should anuj anita be thrown out?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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as a mother I am always concerned what if my son brings some one kniving like many vixens of TV land as his bride.
Would we be able to do what RS did today?
This is the hardest thing to do for any parent as you put so much into raising your child and once he starts treating you like you are no body as he does not need you any more.
I think sethis are better off throwing them out. Why take more heartache.?
This will save every one grief. This is a hardest blow for manju. But manju needs to understand if she keeps him in the house he will bring more misery to every one and to himself as well.
For the best of children some time you have to learn to let go. 😭
what do you think?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think RS did the right thing... Anuj thinks he will be respected at his in Laws... lets see what happens.... they are all selfish people... selfish people only think about themselves... and anuj will realise he will be even more confused... with three people telling him what to do....
its very difficult for parents to do this... but sometimes for their own good it is the best thing....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It is the best thing to do at this moment..Otherwise it will bring more unpleasant situations @ the Sethi's in the future..
Now Anuj will learn it the hard way!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Anuj needs to be kicked out! He should live at his in-laws & see how they treat him compared to his own parents - his saas won't even care whether he has eaten or not. He deserves to be treated like a servant - that will be fun to watch!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't support this fully.... I'm more towards PEACE-actually Anuj is Wrong BUT Rajinder's Partial behaviour towards his Son is responsible for Anuj being a very Weak character....after all it's the parents who build Children's character so why Blame Anuj alone..??
I think it coul've been better if rajinder decided to SIT CALMLY with Anuj and ask him the reason n talk to his son open heartedly.... that might have given Rajinder some assurance that at least He tried otherwise I've never seen Rajinder TRYING to develop his relation with his only son truly!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think there is no better punishment cella yet he understood that Anita is not someone who can make full and happy that his family remains his family no matter what happens. By living with his parents-he will understand that nobody is better than his own parents
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sray76

I think RS did the right thing... Anuj thinks he will be respected at his in Laws... lets see what happens.... they are all selfish people... selfish people only think about themselves... and anuj will realise he will be even more confused... with three people telling him what to do....

its very difficult for parents to do this... but sometimes for their own good it is the best thing....

i agree 100% it is exteremly difficult for parent to do to his only son who they thought will take care of tehm in their old age.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think they need to be put out because anuj and anita are really difficult people and need some time to realise that what do u think
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Posted: 15 years ago
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no they should not be thrown out.
Rajinder Sethi should give his son one more chance to mend his ways .Anuj on his part should return the money to his father.
Parenting is hard.It is easy to yell and threaten but the truth is it does not help solve problems.
Why can Rajinder Sethi not let Anita bring stuff from her parents?If Anuj cannot afford it then his(Anuj's ) father should let Anita have what she wants from her parents
Don't they know she is a bade baap ki ekloti beti.She needs time to adjust in her sasural.
What do you guys think?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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As a parent RS wanted Anuj to realise many things in life accommodation respect sincerity which he did in upbringing all his kids If this was one ofd his daughters also he might have done a similar treatment. So partially he did it good but yeah giving him an ultimatum as to you can gain my respect only if you can give respect and do things properly cud have eased all the drama

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