reasons behind Abhi's insane behavioir

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

intialy he was helping simi who was always in distress and he was her savior confidant and her best friend

He was always in command as simi needed him for making her happy needing solution to a problem, saving her from RB or bad situations and he was not attached to her. he felt he can always be in control in simi's sitaution and her life even though he is younger and simi is older. he even promised her you don't have to cry in front of any one if you accept my condition and that is his love.

He is now so happy and he feels now everything will go so right and first hings happens that h gets caught by his older ss ter holding simi

next he finds his cousin older brother who is bigger looking more succesful wel dressed who has evrything going for himself asking for his lady love's hand while abhi hs nothing to offer at prenet as he hs nothing he is a stundet who can not even support himself let alone supporting his love.

He is making comparision between himself and hsi successful cousin and finds him better and superior every way for his lady love. and he can't stand thinking of loosing her. So he calls her first thtng in teh morning in the park and to put oil in fire simi calls him baccha and he feels so little compare to her and nakul. Next simi mentions his name and says he is coming home to see hr and they should not be meeting at public place like this which makes abhi explodes saying the truth he might have burried in his heart and calls simi first mother figure and next asks her not to look and act so big compare to him.

I am wondering is abhi after older woman and mother figures always as he mentioned previously he liked girls from 12 th grade when he was in 9th grade and he was attracted to his tutor who is not giving him any response

.so may be simi contributed a lot to his insane behavior even though tthat was not intetional hurting his ego so badly making him feel so little. and litle kid so he acted like one.

waht say?

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j_veenu

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree with you to a certain extent...I think Abhi is tired of being called 'chota' or kidish....even from his dad, he has never got that kind love and support and most importantly trust which one should be getting at this age....his dad thinks of him as an irresponsible boy which make Abhi more sad....Helping Simi to get her out of RB's catch was something which proved that Abhi is no more a school going kid but a grown up man....moreoever according to his age, I think this kind of behaviour is expected from Abhi's age boy....With Simi, he gets the feeling that there is someone who can depend on him and even he can be a responbile man who can very well look after a girl, can keep her smiling...Simi confronting her helplessness and other feelings with Abhi made him feel great....But only if Simi keeps on taunting him for being chilidish...its obvious to hurt Abhi...that too during the time when his own cousin who is being protrayed much more matured and responible than Abhi is showing interest in Simi.....

But this is how both of them have to learn....Slowly and gradually...Abhi will understant Simi's point of view and similarly for Simi.....Abhi will be shown grwoing more matured and Simi will be shown bringing out the girl (and not the women) inside of her...and thats who they will compliment each other...!!!

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ReadLo

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Posted: 15 years ago

I totally agree with you ramas

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Bun Maska

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Posted: 15 years ago

Abhi telling a lie is for a good cause so it does not matter....agreed he is insecure.......but we have to remember he is in love....with love comes insecurity, possessiveness and his behaviour is perfect in that sense......offcourse he acts childish at times...but then its ok...we should always keep the child in us alive and its that very thing that drew abhi and simi closer so I don't find anything insane in his behaviour.....and moreover simi needs to know that nobody in this world is perfect...and abhi is close to being perfect 😳

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Lata

Abhi telling a lie is for a good cause so it does not matter....agreed he is insecure.......but we have to remember he is in love....with love comes insecurity, possessiveness and his behaviour is perfect in that sense......offcourse he acts childish at times...but then its ok...we should always keep the child in us alive and its that very thing that drew abhi and simi closer so I don't find anything insane in his behaviour.....and moreover simi needs to know that nobody in this world is perfect...and abhi is close to being perfect 😳

Lata, lying will only get you caught and make you end up look a fool. For some of us, these behaviors are in contrast to the Abhi we have seen even after he was falling in love with Simi. Plus some of us do not like the childish behaviors of Abhi and have argued that it is not consistent with the riginal development of his character. Youthfulness can be protrayed in many ways Sunkum25 did an excellent job of providing examples, without resorting to childlike behaviors.

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: j_veenu
I agree with you to a certain extent...I think Abhi is tired of being called 'chota' or kidish....even from his dad, he has never got that kind love and support and most importantly trust which one should be getting at this age....his dad thinks of him as an irresponsible boy which make Abhi more sad....Helping Simi to get her out of RB's catch was something which proved that Abhi is no more a school going kid but a grown up man....moreoever according to his age, I think this kind of behaviour is expected from Abhi's age boy....With Simi, he gets the feeling that there is someone who can depend on him and even he can be a responbile man who can very well look after a girl, can keep her smiling...Simi confronting her helplessness and other feelings with Abhi made him feel great....But only if Simi keeps on taunting him for being chilidish...its obvious to hurt Abhi...that too during the time when his own cousin who is being protrayed much more matured and responible than Abhi is showing interest in Simi.....

But this is how both of them have to learn....Slowly and gradually...Abhi will understant Simi's point of view and similarly for Simi.....Abhi will be shown grwoing more matured and Simi will be shown bringing out the girl (and not the women) inside of her...and thats who they will compliment each other...!!!

so true they both need time and they have love factor on their side . They both love each other crazily and that will always save them from leaving eachother no matter how angry they are at each other.

I do agree living most life with boys and man as I grew up with 3 brother and now my huby and son I know many times you know things and can much do a better job at things you have that to let them feel they can do better and you don't know and you need their help and find that joy and happiness,

Up untill now simi has handled crisis in her life but now she a man in her life who can handle it wonderfully she needs to trust him and make him feel that she needs him to do things for her.

Which will boost abhi's ego.

One thing for sure men never likes a pasanger' s seat and are always happy drivning you around. They are happy when they are leading. Long and short simi needs to make abhi feel that he can handle their problems better than and he has proven that several times .

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ReadLo

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Posted: 15 years ago

I give my views later if I am in complete agreement with you

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Pattinson6
I totally agree with you ramas

I think simi better learn that she was going to commit a suicide and same baccha saved her and for that give him a respect. he is due. and abhi is a bachcha compare to her. so he is going to act his age that does not mean she should make him feel little compare to her.

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Lata

Abhi telling a lie is for a good cause so it does not matter....agreed he is insecure.......but we have to remember he is in love....with love comes insecurity, possessiveness and his behaviour is perfect in that sense......offcourse he acts childish at times...but then its ok...we should always keep the child in us alive and its that very thing that drew abhi and simi closer so I don't find anything insane in his behaviour.....and moreover simi needs to know that nobody in this world is perfect...and abhi is close to being perfect 😳

said so beutifully. What is the harm in lying . He is doing that to protect what he consier his. He wants to spare simi from going thru another situation like RB and he is trying his best so simi does not have to go thru another torment. We do this thing in real life to save our loved ones and lie here and there to protect them and they say if you lie for good cause it is forgiven.

exactly no one is perfect. I am sure simi did not mean harm but from now on simi needs to give the same respect to him she would have given him otherwise to her love. Treating abhi same way she treats mili nitu and anuj is very wrong yes they are baccha but abhi is a man in her life and he needs to be treated such a way.

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: Laila2009

Lata, lying will only get you caught and make you end up look a fool. For some of us, these behaviors are in contrast to the Abhi we have seen even after he was falling in love with Simi. Plus some of us do not like the childish behaviors of Abhi and have argued that it is not consistent with the riginal development of his character. Youthfulness can be protrayed in many ways Sunkum25 did an excellent job of providing examples, without resorting to childlike behaviors.

I would say lying is fine as long as you are doing that tp protect your loved one from going thru another torment. it will not be easy for simi to meet Nakul and especially nakul knowing he is abhi's older brother and a very successful man so abhi tries to spare her that pain. He tried those thing to see if nakul decides not to meet simi and he thought he was doing himself and simi a big favor.

I am sure Nakul is aware of abhi's behavior pattern and will take this as another joke till he finds out abhi is doing this for himself. If abhi is caught he can say I was just kidding or giving you hard time biig brother any way,

So I see no harm in him lying. Actually I am looking forward to abhi's pranks and I hope he takes this meeting as simi's helplessness and nothing else. I won;t mind abhi simi cooking up some plan so that nakul says no to simi.

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