Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 07 Sep 2020. - Page 32

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Arey sach mein he is not going to have a cricket team re , he was overwhelmed and he said the dailogue 😆 don't take it seriously

When we are overwhelmed we also say many things out of emotions which we don't really mean but say it out of effect

Hmm I understand but personally I'm not able to understand why is he getting so desperate. Maybe because that's what the track is all about. Bachha chahiye.

Anyways star plus is airing that abir meenu promo and they are saying that this confrontation will happen on 10th September so let's see, what they are gonna show. Surrogacy? Adoption? Or whether they take a second opinion?

Originally posted by: Rashi23

Hmm I understand but personally I'm not able to understand why is he getting so desperate. Maybe because that's what the track is all about. Bachha chahiye.

Anyways star plus is airing that abir meenu promo and they are saying that this confrontation will happen on 10th September so let's see, what they are gonna show. Surrogacy? Adoption? Or whether they take a second opinion?

Originally posted by: Su94

It's just a hyperbole: figure of speech often used to overstate a point to convey its significance or impact. In this case, i think it only means that Abir is truly and wholeheartedly happy at this turn of events. Because if you remember, till yesterday he wasn't! And a lot of us, like Kunal, were commiserating with his plight, debating about whether he needs to compromise, whether adoption is the way to go and other moral conflicts. Now the air is clear. Atleast to me.

italics:I don't know about desperation but umm..when is the right time exactly? So many couples have their first kid soon after marriage. Some wait voluntarily for various reasons. Abir had his reasons for planning a family as he conveyed to Mishti- Mishti was hesitant for personal reasons(thinking she can't be a good mother)-Mish's doubt was cleared by Badi Maa and she was finally ready and excited too. That's what I saw happening onscreen. One of Abir's immediate reactions to Mish's medical condition was also repenting starting the whole baby talk (because he was also worried about Mishti's reaction)-this was lost amidst his other sorrows. This rules out desperation, in my opinion.

He just wanted to be a father. Just because.

But there are rules for adoption.. You can't go on adopting to make a cricket team. Also they have just been married, they both first have to face their own problems and challenges and then think about adoption. Like yesterday many were discussing whether the adopted child would be safe in rjv house and whether they'll get acceptance and love from the family members. They first have to think about all these scenarios and then plan for adoption

Dont know about other couples but I personally feel that people should first give time to themselves and then plan kids. And that's the reason why kuku don't want to become parents right now in spite of being pressurised because they first want to understand each other n enjoy their marital life and then plan kids. That's how normal couples would think but mishbir are unique right so obviously they don't mind becoming parents even before the rjv family and meenu fully accepts mishti.

Originally posted by: Rashi23

Hmm I understand but personally I'm not able to understand why is he getting so desperate. Maybe because that's what the track is all about. Bachha chahiye.

Anyways star plus is airing that abir meenu promo and they are saying that this confrontation will happen on 10th September so let's see, what they are gonna show. Surrogacy? Adoption? Or whether they take a second opinion?

The track is about bachcha so everyone is in a hurry to have one for their own reasons, don't try to find deep logic because its just not there 😆 it's like the world will end if they don't get a baccha in life...

I want this track to end with everyone realising that they need time for themselves, a baby can't be a beginning or the end of the world ...bring a new life on the planet only when you are ready to nurture it and not when you want to get nurtured by it

Even adoption is not easy , a couple has to go for years of procedure before they get a baby

In the end mishbir should drop the baby idea and give some years to themselves, side by side start the treatment and wait for the right , ideally I want the track to go this way but mujhe kuch khaas expectations nahi hai so I am just taking it easily 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

The track is about bachcha so everyone is in a hurry to have one for their own reasons, don't try to find deep logic because its just not there 😆 it's like the world will end if they don't get a baccha in life...

I want this track to end with everyone realising that they need time for themselves, a baby can't be a beginning or the end of the world ...bring a new life on the planet only when you are ready to nurture it and not when you want to get nurtured by it

Even adoption is not easy , a couple has to go for years of procedure before they get a baby

In the end mishbir should drop the baby idea and give some years to themselves, side by side start the treatment and wait for the right , ideally I want the track to go this way but mujhe kuch khaas expectations nahi hai so I am just taking it easily 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

The track is about bachcha so everyone is in a hurry to have one for their own reasons, don't try to find deep logic because its just not there 😆 it's like the world will end if they don't get a baccha in life...

I want this track to end with everyone realising that they need time for themselves, a baby can't be a beginning or the end of the world ...bring a new life on the planet only when you are ready to nurture it and not when you want to get nurtured by it

Even adoption is not easy , a couple has to go for years of procedure before they get a baby

In the end mishbir should drop the baby idea and give some years to themselves, side by side start the treatment and wait for the right , ideally I want the track to go this way but mujhe kuch khaas expectations nahi hai so I am just taking it easily 😆

Absolutely. Hope they get the trps for which they bought this senseless track and then they can carry on by bringing up some other track. But writing needs to improve, God knows why RS is not throwing nikita out 😡

Even if the track is regressive at least a better screenplay would help but the screenplay is even worse than the track 👎🏼

Yeah, I'm not even watching the episodes, I just read the written update that's it. Just want this track to end ASAP. I'm not even able to watch it for shah n mishbir.

Originally posted by: Rashi23

But there are rules for adoption.. You can't go on adopting to make a cricket team. Also they have just been married, they both first have to face their own problems and challenges and then think about adoption. Like yesterday many were discussing whether the adopted child would be safe in rjv house and whether they'll get acceptance and love from the family members. They first have to think about all these scenarios and then plan for adoption

Dont know about other couples but I personally feel that people should first give time to themselves and then plan kids. And that's the reason why kuku don't want to become parents right now in spite of being pressurised because they first want to understand each other n enjoy their marital life and then plan kids. That's how normal couples would think but mishbir are unique right so obviously they don't mind becoming parents even before the rjv family and meenu fully accepts mishti.

He didn't literally mean to adopt 11 kids. Don't worry. Like I said, it's an overstatement. A figure of speech used in rhetoric. For his own benefit and ours, as viewers. It just means he's totally fine with the situation.

We can't categorise couples as normal or not based on when they plan for children. These guys made their own decision. Nobody forced them. KuKu made their own decision to wait inspite of external pressure. Doesn't make MishBir abnormal and KuKu normal.

My parents had my brother very soon after marriage. Nobody forced them. They weren't ready to have a second kid (I.e. me) for 5 years after. They weren't under any external pressure then either.

Now about the child being accepted by the extended family is a whole other issue which Abir hasn't considered. He is yet to figure out the dynamics with Mishti. He has only found a solution to their problem as a couple. Which is a logical, first part of a step by step approach. I mean, do you want the characters and their writers to cover all the points, justify everything and reach a final decision in one take like it were a board meeting or a political debate?

Originally posted by: Su94

He didn't literally mean to adopt 11 kids. Don't worry. Like I said, it's an overstatement. A figure of speech used in rhetoric. For his own benefit and ours, as viewers. It just means he's totally fine with the situation.

We can't categorise couples as normal or not based on when they plan for children. These guys made their own decision. Nobody forced them. KuKu made their own decision to wait inspite of external pressure. Doesn't make MishBir abnormal and KuKu normal.

My parents had my brother very soon after marriage. Nobody forced them. They weren't ready to have a second kid (I.e. me) for 5 years after. They weren't under any external pressure then either.

Now about the child being accepted by the extended family is a whole other issue which Abir hasn't considered. He is yet to figure out the dynamics with Mishti. He has only found a solution to their problem as a couple. Which is a logical, first part of a step by step approach. I mean, do you want the characters and their writers to cover all the points, justify everything and reach a final decision in one take like it were a board meeting or a political debate?

My parents had their first child after 3 years and there's a 3 and half years gap between me and my sister. On the hand my maasi and badi maa had children within one year of their marriage. Even now many of my relatives are having kids early and they all are happy but I personally feel that people should take some time. Also mishti wasn't even thinking about a kid it was abir who wanted a kid asap and he pressurised mishti and then she had to agree. Anyways let mishbir do whatever they want to do, I'm not able to connect with them, this track has ruined mishbir for me.

Akshara naitik and kaira were scared and skeptical when they got to know that they were about to become parents and Akshara naitik used to take suggestions from varsha shaurya, and were worried whether they'd be able to become good parents and would be able to take care of their child and whether after the kid their relationship will get affected there was a proper progression in their story but here mishbir all of sudden want a baby and don't even have that kind of a feeling because abir is a pro at taking care of children.

Originally posted by: Rashi23

My parents had their first child after 3 years and there's a 3 and half years gap between me and my sister. On the hand my maasi and badi maa had children within one year of their marriage. Even now many of my relatives are having kids early and they all are happy but I personally feel that people should take some time. Also mishti wasn't even thinking about a kid it was abir who wanted a kid asap and he pressurised mishti and then she had to agree. Anyways let mishbir do whatever they want to do, I'm not able to connect with them, this track has ruined mishbir for me.

Akshara naitik and kaira were scared and skeptical when they got to know that they were about to become parents and Akshara naitik used to take suggestions from varsha shaurya, and were worried whether they'd be able to become good parents and would be able to take care of their child and whether after the kid their relationship will get affected there was a proper progression in their story but here mishbir all of sudden want a baby and don't even have that kind of a feeling because abir is a pro at taking care of children.

bold:Oh, if we're talking about personal opinions, then I would like to opine something completely different from you and MishBir. I (personally) don't want biological children. I want to adopt first one, then two(if I can afford to). Too many abandoned children in the world and it's my biggest wish to make a home with atleast a couple of them. I've had this opinion for the longest time ever since I used to volunteer at an orphanage from school(part of S.U.P.W). Have you watched the movie "LION?" Stars Dev Patel. One of my favourite, favourite films. The FL was of the same opinion.

So, to each his own right? 😃😃

Coming to MishBir, since it is their story, it is upto them how do they want to have kids and when. I also got the feeling that Mishti was feeling pressurised but I felt that she did get genuinely excited about the prospect later. Her misgivings stemmed from insecurities on making a good mother. When BM spoke to her about the difference between pregnancy and motherhood, she was very relieved. She took the reins to pressurise/seduce Abir after that.

I think if Meenu lets them, all round discussions on adoption will be their next step too. But Meenu won't, so adoption is out of the picture. The whole bachha drama is out of MishBir's hands now. It has become Meenu's pet project and obsession. Otherwise, Abir would have stopped it by now and fulfilled your wish.

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

Bold-Abir ka sangat toh Meenu(Controlling Mom),Nidhi(Naam ki adult) aur Nanu(forever teenager) they. Yeh itna mature kaise ho gaya?

He had to be extra mature to compensate for them. Kunal is also mature or as abir calls him "maturity ke kaka" 😆

They also had Parul