Originally posted by: BenNevis
Dummycim, I dont throw rotten eggs, just strawberries, as its end of season here😳
Totally agree. But I understand being raised without parents(Biological) he must have missed all the things that other kids have them in their life. ZN may take care of everything more than he needs, but he must missed the motherly love since he was around 6. He may grow up to overcome of all his fears by all along , but they never gone out of his mind. As a grown man , he loves to have a woman in his life who fills all the love and care he wished all these years. He is too sensitive when it comes to his loved ones. Do you know, the saying "Child is the father of man " thats always perfect for most men I watched. whether its father, brother or some other men whom I come across, they always seems like kid when the circumstances against them, unlike the women/girls . Girls are more stronger than when it comes to the situations are very critical. They can manage so well as their mentally stronger than men. Thats why they callled women "nari shakti"
I am sure there must be a butler or nanny who spent early years with AA since ZN was a busy doctor. And they know AA better than anyone? This should bring in more characters to the drama!!
Originally posted by: BenNevis
AA still a kid when it comes to Eylul. Its Eylul's responsibility to hold him like a mother whenever that times comes in future. She has to fill his life with abundant love so that he wont repeat those lines all the time expressing his insecurities. Did you notice in the last episode, he said " never stop loving me like this" then Eylul replied " never be sad again. ok". I felt she understands his fears of past and gave him strength " not to worrY". Its like a promise to each other. I just wait to see, will they keep their words to each other when their own promises tested.
Yes AA's few words are always intriguing for us.
In bold are those lines from first episode where she says "even if I were your mother, I would not love you". This sentence will rebound. ;-)
Originally posted by: BenNevis
I know AA seems bit of self centred, but I saw many good men like that in real life and I dont think its bad unless it harms others in any way. I can see him more of self belief/self respect than self centred most times. I can see ZN bringing up reflects in his self confidence and self respect.
I am yo-yoing on AA at this point. I love to bits, but his flawness adds to complexity.
ZN has done a great job in bringing up this child.
Originally posted by: BenNevis
The time comes when her trust will be shattered but yet its not AA's fault. Its the circumstances that playing since he wants to tell the truth of her gran's. May be she will distance herself for a while for not telling her but she has to realise howmany times he tried to tell but couldn't. He didnt lie or cheat like her dad.
But she her impulsive reactions will take toll on them. It will look like Ali's fault at the exterior, but their stars is at fault.
Originally posted by: BenNevis
Did you remember , I did ask you why she put that ring in hurry?
Actually I felt , she had that arguement with her father as she felt her trust in him broken again and said she never marry a man who lies. She thinks AA is perfect unlike her dad. She felt she lost one man (dad), so she wants to fill that void with another , whom she trusts completely. she took that decision in hurrry as she was emotionally got weak and she just fillled that void with Ali immediately.
she put that ring on finger at the moment when she was emotionally very weak , which is wrong. Her decision shouldn't be on emotional basis , which many people does in real life. Ali totally understands her emotions that time as a lover and doctor and tried his best to calm her down.
Oh..I just love this explanation.
Originally posted by: BenNevis
Yes ofcourse, He didnt lie at all. But couldn't tell the truth. There is lot of differece between lie and not telling the truth . I just wish they shouldn't go further towards their marriage , until AA tells her truth. I trust he would tell her when her marriage dreams and her trust will shattered in most loving person of her life. But its take a while to realize then she comes back to him. If AA goes ahead with marriage without telling the truth, then even I wont forgive him.
Perfect timing to end season 1 uh?
Originally posted by: BenNevis
AA is more focused on his career than anything as its the heart and soul once someone died because of his medical mistake. He wont forgive himself for that in his entire life. Does he forgive ZN , when the day comes and learns its the same medical accident that killed his parents too? Yes, he must and should. It can happen with anyone. But Sinan did that mistake by his negligence as he was on the phone while operating, which is unforgivable.Eylul is most loved one after his career for sure and Im glad she accepts and understand that fact as a doctor. As a doctor its his responsibility comes first towards the patients than his love. They showed the same thing at the accident site in the last episode. Patients always comes first to any doctor. He didn't check her first but jumped to help the man in the ambulance as his priorities should be the patient first. well life is alwyas tricky and throws unexpected surprises and shocks time to time. only the person dealing with them knows how hard it is . Thats why i dont say that someone's life is easier than the other.
AA is scared on that very incident. But realizes that there is nothing in front of angel of death too.
Yes for doctors (who are committed), its duty first and then their lives next. Infact Eylul also pushed the proposal abruptly to hear from Serdar..she has done that many times which has annoyed Ali. Isnt it?
Originally posted by: BenNevis
seems like my typing skills are getting better by replying to your posts😆 sorry once again for such long post. My fingers moving faster than my brain😆
Please dont stop, i love to discuss characters. We make a party in this lonely thread!!
Edited by DefLeppard - 7 years ago