ZGH episode 11 - a new chapter of life - Page 2

Originally posted by: virikalove

yes I too am apprehensive but somehow I think it will turn out well ...and I would say I agree with you...it seems it is more or less coz of the lack or absence of his mother in his father's life that he wants a wife who is with him when he needs her. Not necessarily sit at home cooking food for him but just someone who never treats him like a door mat in the name of freedom and liberal.

Originally posted by: Arshics

I agree, zaroons views are moulded by his family, just as Kashaf's are due to her family, having a mother and as sister who carried their independence to another extreme. He doesn't want to be like his father who doesn't dare to protest or like Farhan, who was quiet before marriage, but changed his tune soon after. I guess Zaroon will want Asmara to adapt to his rules from the word go

Originally posted by: virikalove

totally agreed...he takes his brother in law's side coz he actually thinks that he is right...Sara is wrong in thinking that her husband and marriage life can be taken this casually...not that Farhan doesn't have to compromise or adjust and only Zaroon's sister should do that but what hewants Sara to understand is that she ALSO needs to compromise and give something to the relation instead of expecting Farhan to do it all the time

Originally posted by: jodah

awsome post ⭐️ all friends nice discussion

Originally posted by: Arshics

The issue of how much independence is right, and how much is too much is a very subjective one, differs from place to place and time to time.

Looking at this from asmaras view, staying out at night in a mixed group is acceptable in the society in which she moves, where as returning home late night with a man is unacceptable in Kashaf's social context.

The real point is that both husband and wife must be in agreement and have a common understanding of what's the right amount of freedom. On one extreme there is a man like Murtaza, who wants his wife to always be his jooti, to the other extreme of zaroons dad, who never says anything to his wife, there is a whole range of people and views and opinions about this issue. And Zaroon and asmaras views on this just do not match