Why abir why ?
Why do you think it's okay to put out your wishes and desires and share them with anyone be it your mother or wife?How dare you think about finding your lost baba , getting answers to your questions , and wishing to be a parent is all okay ? Don't you know its inhuman to make a wish for yourself share your wishes, it means you are putting pressure on your wife even when you specifically say that you are ready to wait, you want to know what's going on in her mind and give her an assurance that last decision will be hers ...no no no I can't still see it in your eyes with my own binocular eagle eyes , you are putting pressure on her 🤔 so please abir, hold on your wishes , write then in your tiny diary and keep it to yourself only okay tomorrow because of you only mishti will go out of the way and even without informing you , I will blame you only for forcing her to do so...A relationship doesn't revolve around sharing deep batein , khushi , dukh , sukh , wishes , fantasies, fears ..basically vo sab kuchh jo hum kisi se share nahi kar sakte ...tumhe kisne yeh relationship ki definition sikha di ? Kaunse gole se aaye ho tum ? Relationship ka matlab hai romance your lwfe 24 × 7 and not argue with her because oh well , kahan na wish karna mana hai , aur wish kisi se share karna toh ghor paap hai re 😡
Why abir why ?
Why you still don't blast at kuhu....why don't you stoop to her level and start cursing her, arey slap her, bad mouth about her, bitch about her, name call her why do you choose to remain calm ? Why don't you understand that its absolutely okay to shoot at a person and udao her dhajiyaa even when she herself is not in her senses 😡 so what if her husband was enough to handle her , so what if meenu was enough to handle her , so what if they were dealing with her and taking mishti's side , so what if you already suggested a correct way that is asking the publishing house for a written apology ... tumhe bhi bolna chahie tha , tumble bhi chillam chilli karni chahie thi na dude 😆 So what if meenu asked you and kunal to control your respective wives , why did you respect your mom and her words , why did you decide to be mature and control your words....you should have gone against your mon , fight with her , fight with kuhu , bash her left right centre, add more tadka to the already amazing fish market 😃😃 Kya re superhero banne ka mauka miss kaise kar diya ? 🤔
Why abir why ?
Why do you throw bitter shots at kuhu and later try to understand her pov too 🤔 Its a paap to try to understand her pov, stop being so over empathetic, empathy is reserved for mishti and no one else ...why don't you understand that only mishti can blast at kuhu and later on become besties with her, hug her , do all the lovey dovey talks , basically forget and forgive her and move on 😃 That is writers ki wajah se 😆 However if you try to be softer towards kuhu....well tumhe pata hona chahie it is abir ki wajah se 😎 even though mishti has been with kuhu since childhood and you have only known her for a year and are just starting to see her other side , still you are expected to understand kuhu more than mishti does and then blast at kuhu too and who asked you to be in this sisters jhamela haan ...why have you taken this additional responsibility? Why don't you give this responsibility to meenu who leaves no chance to create fights between sisters or to kunal who is so much aware about the sisters fight before you did abir, infect kunal is the one who has added much fuel in the fire and is all acting now as as if he dosent know...🤣 forget it , let kuhu disturb your wife and have issues with her for life , why do you want to solve the issues and make it easy for everyone haan ...drama mein maza aata hai logo ko ! Tum kyun rang mein bhang daal ne aa jaate ho 😆 Also why do hide things from mishti and take accuses from her and not say anything in your defense 😒 But understand her when she prefers to hide things from you and even defend her in front of your mother 🤔
Why abir why ?
Why do you ask mishti to remain calm...don't you know its unnatural to ask a person in anger and remain calm? 🤔 it's okay its very okay for mishti to ask you to remain calm when you are angry and mad at meenu but you can't give the same advice to mishti okay Basically you can't have a difference of opinion or point of view different from mishti ...if you do so you are a pathetic husband ...you need to be divorced ... Don't you know asking someone to remain calm is as good asking her to compromise 🤔 why did you stop mishti, why don't you let her stoop to kuhu's level in chillam chilli and let both the family members get convinced that both the girls are equally immature and are at fault ...why do have the urge to protect mishti from your mom's "ghar todne vali " tag haan , why do think mishti will is afraid and feels broken because of the tag ?...why oh why ...oh you said she was right but you indirectly ask her to apologise no ...yes yes you didn't say directly to apologise but you meant it , I can see it in your eyes with my special binoculars dude 😎 all your efforts to be a perfect husband and single handedly and magically healing mishti's PTSD without any kind of concrete medical or legal help will go in waste if you share your pov with mishti and ask her to remain calm 🤔
Why abir why ?
Why did you suggest mishti from the very beginning to live separately...not once but at least a zillion times 🤔 Why were you so for sighted to judge that the family and mishti will not go along with each other so better to have separate ways and be happy , why is it that when mishti says I I will not leave the house because family is as important to me as abir and that makes her a genuine human but when abir says that mishti and family are important to him , he becomes a vile demon... ? Where are there separate rules for judging same statements said in the same context ?
Why abir why ?
Don't you know its absolutely foolish to support your own brother who can give up on his life for you ? Why do you love your brother so much haan ? Why were you ready to sacrifice your love for him even in a life threatening situation? Don't you know it's a big "dhoka" and a "daag" on your character, cuz you are just supposed to think as a lover and not as a human or a brother...Learn something from mishti ..she even gets ready to make big big sacrifices for her bitter sweet sister and tries to cross oceans for her when kuhu has shown no signs of even crossing puddles for mishti.... you stop loving your brother abir !! You have no rights to form any other bond in your life, I don't appreciate it at all !
Why abir why ?
Why do you try to make things light hearted and have fun around and make things easier for others It's not good to make people smile and laugh when they are in stress ...tumhe kisi ne bataya nahi kya 24 × 7 serious raho ...beard badhao, chasma pehno ,hall mein sofa par baith ke newspaper padho pura din aur har 2 ghante mishti se chai maango Jo bhi mishti ko kuch bole usko 2 thappad lagao aur ghar se nikal do ...us insaan se rishtaaaa hi todddddd do abir basically muh bandh kar ke ek jagah baith jao , vaise bhi log sirf tumse pyaar karte hai Iska yeh matlab nahi tumhara pov bhi samjhenge Pyaar and understanding don't go hand in hand abira
Why abir why ?
Why do you get so senti and emotional haan 🤔 Baat baat pe ro padhte ho ...mard ko dard nahi hota and crying is just a woman right not a human right... and you have no right to express your own emotions, you are meant to only understand others emotions , samjhi gayo?
Why abir why ?
Even after going through all the trauma and bad times, when you still try to remain calm and prefer to walk out of an arguement so that you can give time to yourself and others and as a human you also deserve sanity and peace of mind, that gesture is considered as rude , why no one understands that this boy feels alone , dejected , helpless , misunderstood and goes into the shell again, the shell where he can live with himself and his thoughts expressed in shayairs...no wonder he prefers to reach out to badima and bade papa, when no one understands him in his own family, he expects his "dil se" parents will show him the right path and get him over the troubles ....I am glad this abir is firm enough to solve the issues from the root itself !
Abir you don't deserve to be mishti's husband , meenu's son , kunal and kuhu's bro or badi maa's heera, pack your bags and udd chala dude....they all are perfect without you, tum jab se unki life mein aaye, barbaad kar diya sab tumne , tumhare wishes ,tumhare shayaris aur tumhare point of views ne Jaate jaate apni band aids bhi lete jaao !! You aren't a perfectionist yaar , I am so disappointed...you are just a human with different views and emotions, why abir why ?
And lastly why abir why , even after getting bashed you are still the man , most of the women desire to have a man like you in their lives , may be because they also know it's easy to live with a man who has "no complaints and no demands " but only wishes that you can be in a diary and forgotten for life
I am glad you have an equally kind hearted and understanding partner mishti with you, who would argue with you, fight with you but at the end of the day will understand you , trust you support you and would never judge you like the zamana does ❤️❤️❤️ that's why you guys are perfect for each other
Udne Ki Aasha
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
