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sun29

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Posted: 9 years ago

#31

that whole scene where zeeshan professes his love for her ,it was so heartless on her part...rabia had absolutely no emotion on her face when he assured her of his love ,instead humiliated her husband by telling him she had other options..i think that was the point finally his patience gave in ...she has been self centered right through this relationship...it was always about her never about him...not once she considered his feelings when she kept on comparing him with nabeel,or mocking his financial status or his honest nature ...she expected him to take all her nonsense which he did...even i am happy they got divorced coz this relationship was bound to end badly at some point ..if not rumiasa then tomorrow it would surely have been his lifestyle or his work or his salary and once she would have spend his inheritance the whining would have started ..zeeshan bend a lot in this relationship and then she has the nerve to accuse him of wanting to marry rumaisa coz he had feelings for her???

it was like rabia was just waiting to end this relationship as she had other options she wanted

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zarmeeno

@zarmeeno

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Posted: 9 years ago

#32

I just fail to understand that how can people expect a change in Rumaisa. She was the girl without parents and was raised by her khala who never taught her how to raise a voice and stand up for herself. Even Khala's kids and husbands did not had any say in front of her. Then she got married to Nabeel who on the other side protected her and was her shield, she again was not taught how to raise her voice or stand up for herself as Nabeel use to do that for her and that too not in front of her and then he passed away and she was still in the state of shock when everybody was trying to pressurize her for whatever they wanted. U guys have not watched the last episode yet and people said it was abrupt ending but I think it was great. I loved the conversation between Zeeshan and Rumaisa in the last episode.

U guys are use to Indian serials where the leads r submissive and only get their praises when they do something really big but again never have the courage to stand up for herself but still shown making all the decisions which hurts only their loved ones and they r always trying to please the person who loves hurting them.

In reality when somebody that is submissive is actually submissive. If they had a mind from the beginning they would know when to be submissive and when to stand up for your self. Some people don't change no matter what happens they remain the same and it is not a bad thing as in the end Zeeshan did say her that u thought that you will listen to everyone and everyone will love u and her voiceover says that yes I did think that it will happen.

So I say I will continue to say I loved the show. The only thing I missed which I feel Zeeshan should have said in the end that to his parents and family that Nabeel was there for everybody and their families and but unfortunately when Nabeel;s family wanted them nobody was there and unfortunately that proves that everybody gave love or respect to nabeel only coz he was fulfilling their wishes and was paying their bills.

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sun29

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Posted: 9 years ago

#33

rumaisa exactly did not have a submissive childhood or upbringing ..till her father was alive she had a beautiful childhood full of dreams and even after her father died if her khala could allow her to get educated and attain a graduation for whatever the reason...she did not exactly lock up rumaisa or whip her...rumaisa was exposed to the world,to education ...it is a different thing altogether she did not take advantage of it...and no amount of excuse can make up for what she does to her own daughter...taking out all her frustration on another weak being just like she was being treated..infact this should have made her protective about maham instead of pushing her into this mess so that she can make ever tom and jane happy...and that is indeed frustrating..

and yes i have watched the entire series and as said before...other than zeeshan rumiasa part the end was abrupt indeed...the only time rumiasa actually reacted was in last 2-3 episdoes to zeeshan making us realize she does possess some emotion...

and please do not generalize us into a category just because we watch Indian serials...we can certainly differentiate between good and bad inspite of that...no one is expecting rumiaisa here to tunr into a sacrificing bahu coz she already was that...neither anyone is expecting ehr to turn overnight into jhansi ki rani ...but i stand by what i said earlier...she was one character with no growth ...from episode one to nearly 23...only the last two scenes with zeeshan gave the hope that she has realized her worth finally...

and if zeeshan would not have taken the step to pull her out of that hell..she would have forever lived like a servant and ensured her own daughter turns into one as well...and taken the nonsense from hassan too her entire life so that no one is upset with her

Edited by sun29 - 9 years ago

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904129

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Posted: 9 years ago

#34

+100 on your points @sun29! 👏👏👏

Just because we watch Indian soaps or are Indian just doesn't means you can catagorize us into the group that we are used to the crying, weeping, sacrificing abla naari.

Having said that, I will still say that I felt for Rumaisa just cuz she was a true sufferer of the situations but it just doesn't means that you'll tolerate every damn thing on your self respect and dignity just cuz you're too afraid to protest?! 😕 that's lame.

If not anything, then Rumi should at least take a firm step against all the chichorapann Hassan is doing to her, no woman tolerates this, period.

And nothing justifies the behavior she's putting up with that Innocent Soul Maham who is as other kids her age should be. Locking her up in the room when she is calling you and looking after other kids?!😕

Beating her up for breaking a vase, handling her roughly? What's this? Taking out all your frustrations on her?

I agree Maham is treated as a burden in that house like her mother, but if Rumaisa will treat her like everyone does what's the difference? And the heights would be asking Zeeshan to leave her daughter in an orphanage? That's madness.

I won't say that I haven't seen submissive people, but everything has a limit. I agree she is insecure and has been considered Manhoos by everyone all her life but that doesn't means she'll continue being a doormat.

Sometimes, all you need is to find your inner strength. We aren't asking her to turn into Jhansi Ki Rani overnight, but she should at least make an attempt to fight.

Being tolerable to a limit is okay, but no woman should allow herself to be walked all over by others. It's irony to think that ppl will be happy with you if you bend down to all their wishes and allow yourself to be taken advantage of.

And no one, exactly no one teaches you to raise your voice. That's something that comes from your inner strength.

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sun29

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Posted: 9 years ago

#35

@freelancer...zeeshan and rumi 's journey towards their love story actually started in the last couple of episodes...they did not yet reach there and sadly we did not get to see it but assume given the last scene...

for me zeeshan and rumi had more profound emotions than nabeel and her...nabeel was a wonderful husband ,human but i did not feel the love story there as well..he loved her to the moon and back but rumi wa snot there with him and even he knew that...hence his constant seeking a response from her about him ,asking her to think of him alone ,never leave and go even if he says and then telling her how much he loves her...i am not blaming rumiasa here...the girl never got that chance to even process this whole thing..she was literally swept off her feet by nabeel..married him anxious uncertain and then settled into the good wife role and also the fairytale which he weaved for her...she was like that excited child taken on a trip...and by the time she started realizing and accepting it all,tragedy struck and she resigned to her fate that nothing good can ever happen to her

zeeshan always had a soft corner for rumi,rabia was right...she did intrigue him as to why nabeel was so crazy for her and then his interactions with her ...and then the last few episodes...her relentless care and patience with him ,her kindness and then his guilt of leaving her behind along with maham..it made him rethink...not only the way his expressions would soften looking at her when she is not looking...he was on his way but no yet quite there in love with her...coz he thought loving her would be like how nabeel loved her which he was incapable of not realizing that his care,understanding and compassion as all the other name for love...and as rumi said in the last scene...he will take his own time but will realize one day

the rumi in the last scene was so different from the one in the whole series...she was more confident,mature and at peace...yes she found her subah ka sitara in zeeshan and even her perception of love was so different as per her monologue...she realized that she has found her love in him hence that smile while walking away looking at him ...zeeshan taught her how to live,fight,stand yet he supported her all the way...he was kind ,honest,a perfect father to her kid...it was just matter of time for her to fall in love with him...sadly rabia was too busy pricing him to even notice the gem of a person zeeshan was...

i just wished we had more scenes with rumi zeeshan starting their life together...a couple of more episodes...

nabeel overwhelmed her ,zeeshan brought her back to earth and taught her to walk with him...even then holding her hands ..