation, but I wish Simi was like Neetu regarding Abhi and fought for Abhi, because Simi is a positive girl, in the sense that she doesn't see negativity in a situation.

Originally posted by: bee5

Manik_mia,
I don't know if you caught my comments yday. Though I was initially shocked that Manju was slapping Simi and didn't do the same to Neetu bcos she got preggy before marriage that too with a guy she barely. So, is Manju that liberal with Neetu? But in the next moment, I felt One slap to Simi was not enough, Simi should have gotten more such slaps and not at this moment but right in the beginning when she was hiding her molestation from her mother. At that time I felt sad for Simi that she is keeping everything to herself. Manju or someone should have slapped her hard and should have made to realise such things are not good when kept inside. It can leads to depression. Simi keeping things to herself and doing things all by her own has gone in extremes. Why the hell had to taken Neetu to abortion clinic and crap, she should have gotten her mother involved. Less said the better about the way she has treated Abhi. Every mess is created by Simi, Simi really deserved that slap. I didn't care if it came from Manju! My only problem was it came too late. I am sure RS will not do that. Yes, you are right, Simi should get that slap from RS, then maybe she will learn.

Bee I agree to what u said that simi should nt have hid any thing. she should have told every thing to her parents right from day one. its sher mistake. But she might have not told about neetus thigs as she mioghrt have thought that her parents would feel bad and she could solve it easily. she diddnt expect it to be worse.

About RB molesting........How would she tell her mohter that her would be husband did such and such thing. I think she tried tell her mother once when manju was cleaning simis cupboard ans saw the salwar which she wore and simi told manju what and all will u rectify but that manju diddnt understand. any mother will ask their children when they come home afgter a trip or outing how was u r day. manju duddnt even bother to ask simi that. also I dont think simi is free with her mother as she always shouts at manju and manju has always goven her a infiriority feeling.

Originally posted by: bee5

Neetu is a survivor. She is tough. She is adjust to anything.She will def make use of the sacrifice she had to give and will not leave any opportunity to make Simi & Abhi life a mess. She is not a girl who is going to keep quiet. She will be more venomous than Anita now.

I loved the way Neetu stood her ground when she said that she will wait for Vicky till eternity and didnot hesitate to say that loud and clear to her parents when the Dagar family was waiting for her approval in the living room.

Later what Neetu did is totally ruthless and I don't give a damn to her love, Neetu is not a positive girl, in the sense that she will not see what is positive in a situation, but I wish Simi was like Neetu regarding Abhi and fought for Abhi, because Simi is a positive girl, in the sense that she doesn't see negativity in a situation.

Originally posted by: ssree

Bee I agree to what u said that simi should nt have hid any thing. she should have told every thing to her parents right from day one. its sher mistake. But she might have not told about neetus thigs as she mioghrt have thought that her parents would feel bad and she could solve it easily. she diddnt expect it to be worse.

About RB molesting........How would she tell her mohter that her would be husband did such and such thing. I think she tried tell her mother once when manju was cleaning simis cupboard ans saw the salwar which she wore and simi told manju what and all will u rectify but that manju diddnt understand. any mother will ask their children when they come home afgter a trip or outing how was u r day. manju duddnt even bother to ask simi that. also I dont think simi is free with her mother as she always shouts at manju and manju has always goven her a infiriority feeling.

I would say simi is like this only because of manju. and manju always made a point to see that simi always take care of her younger one with out giving her enough consideration.

What ever wrong simi has done I dont thinks its was right on Manju to slap her 30yr old daughter in front of so many people that too fron of her BIL, Sister SIL, Husband , Would be husband , uncle aunty etc ..... thats not the way a mother should be.

Even when i shout at my son who is 10yrs old in fron of my frients or my relatives my brother nad mother dosent like it and they say ... never shout or hit u r children front of ohter htey will loose teir own value and will always have an inferiority in them.

so I still say what manju has done is wron. I fully wont blame manju. simi was not ready to get married to nakuil. manju gfave kasa, and neetu was also adamant that she get married to nakul.

sorry bee if i am wrong but i felt it htis way

But the way her mom blasted her for not telling was even worse... Blame game was going ion big time !!
'I hope atleast now Simi learns the harsh truth that don;t hide things which should be resolved ASAP !!

Nor would this mess have happened and now the insults hr family got infront of so many people

Originally posted by: Laila2009

I do admire that one quality in Neetu and her willingness to fight for Vicki even though he had done nothing for her. Simi, take a good look at your sister for some pointers. However, the character of Neetu is an airhead who does not blame her family for her predicament but Simi. Now she does have good cause as Simi agreed to go through the marriage with Nukul for her and she backed out (she shouldn't have agreed to it in the first place but once she gave her word to Neetu....). Seems like Simi is a very flakey girl going around making promises but never living up to them. Not a very realiable person at all.

so lala u say that simi should have kept her promise and gone ahead wiht nakul.insoite of all the dram which to place.

Originally posted by: ssree

so lala u say that simi should have kept her promise and gone ahead wiht nakul.insoite of all the dram which to place.

Agree simis personality is of a fluctuating one. but would she be happy with nakul. my one question is why neetu wants to destory simis life inspite of knowing that shes engaged. its not simi falut that vicky got caught. its her misunderstanding. agreed neetu is more corageous than simi. its always there. the eldest child in a family is always shy and not much confident than their siblings. i ahve noticed it in many families.

Originally posted by: ssree

Bee I agree to what u said that simi should nt have hid any thing. she should have told every thing to her parents right from day one. its sher mistake. But she might have not told about neetus thigs as she mioghrt have thought that her parents would feel bad and she could solve it easily. she diddnt expect it to be worse.

There are certain things in life where siblings protect each other. We all do that. Something like pregnancy and abortion is not one of them in my opinion.

Simi is not an uneducated girl. She has a double masters degree and if her thesis is approved she will get a Doctor title. Do you think this girl doesn't know a thing about pregnancy and abortion? One doesn't have to experience all these to have knowledge about these.

Just think what if Neetu had agreed for the abortion and there were complications during the process and which would have lead to her death?

What then???? These kinds of situations are not a joke and never to be taken lightly. Would you do the same what Simi did - not inform anyone in the family and taken a sibling for abortion?

Originally posted by: ssree

so lala u say that simi should have kept her promise and gone ahead wiht nakul.insoite of all the dram which to place.

Agree simis personality is of a fluctuating one. but would she be happy with nakul. my one question is why neetu wants to destory simis life inspite of knowing that shes engaged. its not simi falut that vicky got caught. its her misunderstanding. agreed neetu is more corageous than simi. its always there. the eldest child in a family is always shy and not much confident than their siblings. i ahve noticed it in many families.

Simi shoukld have shook Neetu and told that Abhi just wanted to ask his DCP uncle to trace you both and not arrest Vicky Its someone else's hand in it and i will find out of you can support me and Abhi !!
Simi is a fool who could'nt make Neetu understand or shake her well to make her listen
'Simi is dopse'nt know where3 to use her being elder and getting the word out properly and she ruins her own chances of being in others good books when she needs to

Originally posted by: bee5

There are certain things in life where siblings protect each other. We all do that. Something like pregnancy and abortion is not one of them in my opinion.

Simi is not an uneducated girl. She has a double masters degree and if her thesis is approved she will get a Doctor title. Do you think this girl doesn't know a thing about pregnancy and abortion? One doesn't have to experience all these to have knowledge about these.

Just think what if Neetu had agreed for the abortion and there were complications during the process and which would have lead to her death?

What then???? These kinds of situations are not a joke and never to be taken lightly. Would you do the same what Simi did - not inform anyone in the family and taken a sibling for abortion?

Originally posted by: shanti05

Simi shoukld have shook Neetu and told that Abhi just wanted to ask his DCP uncle to trace you both and not arrest Vicky Its someone else's hand in it and i will find out of you can support me and Abhi !!
Simi is a fool who could'nt make Neetu understand or shake her well to make her listen
'Simi is dopse'nt know where3 to use her being elder and getting the word out properly and she ruins her own chances of being in others good books when she needs to

shanti It was nakul who complained to the DCP and the photos were also given. The DCP was Abhis uncles. Nakul is also related to abhi from his mothers side so obviouslt the DCP will be known to Nakul also. I still feel abhi ahs no hands in it. Abhi just infomred the DCP but it was the photos that put vicky in trouble.