why does zaroon love kashaf?

Originally posted by: bips

I just don't get it. honestly don't .
he says he likes her character. but besides being cautious if boys, and going home early, what exactly does he know of her character ?

she loves her family, struggled against all odds. we as an audience know that. but zaroon doesn't .

in fact given zaroon's desire to have a family where ppl have love and time for each other, things that he missed in his childhood, what does he see in kashaf? bec given his interaction with her, she seems joyless and emotionally sterile.

I am NOT saying that she is but HE does not know that. we know as an audience . but him ???

in fact having watched all the episodes on YouTube, I still can't figure this one out. I get why she falls in love with him but why does he love her? still a puzzle

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

<font color="#0000FF"> I think sometimes opposite attracts . He has seen Kashaf,s loyalty to her family where she has done everything for them . She has strong character . Jaroon was sensitive from the starting as once he told her mother that he misses her presence . His parents relationship s were ,like where father never stopped mother or say never interfered in her life . Jaroon,s convo with her sister always showed his other side . He is not MCP but wants a life partner with same wavelength . Both are intelligent . Kashag always was aware of his presence thats why she used to talk to her sister , only if it was about his rudeness ,his behavior . Sometimes a little gesture touch your heart and same happened with Kashaf . She was Emotional when Professor called her Beta .There are no hard and fast rules of falling in love . Same way Kashaf was always in his subconscious as she challenged his pre conceived thinking about middle class girls at every step . </font>

Originally posted by: bips

but he hasn't seen her loyalty . he has zero knowledge of her past or her family. as for zaroon's middle class notions - honestly from the convo it seemed like he was being an ass. and not that he seriously thought that about middle class girls. he was never class conscious. in fact in one of his diary entries he mentions that it was kashaf who made him class conscious when she attacked him in the class debate. before that such things never mattered to him.

and right now the only wave length they are on is one that doesn't exist :) I get opposite attract but kuch attraction dekhao toh !

Originally posted by: Mahabhootni

I actually don't think he loves her. This proposal is actually closer to an arranged marriage one then a love match.

A couple of my university friends have gotten engaged like this. Since I know them well I know they weren't together before their engagement (like not even flirting or nok jhok) but when parents asked is there anyone particular in mind the boys especially would mention that particular female friend. They were comfortable with each other and well aware of each others good and bad so it worked out for them.

So I think he kind of admires her for her simpleness, straightness and steadfastness. She has none of the issues he has with other girls. Logically she fits. Where his heart comes in that he wants to get to know her better. He's still craving the attention she never gave him.

Originally posted by: RockChicGirl

I couldnt resist and watched a couple of episodes more. What I think Zaroon doesnt really love Kashraf...he thinks she is his ideal woman, respects her and wants to woo her and get to know her better. When he doesn't succeed in wooing her the usual way he would woo any other girl he decides to take the next step ie marriage. But having said that I think he also knows her pretty well from his college days...just like she knows him. Maybe he doesn't know about the incidents of her life but he knows what sort of a person she is, how will she react etc etc. Thats also very important in a relationship. In this respect he probably knows her best after Sidra and Rafia.