some ppl just never learn!!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Manju has a very low self respect that is why see invites the same ppl who insults her and make simi looks like an ugly desperate girl that can be married anywhere.
I am jus tired ans sick of watching a mother who keeps getting herself and simi put down by so called friends. Simi is an educated independant woman she should tell such ppl off and ask tehm to leave. If I was in manju's place I will not call such so called friends to my party.
What kind of mother she is who can not protect her child from being ridiculed more and more and invite such ppl who only knows how to insult and ridicule her further. Simi is truly an unfortunate girl to have such mother who never cares to understand her feelings but only knows how to dictate her.
I felt like slapping all 4 ladies today except dolli chachi.
poor simi
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am so with you on this one! Manju's character is very inconsistant. Initially, they did show her as somewhat of a loving mother, but in the current track, her actions are ridiculous...
Manju is not an uneducated female living in a remote village...she lives in the city...and in a time where she doesnt need to sell off her daughter for the sake of society. I fail to understand why she considers the daughter who does so much for her a burden.... and why she continuously trys to bring down Simi's confidence level...
I hope once Abhi and Simi are ready to proclaim their love for each other, Simi has the guts to stand up for what SHE wants and teach her mother a lesson
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anugupta

I am so with you on this one! Manju's character is very inconsistant. Initially, they did show her as somewhat of a loving mother, but in the current track, her actions are ridiculous...

Manju is not an uneducated female living in a remote village...she lives in the city...and in a time where she doesnt need to sell off her daughter for the sake of society. I fail to understand why she considers the daughter who does so much for her a burden.... and why she continuously trys to bring down Simi's confidence level...
I hope once Abhi and Simi are ready to proclaim their love for each other, Simi has the guts to stand up for what SHE wants and teach her mother a lesson

I hope so too. I think simi can tell. She is just not doing because she does not want to hurt her and taking all the crap from her. May be abhi will help Simi realize that no one is worth taking all this crap who leads her to self destuction.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

I hope so too. I think simi can tell. She is just not doing because she does not want to hurt her and taking all the crap from her. May be abhi will help Simi realize that no one is worth taking all this crap who leads her to self destuction.

Yeah I agree...sometimes you have to respect your parents and listen to what they say, which is what Simi has been doing til now. Her marraige to Rajiv was simply a compromise and sacrifice to protect her family. However sometimes you have to think of yourself and not let anyone bring your confidence down. And Abhi is like the angel in her life who will help her reach this self-realization 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Manju is not a bad mother. She is simply caught up in the trap that other mothers end up in - a single daughter at home. Society places the value of a woman on whether she is able to find a good rishta. If she does not , then the family has to bear the burden of the gossiping women and social isolation.

Manju does not want to be treated in such a horrible way; she hates the way people talk about Simi but does not know how to deal with these comments. She wants a good rishta for her daughter but in her desperation, a good rishta for her turns out to be Rajeev Bhala!!
The women who came happen to be her friends; they are the ones who "attempt" to show some moral support and at the same time echo the voices of the other women in the community.
Manju is doing the best she can under the circumstances. I think the woman who plays her part is doing an excellent job. It's a 3 dimensional character - both good and bad - and it is very challenging to play this part. I don't hate Manju at all; in fact I really sympathize with her - she really wants the best for her daughter - she does not see her as a burden but believes she has a role as a mother and that is marry her daughter to a good man. If she does not, then she has failed at her role towards her daugthers.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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oh please manju is a sadist, even my grand-dad who is so conservative hates her, he said she acts like a illiterate bimbo from small village
who instead of appreciating what simi was about to do for family,butinstead of helping her escape the clutches of such an evil man,was ready to let her daughter marry the so called man,only due her own insecurities
this woman is a disgrace & it's thanks to her simi is so withdrawn & has zilch cofidence, so i am hoping abhi my hero gives her enough confidence to simi, which inreturn gives simi the moral boost needed for her to stand up to her bully mother
the woman is a pathetic excuse for a mother,needs to take a hard look at her self & realises that she needs a psychitrist to cure her brain
just wish mr sethi blows up & shows this horrid wicked witch her rightful place

i can't believe it she invited those 2 good for nothing womaen to further humiliate simi
go to hell manju wish you drop dead,you don't only look horrid but have a horrid & filthy mind
i have now come to conclusion manju is a very insecure woman, who more than her self & her family values what others think of her & her daughters & wants to please the so called society
simi please speak up & end your mother's bullying, manju is going to drive simi away & will repent putting her daughter through hell & once she realises that she is the most evil mother, she will drop dead in shame

i want creatives to create a concept where abhi makes simi realise that the main downfall of her life is her mother,who mentally tortured her so much,that simi stopped valuing her self & her acheivements,because her mother's constant mental abuse,made her feel so inferior, that every inch of self confidence was drenched out of her,that she started to believe there was something wrong with her & that's why no one wants her
after this realisation simi totally cuts her mother out of her life & starts to ignore her torments & does as she pleases,even by refusing to participate in her nautanki of match making,it's time for tit for tat simi sher uth aur apni chudayel maan ko dekha den ke hum bhi kissi se kam nahi,jab abhi hai sang to mujhe kis baat ka hai gham
i hate manju so much
Edited by sajibabe - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anugupta

Yeah I agree...sometimes you have to respect your parents and listen to what they say, which is what Simi has been doing til now. Her marraige to Rajiv was simply a compromise and sacrifice to protect her family. However sometimes you have to think of yourself and not let anyone bring your confidence down. And Abhi is like the angel in her life who will help her reach this self-realization 😊

Abhi has already started the process . She stood up to RB and threatened him several times, She might as well tel manju if hs eis pushed around so many times.
I think simi will come to the point that nothing else will matter but abhi and his love.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sajibabe

oh please manju is a sadist, even my grand-dad who is so conservative hates her, he said she acts like a illiterate bimbo from small village
who instead of appreciating what simi was about to do for family,butinstead of helping her escape the clutches of such an evil man,was ready to let her daughter marry the so called man,only due her own insecurities
this woman is a disgrace & it's thanks to her simi is so withdrawn & has zilch cofidence, so i am hoping abhi my hero gives her enough confidence to simi, which inreturn gives simi the moral boost needed for her to stand up to her bully mother
the woman is a pathetic excuse for a mother,needs to take a hard look at her self & realises that she needs a psychitrist to cure her brain
just wish mr sethi blows up & shows this horrid wicked witch her rightful place

i can't believe it she invited those 2 good for nothing womaen to further humiliate simi
go to hell manju wish you drop dead,you don't only look horrid but have a horrid & filthy mind
i have now come to conclusion manju is a very insecure woman, who more than her self & her family values what others think of her & her daughters & wants to please the so called society
simi please speak up & end your mother's bullying, manju is going to drive simi away & will repent putting her daughter through hell & once she realises that she is the most evil mother, she will drop dead in shame

i want creatives to create a concept where abhi makes simi realise that the main downfall of her life is her mother,who mentally tortured her so much,that simi stopped valuing her self & her acheivements,because her mother's constant mental abuse,made her feel so inferior, that every inch of self confidence was drenched out of her,that she started to believe there was something wrong with her & that's why no one wants her
after this realisation simi totally cuts her mother out of her life & starts to ignore her torments & does as she pleases,even by refusing to participate in her nautanki of match making,it's time for tit for tat simi sher uth aur apni chudayel maan ko dekha den ke hum bhi kissi se kam nahi,jab abhi hai sang to mujhe kis baat ka hai gham
i hate manju so much

Well you didn't hold back there as to how you felt about Manju😉😛
Abhi, I hope does play a powerful role in building Simi's self-worth and I hope that with him there she will no longer be afraid to let her mother know that she is beautiful at least to Abhi and that's all that matters. I hope the creative team will use the confidence that Simi develops to bring some self-worth back to Manju so she can go to those people who have taunted her and tell them that she is proud of her daughter.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sajibabe

oh please manju is a sadist, even my grand-dad who is so conservative hates her, he said she acts like a illiterate bimbo from small village
who instead of appreciating what simi was about to do for family,butinstead of helping her escape the clutches of such an evil man,was ready to let her daughter marry the so called man,only due her own insecurities
this woman is a disgrace & it's thanks to her simi is so withdrawn & has zilch cofidence, so i am hoping abhi my hero gives her enough confidence to simi, which inreturn gives simi the moral boost needed for her to stand up to her bully mother
the woman is a pathetic excuse for a mother,needs to take a hard look at her self & realises that she needs a psychitrist to cure her brain
just wish mr sethi blows up & shows this horrid wicked witch her rightful place

i can't believe it she invited those 2 good for nothing womaen to further humiliate simi
go to hell manju wish you drop dead,you don't only look horrid but have a horrid & filthy mind
i have now come to conclusion manju is a very insecure woman, who more than her self & her family values what others think of her & her daughters & wants to please the so called society
simi please speak up & end your mother's bullying, manju is going to drive simi away & will repent putting her daughter through hell & once she realises that she is the most evil mother, she will drop dead in shame

i want creatives to create a concept where abhi makes simi realise that the main downfall of her life is her mother,who mentally tortured her so much,that simi stopped valuing her self & her acheivements,because her mother's constant mental abuse,made her feel so inferior, that every inch of self confidence was drenched out of her,that she started to believe there was something wrong with her & that's why no one wants her
after this realisation simi totally cuts her mother out of her life & starts to ignore her torments & does as she pleases,even by refusing to participate in her nautanki of match making,it's time for tit for tat simi sher uth aur apni chudayel maan ko dekha den ke hum bhi kissi se kam nahi,jab abhi hai sang to mujhe kis baat ka hai gham
i hate manju so much

we need to be careful in our langauge plz as certain words aren't allowed.
But I know what you mean, Manju is bullying abusive mother who has robbed simi of her childhood and adolesence and have made her feel lik she is nothing, Simi should be proud of herself and what she has been doing for heself anf society. her contributions should be appreciated by ppl around her. She cares more for good for nothing son who is going to ditch her and cause her so much pain. manju certainly need help of psychiatrist she is a saddistic mother who thinks having a unmarried daughter around is a crime.
Yes parents to worry when tehy have unmarried daughter but then they do not become fanatic trying to marry daughter off to scum like RB.
It is like sending your daughter to slaughter house to be buchered. espeically a girl like Simi who will suffer everything but won't say a word to any one.
Abhi surely needs to alientate simi from her mom first and make her realize how beautiful her life can be and ppl around her are fortunate to have a girl like Simi in their life who is so loving caring and wonderful person.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I understand Manju's dilemma of having an unmarried daughter at home and having to worry about the rest of her daughters future as well. It is fine for her to be concerned with marrying Simi off as that is the responsibility of a mother.
But HOW can she want to marry Simi to Rajeev after knowing what kind of sick man he is? That is the only part that really concerns me about her... If she wants to get her daughter married that is fine, but if she wants to just put her in a relationship like that, it is like her selling her daughter off..... there is NO justification for a mother to do that to her daughter...

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