Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 16 Sep 2020 - Page 34

Originally posted by: angelfire78

I agree that Kuhu is confused, but I hate that she took it upon herself to cancel MishBir's adoption. She would never have accepted this level of interference in her life by MishBir, and Mishti was right to ask her who she was to cancel their adoption. (The adoption agency that took a phone cancellation from anyone who calls themselves Mrs. Rajvansh is another problem altogether!)

She raised some valid points, and she could have still tried convincing them without canceling the adoption. It isn't as if they were bringing the baby home that day! There are other very valid issues here - this is her first child, what if there are complications and she is unable to have any more children? what if inspite of everything MishBir decide to leave RJV and the baby goes with them? There are no guarantees in life. Anything can happen in the future. A child cannot and should not be used to mend or keep a family together.

Being selfless is not needed to be a surrogate, but she is also being stupid by not getting what she wants first. If people don't understand what she means when she says she is thinking of Kunal and herself, that she knows duniyadaari, and that MishBir will be thanking her everyday for the rest of their lives then that would be on them. I won't blame her if she gets attached to the child also. It happens.

Kunal ka kya kahein? I can only say I always thought he was smarter than this.

She is being fool and making everyone suffer!

I don't understand why people trust her as they know about her nature as well as constant changing behavior.

I thought Kunal will guide in her life but I was wrong. He himself doesn't understand much about his mom intention and severity of this situation.

Originally posted by: SheThought

Kitno ka yahi haal hai.

Dil ke haatho majboor 🤔

We should all tweet SS and be like "mainu ishq tera le dooba SS"❤️😆

Coz this show CLEARLY ain't aimed at me.

Imagine so many well educated, well read, well travelled young women wasting their time watching senseless stuff just for one man; coz lets be real had anyone else been Abir I would not have waited it out regardless of how nice the character was or the jodi was. The character has the pull because of the person who plays Abir. For me at least.

Replaying S1 in my head -- YUP, Abir is Abir because SS is Abir. BAS!

Originally posted by: SheThought

I definitely feel the 4 of them are going to fall apart!

They have mentioned this several times in this track and will mention it again in today's upcoming episode - that whatever happens, the 4 of them will be together and a team.

That is the very thing that is going to break as a result of this track.

Chances of brothers separating is higher in my opinion because I think there is hardly anything else that can separate them and baccha is a HUGE deal.

But it could also go MishBir or/and KuKu separating.

MishBir are stronger than that tho. If my MishBir separate and Abir goes through hell a 2nd time because of KuKu, imma be soo mad. Abir can live without Kunal BUT can he live without Mishti

Originally posted by: manny136

Look kuhu can be as forceful as she wants about being ready to be a surrogate but in the end its all on mishbir to actually go through with it coz you cant retrieve eggs or sperm without the consent of the parents and then make an embryo lol

If mishbir said lets not talk about a baby/kid for now maybe the urgency to counter their adoption idea would die down coz they aint gonna leave each other and some hypothetical kid isnt gonna cause so much drama lol

Im seeing a lot of hate and anger at kuhu for all kinds of reasons but reality is if a guy had done these things he wouldnt be as bashed as kuhu is just because she is a woman and unfortunately viewers especially other women tend to bash their own sex worse then they would do if a guy had done the exact same thing. Lets try to keep things in perspective here its a fictional show and keep double standards and hypocrisy away. Its just a show lets look at it as some little form of entertainment kay.

Kuhu is d one who is going n messing d life of mishbir. Anyway dis forum has bashed mishti when she was stupid, abir when he was wrong n even kunal. Meenu ka toh roz chalu hain. Tomorrow I know when mishbir will agree dey will be bashed.

Y should be kuhu be any exceptional??

Originally posted by: manny136

Look kuhu can be as forceful as she wants about being ready to be a surrogate but in the end its all on mishbir to actually go through with it coz you cant retrieve eggs or sperm without the consent of the parents and then make an embryo lol

If mishbir said lets not talk about a baby/kid for now maybe the urgency to counter their adoption idea would die down coz they aint gonna leave each other and some hypothetical kid isnt gonna cause so much drama lol

Im seeing a lot of hate and anger at kuhu for all kinds of reasons but reality is if a guy had done these things he wouldnt be as bashed as kuhu is just because she is a woman and unfortunately viewers especially other women tend to bash their own sex worse then they would do if a guy had done the exact same thing. Lets try to keep things in perspective here its a fictional show and keep double standards and hypocrisy away. Its just a show lets look at it as some little form of entertainment kay.

Regardless of what Mishti and Abir do/decide/get-duped-by-Kuhu the fact is Kuhu canceled their adoption and is forcing surrogacy on them for her own selfish motives.

In short, Kuhu is being selfish and is wrong in this matter.

If you don't want to accept that it's fine, but if all arguments fail against it then please don't bring the woman card.

Characters are fictional, but people here are real.

Originally posted by: manny136

Look kuhu can be as forceful as she wants about being ready to be a surrogate but in the end its all on mishbir to actually go through with it coz you cant retrieve eggs or sperm without the consent of the parents and then make an embryo lol

If mishbir said lets not talk about a baby/kid for now maybe the urgency to counter their adoption idea would die down coz they aint gonna leave each other and some hypothetical kid isnt gonna cause so much drama lol

Im seeing a lot of hate and anger at kuhu for all kinds of reasons but reality is if a guy had done these things he wouldnt be as bashed as kuhu is just because she is a woman and unfortunately viewers especially other women tend to bash their own sex worse then they would do if a guy had done the exact same thing. Lets try to keep things in perspective here its a fictional show and keep double standards and hypocrisy away. Its just a show lets look at it as some little form of entertainment kay.

Manny,

People are saying Kuhu's reasons are WRONG.

When she said a vehement NO; everyone praised her reasoning and supported her even people who were not her fans. People are not happy with her reasoning and the selfish reasons she is doing it for. Had Kunal donated his sperm for selfish reasons then it would have been an even more disgusting track and people would have challenged his thinking also. They challenged his viewpoint and his thinking when he was brainwashed by BB.

Therefore it is not fair to tell anyone they would not challenge a man.

Abir is LOVEDDD in this forum and he has been challenged too.

Also, people were disgusted by the precap and MishBir agreeing.

As for this being a fictional show, yes, we are aware; and this is a discussion forum where we all come and discuss the story. We are not happy with the current story so we came to episode discussion thread and are even questioning our intelligence. So relax, we know it is a show. We are aware it is fiction. Thanks for the reminder though.

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

Kuhu is d one who is going n messing d life of mishbir. Anyway dis forum has bashed mishti when she was stupid, abir when he was wrong n even kunal. Meenu ka toh roz chalu hain. Tomorrow when mishbir will agree dey will be bashed.Y should be kuhu be any exceptional??

Blaming kuhu for all the issues isnt right either and bringing up things that happened in the past just to justify the antagonism one feels towards a character is also clouding the issue. Its just like the other day varsha was bashed for being stern with abir but the reason for the anger was the general varsha hate lol

Originally posted by: angelfire78

@bold - Kuhu's animosity towards Mishti is easily triggered. If anyone (including Abir) pays the slightest attention to Mishti in a good way, then gayi bais pani me! Curse will come true if everyone is hovering around Kuhu during her pregnancy right?

@italics - agreed, but it is still very stupid of her to trust BB.

PS - we'll find out more today.

bold - But, But, Abir is Mishti's HUSBAND. He will OBVIOUSLY pay more attention to her. They are MARRIED. She is his SOULMATE.

Is this an alternative universe because If Kuhu thinks that Abir needs to pay more attention to her over the love of his life then I have no words left.

Originally posted by: riya27

Arrey no no... Am not gonna believe her... You should not believe what isshown to you😆

You can be prepared to catch me this time too then Riya 😆

Originally posted by: Stardust91

bold - But, But, Abir is Mishti's HUSBAND. He will OBVIOUSLY pay more attention to her. They are MARRIED. She is his SOULMATE.

Is this an alternative universe because If Kuhu thinks that Abir needs to pay more attention to her over the love of his life then I have no words left.

If ? If? What "If"? 😆 She has clearly accused Mishti saying "tumne mujhse mera bro cheen liya"