Jennifer Garner sets boundaries, avoids involvement in Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's drama

Jennifer Garner is reportedly setting firm boundaries regarding her relationship with Jennifer Lopez, as she seeks to distance herself from the ongoing drama surrounding her ex-husband Ben Affleck’s split from Lopez. Sources indicate that the 52-year-old actress is no longer willing to be caught in the middle of their issues, opting instead to prioritize her own peace and personal boundaries.

According to insider information shared with Star, Garner initially tried to remain neutral, even encouraging Affleck and Lopez to seek counseling and work on their relationship. However, she began to notice behaviors from Lopez that she found off-putting. The source explained, “She was dragged into Ben and J.Lo’s problems. It’s not what she wanted, but J.Lo appealed to her gentle nature, and Jen is such a nice person that she couldn’t say no.”

Previously, Garner had hoped her children—Violet, Seraphina, and Samuel, whom she shares with Affleck—would maintain a close relationship with Lopez. However, her perspective has shifted. The insider revealed, “It was an uncomfortable position for her. She felt like she was being manipulated.” As a result, Garner believes it’s best to keep her distance from Lopez during the divorce proceedings, wanting to stay out of their personal matters moving forward.

Reports have surfaced indicating that Affleck has been leaning on Garner for support during this tumultuous time, even spending Thanksgiving at her home. A source noted that while he has his own place, he frequently dines with Garner's family and often leaves with care packages of food. “She’s very concerned about his health,” the insider added, mentioning that she reminds him about doctor appointments and sends him vitamins because she worries he doesn’t eat healthily when she isn’t cooking for him.

Despite the complexities of their situation, Affleck reportedly feels comfortable around Garner. Another source stated, “He can just be himself. Even though Ben and Jen have been separated for some time now, he feels a certain level of comfort with her.” Their strong bond remains intact due to their shared history and co-parenting responsibilities.

As both Affleck and Garner navigate their individual lives—Affleck recently divorced Lopez after nearly two years of marriage—Garner continues to focus on her own well-being while ensuring her children are happy and supported.