Rhea-Shaheer|MishBir|AT: 81| - Page 25

Originally posted by: SheThought

Ruhi, most times i ignore things yaar. but at times, it gets unbearable then i jump in.

Anyways, let's not discuss about anyone here. Don't want to get AT in trouble. Edit if you can dear...

Hi Ikr.. I'll edit it but I just wanted y'll to ignore them that's it.. And of course our focus should be on mishbir ❤️

Originally posted by: SheThought

No, I am talking about scenarios with respect to Abir yaar!

He is being silly right now, ignoring Mishti and not ready to listen to her 😲

i really want mishbir to fight but not like this...

but this happens in real life but i want abir to make efforts towards mishti that she is important to him...

sometimes i feel he has half knowledge and doing this and sometimes i feel why cant u listen to ur wife when u accept she can never be wrong...

getting irritated with him now a days...but men are men...😲

Originally posted by: ruhi19

abir ke baare kya baat karu.. muje tho 50-50 chances...

i really want mishbir to fight but not like this...

but this happens in real life but i want abir to make efforts towards mishti that she is important to him...

sometimes i feel he has half knowledge and doing this and sometimes i feel why cant u listen to ur wife when u accept she can never be wrong...

getting irritated with him now a days...but men are men...😲

Yeah, I am losing my patience with Abir. More than patience, i am afraid of losing the connect with him. Hope he turns around before it's too late

Originally posted by: SheThought

Yeah, I am losing my patience with Abir. More than patience, i am afraid of losing the connect with him. Hope he turns around before it's too late

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

Howdy peeps!! 🤗
How is everyone doing? hope you all are taking protective measures against COVID-19.

Stay home and stay safe!!

Hi Shruti 🤗🤗

Long time no see yaar! Tum toh gayab hi ho gaya ho 😭😭

You too stay safe dear! God knows when things will get back to normal

Originally posted by: ruhi19

abir use to have so much to say for mishti for now he is not listening and he is not saying what he feels... why they are not talking yar... 2 months of break up and then shaadi pe shaadi... baat tho karo yar... aapne baare mein... apr nahi except about them they are talking all shit...

Yeah, that's the biggest problem with the current track. They are not letting them have any meaningful talks at all... This MishBir feel superficial compared to our soulful MishBir!

Really thought MishBir will go on bicycle rides and go stargazing by the lake after marriage... aur yahan toh kucch aur hi haal hai 🤢

Anyways, chalo good night Ruhi. It's quite late here. I will talk to you tomorrow.

Btw, your business is cool! All the best dear 🤗

Originally posted by: SheThought

Yeah, that's the biggest problem with the current track. They are not letting them have any meaningful talks at all... This MishBir feel superficial compared to our soulful MishBir!

Really thought MishBir will go on bicycle rides and go stargazing by the lake after marriage... aur yahan toh kucch aur hi haal hai 🤢

Anyways, chalo good night Ruhi. It's quite late here. I will talk to you tomorrow.

Btw, your business is cool! All the best dear 🤗

good night dear... catch u later...

thanks dear...🤗

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

Hey Mini🤗

I’m doing alright bud..other than being with hubby and kids at home😛 how have you been?

bold - haan ji I think nishmish mehndi was my last episode.

I am good. But missing ur caps....😆

What made u drop the shw after mehendi.....??It was way worse before that......😆

Welcome to AT eighty one

I am missing the old mishbir fun

Kuchh bolne ka nahi karta mann

This is absolutely not done

Ab toh rhyme bhi ho raha mujhse

I am actually watching the old episodes...makes me realise what a master piece it was , I mean it still is on many levels when there were no unnecessary justifications for what they do , the story was so straight crisp and clean ...and so were the characters.... and the pace was so dheere dheere , like viewers ko time milta tha , to digest everything...

So even after courtship they don't know how to work as a team then what's the use of courtship Its like extra classes lene ke baad bhi exam mein toh mediocre performance hi di sorry for the lame comparison but still

So much to delay abir not listening to mishti .. . Kuchh bhi ...abir was always shown to be a good listener... especially when it comes to mishti .. this is for abir then

Sun abir sun

Mishti ki baat ki dhun

Usne tera perspective chunna

Tu bhi uska Chun Chun Chun Chun

Cool wrote one bhramastra line - they need to work as a team ...

that's the thing , they have to learn to work as a team ... fighting your own battles and thinking that other one has to understand my thoughts will not solve the purpose now

Now I actually doubt the whole idea of courtship actually If they didn't learn how to work as a team, then what is the whole point of knowing each other before marriage , sirf ek dusre ko jaan liya , sikha kuchh nahi It's more like choti choti test se kuchh nahi hota , real exam aaye toh pata chalta hai kaun kitne paani mein hai ... but they have developed a strong bond, thanks to the bitter past experiences...they very well know how life is without each other and that's why the over layer of protectin comes for each other

If you notice , after kuku shaadi track, these two have stopped working as a team, they take decisions on their own even when the decision is about "them" .... we can give justifications that achha yeh reason tha isiliye nahi bataya n blah blah blah lol but the reality is that the team factor was always missing , it was more like one does something and the other fixes it up without the first one having no idea what the other one is fighting for and the other one having no idea what the first one is fixing up They were trying to solve out things with their own perspectives being a priority thereby inviting a lack of communication ...creating collateral damages on both the sides for each other Then again the process of fighting and fixing starts

Now with marriage, this dynamics is changing, now lack of communication and only thinking from individual perspective will not lead then anywhere....they both want to solve their respective puzzles ( meenu and kuhu ) but they aren't aware that their own individual puzzles will get solved only when they will find the missing pieces and that missing pieces are there with each other ... so a flawless communication without arguments will only solve the purpose ... this kind of communication is a new thing for both of them actually And whenever we come across a new thing in life , it takes time to adjust to the changes... as I said , it will take then trial and errors to come on the same page. Aisa lagta nahi tha AM ke saath aisa hoga lekin ho raha hai

Their fights seems very natural to me actually , abir has this character trait where after a certain point he can't take arguments, and he walks out , next day he starts a fresh after having a break ...its not like he dosent listen, he does but for him the tone matters ( we have seen this with meenu ) ... and mishti who is actually confrontational and she dosent shy away from putting across her thoughts , its like now or never for her when she decides that bas ab bohot ho gaya ( we have seen it with kunal ) ....so a kind of their core traits are coming across each other in such a way where they are actually working for the betterment for each other but it seems that they aren't concentrating on each other , but in reality they are concentrating on each other only, abir's puzzle ends with saving mishti from meenu's big plan , he has seen the extent of hate meenu has for mishti that she blames mishti for even bringing baba back ( that time mishti ko idea tha ki baba aise niklenge ) and mishti's puzzle ends when she puts forth the real intentions of kuhu behind the coffee thing and photo frame thing in front of abir so that abir can get a clear picture about kuhu...he hasn't seen the side mishti has seen ... for the first time their core traits are against each other it's an internal battle that they are fighting and I don't know for wired reasons I am enjoying it *dont kill me for this * the story still intrigues me to see how they will reach on the same page , as usual after every track abir will join his hands and say I am sorry

I have seen couples fighting and wife saying mein ghar nahi jaungi and husband be like theek hai mat aana I am going but then they realise arey re baba blunder ho gaya mishti should actually say " jaa abir jaa jee le apni zindagi" 🤣🤣

aisa hota hai , when we are at our emotional peak we do tend to say things that we dont mean , anger hoti hi aisi chez hai ... this reminds me of one more incident in AM's life, if you all remember that eye surgery thing ...mishti was so tensed and hurt too , she wanted to straight away say no to kunal but was struggling with her words , at that time abir actually stood up for her but she was all stressed and said " ankhein meri , surgery meri , tumhara kya hai " .. actually she liked what he said but she was at her emotional peak ... I know that time they were Just friends and now they are husband and wife so can't compare the incidents , also I am not saying ke mishti is also like this, I am just saying we sometimes become mean and we always don't mean what we say ...in the end she did follow abir's advice and didn't change her mind on surgery thing , m sure abir too will follow her advice soon

I was actually finding it so relatable and funny on their characters yesterday but then yahan sab serious chal raha tha toh main kuch boli nahi

Vaise I really feel vo mishbir 1.0 koi aur hi the , mera farewell post banane ke baad chale Gaye sach mein n lambe baal n chasma

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