Surprised to see everyone being upset with Channi...
See it from her position...She is a small town girl who does not really have some big education or job to fall back on...she has never stepped out of the small city that she lives in...has been brought up by her bro and Bhabhi who was very mean to her...she does not have any emotion support to fall back on ...she tells her brother and Bhabhi she feels like coming bk here and if she does that then wld it b ok ( of course she says it as a joke but we know that it's not a joke and she is trying to read her bro and Bhabhi 's mind ) to which the kind of reply she gets from her brother is enough to tell her that this is not a good idea ( of her coming there permanently )
Imagine ,if she walks out on Viren where will she go ? Will she be welcomed anywhere ? Does she have anyone to fall back on ? It's very easy to say 100 things like WHY has she forgiven Viren , WHY she is not walking out on him etc but it's not as simple as it sounds especially for someone who has no where to go...she is trying to do the best she can under the circumstances ...I give her credit for that. Her Bhabhi was going to get her married to a guy much older than her, do u think now after being divorced from her husband she will get a better match ? It's easy to say that she should stand on her feet and wait for the right man to come but all this sounds good on paper but in practicality it's not easy . ... a girl like her wld feel that if her husband sudhrofies then it's ok, atleast she has a house she can call her own, there is a place called HOME which is hers and she belongs there...there is a sense of belonging here which has not been there for her anywhere else...
Regarding who is to blame, both Jassi and Viren of course are but I wld lay more on Jassi than Viren for the simple fact that it was SHE who made the first move,she initiated it. It was shown very clearly in the first or second week eposode in flashback . Vrinen was very unsure and scared about it but it was JASSI who pushed it. Even after his marrige it was always Jassi giving it a push and then Viren would give in...Jassi is the most disgusting , obnoxious and sexually starved woman . Even beeji's death has not changed her. Atleast Viren does not know the REAL circumstances leading to beeji's death.i am sure had he known he would have been more remorseful than this Jassi.
Poor Channi , she is trying to maintain relationships in the family as best as she can.
Before any comments are passed on her ,just spare a thought to "THE OPTIONS" that she has in dealing with this situation. Walking out on her husband is not as simple as it sounds for a simple small city docile girl like her.
Excuse typo errors coz I don't have time to proof read it