Simi taking Abhi for granted...grrr

why is simi taking abhi for granted 😡.....when the whole world tried to pull her down Abhi was the only one who stood by her and here she is when Abhi is proclaiming his love and is going through a turmoil whether to talk to her dad or not madam is coolly telling him i have much more graver issues to deal with.......agreed neetu's situation is terrible but for heaven's sake Simi give some respect and love for the guy who loves you like anything.....😭......poor Abhi.......Simi pls. wake up and smell the coffee before its too late...🤢.....else there are n number of girls waiting in queue to get a guy like Abhi 😳

Ditto!!!!!!!

Understand there can be a lot of girls in queue for Abhi.
But IMO, Simi is doing what is right for the family now. Neetu's situation is far more 'gambheer' IMO too.
But, I didn't understand why she advises Neetu not to look for Vicky?!

Simi is always shown to be a cool person. Remember how Abhi went all out to find proof that RB is a bad guy, but Simi was always cool and went all the way to the dias to get married to RB!

It is just her personality and being cool would definitely help Simi think right, this time for Neetu. I 'll wait n watch...

Originally posted by: Lata

why is simi taking abhi for granted 😡.....when the whole world tried to pull her down Abhi was the only one who stood by her and here she is when Abhi is proclaiming his love and is going through a turmoil whether to talk to her dad or not madam is coolly telling him i have much more graver issues to deal with.......agreed neetu's situation is terrible but for heaven's sake Simi give some respect and love for the guy who loves you like anything.....😭......poor Abhi.......Simi pls. wake up and smell the coffee before its too late...🤢.....else there are n number of girls waiting in queue to get a guy like Abhi 😳

Love your post!!! So glad you noted this too!!!

I wrote this repsonse on another topic just now.

Do you feel that Simi cares as much as Abhi does about losing him now that Nukul is in the picture? I mean she's got the best of both worlds now - Abhi and Nukul, so she can pick.

Simi has always been a coward and believes she has to get married. She can't make an execuse if her father approves. Abhi is in no position to marry her; if she tells anyone she will have to give a reason and she really can't come up with a good one.

She even tells Abhi time and time again we cannot meet anymore in secret. So what does that mean? She doesn't care to see him anymore? She's more concerned about what other people think than finding a way to meet the guy she is supposed to like and/or love?

At the end of the day, I used to feel compassion for Simi but after this episode I find her to be a rather selfish and ungrateful woman. She's got a guy to like her after 10 rejects and she treats him like a doormat. She got him dancing around. Frankly speaking Simi has done nothing for Abhi; he's done everything for her and she has never once thanked him. At least the Simi in Ramas' story acknowledges what he has done for her time and time again.

Originally posted by: Lata

I totally agree Laila......Abhi is not some extra baggage that whenever she wants she can use him or else discard him........watching yest. episode I understood one point is that all the siblings are just one selfish lot.....just and just thinking about themselves.........the least she could have done was atleast pacify Abhi and tell that we will deal with the situation together......but as you said she has always been a coward ........my heart goes out to Abhi who at the moment looks like its just one sided love while Abhi is deeply in love with Simi and Simi just thinks he is a bachhaa...........for heaven's sake Simi what Abhi feels for her is not infatuation.......but if she behaves that way am sure Abhi will be forced to think that what he feels for her is indeed Love or something else.....like the way he comes to her terribly disturbed and asks her tumhara naam kya hain......simi ya simran...mein abhi thak tumhara naam bhi theekh se nayi jaanta....😭..and looks blank as if there is no light at the end of the tunnel........pls. creatives don't drag this and show Abhi-Simi romance........😳

I don't like what they have done to Abhi's character; they have made him the weaker person in comparison to Simi and you have captured to so well in what I mean by my use of the term "pathetic." He is the one pining for Simi, not the other way round. Simi is the one who is taking this guy for granted. She doesn't even respect him as a friend. I mean Simi is not supposed to be the catch of the century and she is acting as though she is the one whom Abhi should dance too.

girls you are jumping guns too soon. Simi cares for abhi as much as he does. Abhi has only simi 's problem to dela with but for simi as an oldersis she has lot more. Simi will showas much care for abhi or even more once abhi knows what is going on and he will understand. Abhi simi loves each other and simi does not care about nakul or any one else and will fight for abhi and him .

but Raksha.......as Guruji once told jo ek ne na kahin...doosre ne na suni......tho phir kya faayda..........simi needs to understand that she just knows Abhi for the past 2 mths and not all her life......so she has to tell him that........else which guy would wait for her all his life and that too at the age which Abhi is right now...

Originally posted by: ramas

girls you are jumping guns too soon. Simi cares for abhi as much as he does. Abhi has only simi 's problem to dela with but for simi as an oldersis she has lot more. Simi will showas much care for abhi or even more once abhi knows what is going on and he will understand. Abhi simi loves each other and simi does not care about nakul or any one else and will fight for abhi and him .

I don't think simi is selfish she is selfless person abhi has just entered her life. Nitu mili and anuj are her siblings . if she is ready to marry person like RB for anuj imagine wah she wil not do for Nitu and that is to put aside abhi and her love life for little while.

She told abhi that they have to keep their relation secrest because she does not want her realtion affect her sister chance to find a good husband.

A loving person like simi how can she be selfish or abandon abhi she knows what abhi means to her.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

I don't think either of us are jumping the guns here Ramas. We're not talking about her getting married to Abhi, we're talking about her showing at least some morsel of compassion, love and concern about the situaiton in which she is currently facing. If her siblings are always going to be an issue, she needed to be honest with Abhi from the start and not expect or require him to love her in the first place. That is selfish. You are talking about the things she does to her siblings to give impression that she is selfless, well her selflessness shouldn't mean spitting in the face of the guy who went out of his way for her. I don't see any love on her part for Abhi; perhaps when it was a love that she didn't think she had we actually felt some empathy for her, but now she has it, she's acting like she's one hot mama.

Abhi is still in there house and let us wait till tom simi abhi conversation is not done yet. I am sure the earliest chance she gets she will calm him or even share her nitu problem with him to explain why she did what she did.