Originally posted by: Onyourface
I know where you are coming from rashi, bm has guided mishti to be a " achi gudiya rani" and at times mishti does take a step back , thinking badi maa kya sochegi, she didn't reveal how sour her relation is with kuhu and preferred to act like good sisters and that was because she thought she didn't want to hurt BM or rather what would BM think about her , and sometimes bm does try to kind a force ( m not getting a better word ) to follow her decision, like she wanted mishti to go for kunal's rishta ...
But the thing is , BM and mishti's relationship is extremely deep , I have seen that BM lover her unconditionally, can also go against BP for mishti...
more than abir and BP also I believe, mishti also feels less pressured to share all her emotions with her ( except for the kuhu angle and who knows If she had shared certain things of that area , aaj situation better hoti ) , if there is anyone in the show who I have seen mishti sharing her real feelings with , than that's BM .
BM does accept and understand mishti's feelings and her decisions and honestly I kind a like the advises she gives to her on her relationship with abir ...
Clearly, my views on BM are not as harsh as yours, sorry
I haven't followed much of kaira journey so I have no idea what role BM played there
Ik that uru.. After Akshara n Naira If nani has loved anyone more than herself then it's mishti... Ik she loves her a lot n cares for her but she also holds the power of turning her into a doormat. See, post marriage mishbir had two major fights n mishti actions were indirectly the reason of their fight but abir with his harsh words n impulsive actions took the fight to a next level n by doing so he did hurt mishti's feelings.. Also after their fights it was mishti was easily forgave abir only bcoz she got that seekh from bm on both the occasions, Abir ko zyaada kuch karna bhi nhi pada tha mishti ko manane ke liye... The same thing happened with kaira as well, kartik has time n again treated Naira like a trash but she forgives him even before he gets guilty or even before he accepts that he was at fault.. Same thing is happening with mishbir as well, Ik in future yehi silsila chalega, Abir will keep fighting, accusing mishti for all the problems in his family n she'll keep solving his family issues n will keep forgiving him
Ps:Ik im comparing kaira n mishbir but seriously for those ppl who have watched both the couples journey will tend to draw a similarity n parallel kind of a thing
Ik your views about nani r different n I also somewhere agree with it but I also feel that mishti shud stay away from her. Anyways let's see aage jaake kya hoga..
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