17 Feb - Episode Highlights - Meri Jaan Pareshan Kyun Hai ?

Zindagi ke saare jawab hamari aankhon mein likhe hote hain , hume ek dusre ki ankhon mein padhna padega,

Har kisi ki zindagi mein , uski apni ek Jang hai , har kisi ko khud hi ladna padega,

Agar lamha mile tujhe koi thehra hua, toh jee le usse, taaki phir keh sake ki rang khushiyon ka aur gehra hua,

Falsafa yeh sunke hairan kyun hai , has de zara, meri jaan pareshan kyun hai ??

There is something magical about the lines here , may he the way they were written , the way they were spoken, the situation in which they were spoken, the needed assurance that it gave to mishti , the answers to her questions , the much needed peace to her helpless heart given by a man she who understands her like none

It's all in our eyes, we can lie with our words , but the eyes speak the truth , we can lie with the smile but eyes shows the pain , don't focus on my words , see my eyes to see what am I trying to convey, he tells her and she focuses to find her answers ...

Everyone has a fight to handle , they are all dealing with their own bitter sweet problems, the fights that they themselves create, their mind creates , their thoughts create , their own actions create , these fights are supposed to be fought by oneself, because only they know what actually they are fighting for , these words gave a sense of relief for mishti who just a few seconds ago was on the verge of blaming herself again for the miseries in others life , well can't really blame her , when a lie is told thousand times , people tend to believe it , it always zeroes down to her own existence , his words gave her a relief that everyone is fighting a battle on their own , a battle they created by themselves , for themselves with themselves and at the end of the day they have to deal it on their own only...

Even when the universe is full of darkness and coldness , there are days when the sun shines light and bright, however dark the night is , only sun rays have the power to create life for nature , in the same ways how much ever negativity exists around , a few moments of positivity and happiness are enough to bring joy in our lives, to give the much needed required strength , to bounce to life all over again , now its upto you , do you want to sulk into 99% negativity or you want to look out 1% positivity....yeah only that much is enough, if you really wish to live....in just a few seconds, me manages to get a glint of happiness in her eyes, her cheerful smile and a happy mood back again...she is surprised and shocked at the same time that how easy being happy actually is when he is around...

And he sums it up beautifully asking her why is she so shocked to hear these words from her , let go off your worries and smile because life is as simple and complicated as we make

"Simple words with deep meanings " are the flavour of abir's shayaris and the way he uses them to make her feel better makes it special, the way she understands his deep words and tries to go with the flow is even more special He surely knows how to give answers to her deep complicated questions without actually addressing them at all ......and she gets all her answers without actually asking any questions at all

That's mishbir's understanding in a nutshell, no wonder they felt so helpless without each other when they weren't together ....

Back to mishbir things, who plans a date on the wedding date , a date to set up the mandap totally totally mishbirish it is , just like the tastiest food in the whole world is ghar khaana no matter what , the most beautiful decoration is the one you do by yourself ( that's a different thing that they might not get a chance to marry here But still the idea is so mesmerising)

I personally love these kind of scenes between mishbir, the simple old charm and the feels they bring is just so amazing

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1. Toh jas ne finally cracker phod hi diya and others are worried about the air pollution created Kuhu is her own adventure to give selfless credits to mishti didn't even realise that it was jas who revealed it all not mishti Pata nahi why it happens that when it's actually time for kuhu to take the limelight, she always wants to pass it on to mishti....awwww how thoughtful Like you can give some credits to your husband also, after all divorce toh husband se ho raha hai na , mishti se thodi Lekin nahi....itna bhi credit dusra kyun le ....#EkBhramMubarakHoBehen 🙏...... jealous and insecure hone ka credit bhi mishti ko hi de diya ..... itna selfless insaan Maine aajtak nahi dekha abinal were patiently waiting for their chance to speak They both were shocked arey yeh toh sab bigaad rahi hai , total damage control karna padega

2. Mahs reaction was just amazing

Kunal: these are prenup papers for mishti

Mahs:😐

Abir and mishti broke up

Mahs: 😐

Nannu admits that marrying mishti was his addiction

Mahs: 😐

Abir had a accident and nannu is involved

Mahs: 😑

Kuku getting divorced

Mahs: kya kya kya , humse chupaya kyun , hunse chupaya kyun , humse chupaya kyun ......so many reactions

Kunal: I was forced by my mom and bhai but now I accept my mistake

Mahs: 😑

Kunal: I want to marry kuhu...again

Mahs: yeahhhhhhhhh, shaadi ki preparation shuru karo , haan thoda dukh hoga is baar , Bach baliye skip kar ke shaadi karenge siddha...par theek hai

3. Finally shaurya gets to speak something sensible actually...nice he noticed that kuhu se puchne ne ka matlab nahi hai , uska tape recorder atak gaya hai , Kunal se hi puchte hain .....must say satellite ne aaj kamaal kar daala .... For the first time , kunal accepts it all ...he was forced, meenu was involved, but now he regrets , his face shows it😳 ...he didn't divulge the details It was more like koi puchh nahi raha to main bhi kyun bataun , itne se hi kaam chala rahe hai toh theek hai .....abir and parul super impressed ...abir was like one super proud brother He was like chalo thodi help main bhi kar dun , he exactly knew what mahs like to listen about their daughter Amul butter application shuru ..... abir knew it's a do or die situation isiliye jitni achi presentation karoge utna jaldi proposal accept hoga you if want to get yourself advertised, please contact abir rajvansh, he will say such good things about you that you will fall in love with yourself only 😆😆 Even the family was like wowwwww Hume toh koi idea hi nahi tha ki kuhu itni achi hai 😆....abir thodi advertisement apni mummy ki bhi kar do ...wo bhi khush ho jayegi ...not fair yaar ... benba ke baare mein koi acha nahi bolta 😒😆

Though most of what he said , he actually believed it but yeah it was more out of his love for nanko and also because he knew getting second chances is not an easy thing He has suffered it all ...though I would have appreciated more if those words were spoken by nanko himself , but satellite ne itna bola that was also huge Good job RV Bros ! ❤️❤️

4. Satellite then got busy seeing planet K and Planet M ka Moon M chugli milan.... Planet K says I dont want to leave satellite K but can't handle Moon M , meenu is like behen dil ki baat bol di ...."meri pyaari bahu..welcome to the club " Satellite does yet another perfect analysis, matlab pyaar toh hai, problem mishti hai , main nahi , he also saw his mother calling kuhu pyaari bahu, which he took ias an acceptance from his family. Alright toh ....kunal behaved like we sometimes behave while playing video games When we know that our player is just going to die , just before he dies ...play the restart button And of course mahs ko impress karna hai toh shaadi propose kar do ...they will be all yours

5. Abir's words for kuhu actually somewhere created or should I say recreated a bridge for bade papa and him today ... bade papa asking abir to look after mishti was Ah , the best thing BP has done after so many days actually

6. Cracker wanted to try her trick but BM stopped Cracker ho gayi phus , phatne se pehle hi phus good job BM

The family drama was smooth than expected and the credit goes to abir and mishti for showing extreme levels of patience today , sometimes in family arguments, the situation goes from bad to worse but if someone tries to remain calm and composed , things can be handled , abir was shocked with kuhu's reactions, his expressions gave away , but I guess he chose to remain calm today because his one extreme reaction could have made things worse, more than anyone , things would have taken a sour turn for mishbir , I know it looks impossible that how can people be so compassionate, but its definitely not unreal. It takes only one match stick to let the fire burn but many drops of water to control the same.

I love the way they handled the drama ....very crisp and clear ....the episode turned out to be a good surprise for me , a lot of credit goes to the treatment they gave to mishbir scenes today Just added a whole new level to the otherwise plain dramatic episode Definitely a good attempt

So now not one , we might have two shaadi happening Well what can I say, double the fun

Just thought to share something, when it comes to a shaadi , it should happen in a way that gives idea about the couple , somewhere the union should define the couple , I don't know if that's the intention or not , but mishbir's shaadi defines how mishbir are , two individuals who define love, understanding , trust , have immense love for their families, extra supportive to their siblings( I know it becomes too much 😆 ) , looking out for simplicity as a way for happiness rather than materialistic things, all this with a touch of adventure 😉😉 these two souls have decided to seal their relationship forever into a beautiful bond of love trust and understanding called marriage....this way or that way , I am just happy that finally mishti's journey to find a perfect dulha for herself will see a destination . .... yeah my moon M and planet A are finally going to be in the same orbit 🥳🥳🥳

The #EkBhram and uske blame games 😷

The satellite ke coding decoding systems 🙏

The sambhalna uska kaam hai always 😎

The girl finally ready to see her beautiful dream turn into reality 💃

The chuppi chaal by benba 🙃

very well writen... i had a laughet riot when u said about shourya dialouges and didnt watch the epi but i love to see after your analysis... its very rushed but who are intretsed in drama... we want only mishbir shaadi..

rofl the way u expalined mah to everything..

hashtag ki bachi par taras kavo ya gussa dikav samajme nahi aaya...

im happy that mishbir will get married either hook or by crok

Lol the Maheshwaris reactions are the best 🤣🤣

First off all

Amazing, fantastic, fantabulous👏👏🤗🤗

You've explained the love, trust n the way about handles the situation is so so so beautiful😳

Like I said this fandom in itself is so amazing😳 we take a simple scene to a different hight👏😳 which even makers may not think of😆

The best part Of today's episode was the was Abhir calmly, n with some serve tried to handle the situation....

Meenu's manipulation n kunals dumness lead to everyone that went wing in Mishti Abhir n kuhus Life....Yes though kuhu acted like love Sick puppy😆..n Mishti tried to warn her

Here Abhir is just trying to mend things not just for Kunal Abhir also trying to make his n Mishtis life n relationship with Maheshwaris better😆.. Like you said extra Amul butter ke saath

MishBir scene was dam cute for me😳... The way Mishti asked him to be with his family.....n Abhirs focus was just Mishti at that moment😳...... He just casually got Mishti out of her * IM Responsible* Though😆

Over all this drama is more acceptable than any other dum drama😆

As long as MishBir are together.... As long as MishBir handle the situation together I am ok with this mini drama....... And let's face it TV drama hai.. Masala tho hona chahiye naaa😆

Agree with all the points you mentioned guruji🤗🤗

Btw jas Naam ka phuss bomb is getting irritating yaar

Ohhh Guruji totally enjoyed highlight yaar... firstly lot of jhaapis to you 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🥳🥳

the way you explains abirs shayari yaar i fell in love with it even more.... i somewhat understood how endearing the shayari is n important in the situation but you explained it so beautifully.... i felt bad n hurt the sec mish blamed herself poor girl this happens yaar like you said when one thing is repeated again n again we ourself tend to think if its actually true... the shayari is mishbir way of communication, makes them special... and like you said their simplicity from handling their own relationship to situation everything is beautiful... ❤️ the date idea was sudden but they are like that find something simple to make eo happy... ❤️

the reaction of mah family yaar you nailed it 🤣🤣🤣🤣 omg this is hella hilarious yaar but a true fact... i was actually stunned by their reaction when kunal said about meenu forcing him n abir making him sit on mandap... such a pheeka reaction... cha 🤣🤣🤣

shaurya was at his best today special applaud to him both varsha n him were behaving like parents they questioned kuhu n kunal n were not ready to hear kuhu blame game or any one else words something new n progressive... even though abir words n kunal gave assurance, still they were at their best... and also i liked how bp let them take decision for kuhu being her parents... also bm taking stand for mish... both of them have learnt from what happened during nish mish.... i like this progression in every character.. 👍🏼

Yaar our meenu ben saasuma is ten steps ahead of everyone 🤣 see how she uses situation in her favor like always n the property papers are gonna create more problem n she has already planned that too.. 🤣🥳 i'm thinking of joining meenu fan club she is the one consistent character 😆🥳

kunal listening to meenu kuhu i dont know i feel there is more to it yaar,,, dont know just a gut feeling... he will be the first one to understand benba's game maybe...

and the marriage description i dont know if makers think this but i love your thought on this yaar.. this is so so beautiful n endearing ❤️ #Ajeebcouple #simpleCouple #Uniqueshaadi 😆

ok coming to kuhu... actually more than shaadi even though thats one of the reason they would've gone for bhaag ki shaadi before itself but making kuku get married again n all this is for a reason... i wanted to make a post of this separately but sharing with you first...

from start every track has been about either complication a relationship for future track n giving a closure to relationship.. there is reason for everything even with high trp they take up some concept for a reason n the main get away is the change in relationship dynamics any one rishta gets solved n become simple from the complicity... mish getting closure rom naman, mishkun difference, then mishbir development, kuku difference, then abir baba closure, AbiNal difference n slow development which was main reason for break up i feel else kunal wouldnt be at this stage now his relationship with everyone has grown rapidly since end of baba track to now mishkun growing, AbiNal understanding, kunal parul starting, kuku starting, now its time for kuhu even kunals started like this naa the hatred on mish... so here kuhu's issues are taken in hand... like we discussed before sister relationship has been an explored now its time for that... in one interview ritvik said kunals love can be the chaging factor for kuhu to make her a better person... so its gonna be about these two relationship mish kuhu n kuku.. many more relationship are to be explored yet mainly meenu abir kunal, then meenu mish, evne other relationship can be done lets see... its a fact that for this they bring a dramatic complex start but i think thats they way of writing n executing.. 😆 i hope i made some sense... 😆

First to jhappi for that abir advertising idea.🤣

Definitely need him to feel better about myself!

Mahs & their reaction is a myth..they only love nacha gaanaa on functions.so kunal tried the easy way out & gave them more functions!🤪

Let's nacho!!!!

Okay,on a serious note,what u told about mish is already true. When someone keeps hearing same thing, they end up believing it.yeah Mishti gives back to kuhu a lot,sometimes in a mean way which i seriously love, still waiting for that savage mish to come back in coming episodes but the damage is already done.

The day Mish called herself boring, i felt like a punch in my guts. Here & there, u can feel glimpses of mish who is believing kuhu's bakwas.

That's what kuhu did.Typical abuser Treatment. Making the victim feeling they are wrong not the abusers.💔

As usual hilarious post Uru.

Enjoyed reading it. Mahs family reaction part was too good. 👍🏼😆 Shaurya asked some really sensible questions. Even Kunal got shocked for a sec.😆

In this entire mess BB is the happiest one. She must be thanking Ambe Maa for sending Kuhu in her life.Now she will play her games from backfoot and all the blunders will be done by Kuhu.😎

The lines were beautiful 👏 So is ur post

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Zindagi ke saare jawab hamari aankhon mein likhe hote hain , hume ek dusre ki ankhon mein padhna padega,

Har kisi ki zindagi mein , uski apni ek Jang hai , har kisi ko khud hi ladna padega,

Agar lamha mile tujhe koi thehra hua, toh jee le usse, taaki phir keh sake ki rang khushiyon ka aur gehra hua,

Falsafa yeh sunke hairan kyun hai , has de zara, meri jaan pareshan kyun hai ??

There is something magical about the lines here , may he the way they were written , the way they were spoken, the situation in which they were spoken, the needed assurance that it gave to mishti , the answers to her questions , the much needed peace to her helpless heart given by a man she who understands her like none

It's all in our eyes, we can lie with our words , but the eyes speak the truth , we can lie with the smile but eyes shows the pain , don't focus on my words , see my eyes to see what am I trying to convey, he tells her and she focuses to find her answers ...

Everyone has a fight to handle , they are all dealing with their own bitter sweet problems, the fights that they themselves create, their mind creates , their thoughts create , their own actions create , these fights are supposed to be fought by oneself, because only they know what actually they are fighting for , these words gave a sense of relief for mishti who just a few seconds ago was on the verge of blaming herself again for the miseries in others life , well can't really blame her , when a lie is told thousand times , people tend to believe it , it always zeroes down to her own existence , his words gave her a relief that everyone is fighting a battle on their own , a battle they created by themselves , for themselves with themselves and at the end of the day they have to deal it on their own only...

Even when the universe is full of darkness and coldness , there are days when the sun shines light and bright, however dark the night is , only sun rays have the power to create life for nature , in the same ways how much ever negativity exists around , a few moments of positivity and happiness are enough to bring joy in our lives, to give the much needed required strength , to bounce to life all over again , now its upto you , do you want to sulk into 99% negativity or you want to look out 1% positivity....yeah only that much is enough, if you really wish to live....in just a few seconds, me manages to get a glint of happiness in her eyes, her cheerful smile and a happy mood back again...she is surprised and shocked at the same time that how easy being happy actually is when he is around...

And he sums it up beautifully asking her why is she so shocked to hear these words from her , let go off your worries and smile because life is as simple and complicated as we make

"Simple words with deep meanings " are the flavour of abir's shayaris and the way he uses them to make her feel better makes it special, the way she understands his deep words and tries to go with the flow is even more special He surely knows how to give answers to her deep complicated questions without actually addressing them at all ......and she gets all her answers without actually asking any questions at all

That's mishbir's understanding in a nutshell, no wonder they felt so helpless without each other when they weren't together ....

Back to mishbir things, who plans a date on the wedding date , a date to set up the mandap totally totally mishbirish it is , just like the tastiest food in the whole world is ghar khaana no matter what , the most beautiful decoration is the one you do by yourself ( that's a different thing that they might not get a chance to marry here But still the idea is so mesmerising)

I personally love these kind of scenes between mishbir, the simple old charm and the feels they bring is just so amazing

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1. Toh jas ne finally cracker phod hi diya and others are worried about the air pollution created Kuhu is her own adventure to give selfless credits to mishti didn't even realise that it was jas who revealed it all not mishti Pata nahi why it happens that when it's actually time for kuhu to take the limelight, she always wants to pass it on to mishti....awwww how thoughtful Like you can give some credits to your husband also, after all divorce toh husband se ho raha hai na , mishti se thodi Lekin nahi....itna bhi credit dusra kyun le ....#EkBhramMubarakHoBehen 🙏...... jealous and insecure hone ka credit bhi mishti ko hi de diya ..... itna selfless insaan Maine aajtak nahi dekha abinal were patiently waiting for their chance to speak They both were shocked arey yeh toh sab bigaad rahi hai , total damage control karna padega

2. Mahs reaction was just amazing

Kunal: these are prenup papers for mishti

Mahs:😐

Abir and mishti broke up

Mahs: 😐

Nannu admits that marrying mishti was his addiction

Mahs: 😐

Abir had a accident and nannu is involved

Mahs: 😑

Kuku getting divorced

Mahs: kya kya kya , humse chupaya kyun , hunse chupaya kyun , humse chupaya kyun ......so many reactions

Kunal: I was forced by my mom and bhai but now I accept my mistake

Mahs: 😑

Kunal: I want to marry kuhu...again

Mahs: yeahhhhhhhhh, shaadi ki preparation shuru karo , haan thoda dukh hoga is baar , Bach baliye skip kar ke shaadi karenge siddha...par theek hai

3. Finally shaurya gets to speak something sensible actually...nice he noticed that kuhu se puchne ne ka matlab nahi hai , uska tape recorder atak gaya hai , Kunal se hi puchte hain .....must say satellite ne aaj kamaal kar daala .... For the first time , kunal accepts it all ...he was forced, meenu was involved, but now he regrets , his face shows it😳 ...he didn't divulge the details It was more like koi puchh nahi raha to main bhi kyun bataun , itne se hi kaam chala rahe hai toh theek hai .....abir and parul super impressed ...abir was like one super proud brother He was like chalo thodi help main bhi kar dun , he exactly knew what mahs like to listen about their daughter Amul butter application shuru ..... abir knew it's a do or die situation isiliye jitni achi presentation karoge utna jaldi proposal accept hoga you if want to get yourself advertised, please contact abir rajvansh, he will say such good things about you that you will fall in love with yourself only 😆😆 Even the family was like wowwwww Hume toh koi idea hi nahi tha ki kuhu itni achi hai 😆....abir thodi advertisement apni mummy ki bhi kar do ...wo bhi khush ho jayegi ...not fair yaar ... benba ke baare mein koi acha nahi bolta 😒😆

Though most of what he said , he actually believed it but yeah it was more out of his love for nanko and also because he knew getting second chances is not an easy thing He has suffered it all ...though I would have appreciated more if those words were spoken by nanko himself , but satellite ne itna bola that was also huge Good job RV Bros ! ❤️❤️

4. Satellite then got busy seeing planet K and Planet M ka Moon M chugli milan.... Planet K says I dont want to leave satellite K but can't handle Moon M , meenu is like behen dil ki baat bol di ...."meri pyaari bahu..welcome to the club " Satellite does yet another perfect analysis, matlab pyaar toh hai, problem mishti hai , main nahi , he also saw his mother calling kuhu pyaari bahu, which he took ias an acceptance from his family. Alright toh ....kunal behaved like we sometimes behave while playing video games When we know that our player is just going to die , just before he dies ...play the restart button And of course mahs ko impress karna hai toh shaadi propose kar do ...they will be all yours

5. Abir's words for kuhu actually somewhere created or should I say recreated a bridge for bade papa and him today ... bade papa asking abir to look after mishti was Ah , the best thing BP has done after so many days actually

6. Cracker wanted to try her trick but BM stopped Cracker ho gayi phus , phatne se pehle hi phus good job BM

The family drama was smooth than expected and the credit goes to abir and mishti for showing extreme levels of patience today , sometimes in family arguments, the situation goes from bad to worse but if someone tries to remain calm and composed , things can be handled , abir was shocked with kuhu's reactions, his expressions gave away , but I guess he chose to remain calm today because his one extreme reaction could have made things worse, more than anyone , things would have taken a sour turn for mishbir , I know it looks impossible that how can people be so compassionate, but its definitely not unreal. It takes only one match stick to let the fire burn but many drops of water to control the same.

I love the way they handled the drama ....very crisp and clear ....the episode turned out to be a good surprise for me , a lot of credit goes to the treatment they gave to mishbir scenes today Just added a whole new level to the otherwise plain dramatic episode Definitely a good attempt

So now not one , we might have two shaadi happening Well what can I say, double the fun

Just thought to share something, when it comes to a shaadi , it should happen in a way that gives idea about the couple , somewhere the union should define the couple , I don't know if that's the intention or not , but mishbir's shaadi defines how mishbir are , two individuals who define love, understanding , trust , have immense love for their families, extra supportive to their siblings( I know it becomes too much 😆 ) , looking out for simplicity as a way for happiness rather than materialistic things, all this with a touch of adventure 😉😉 these two souls have decided to seal their relationship forever into a beautiful bond of love trust and understanding called marriage....this way or that way , I am just happy that finally mishti's journey to find a perfect dulha for herself will see a destination . .... yeah my moon M and planet A are finally going to be in the same orbit 🥳🥳🥳

The #EkBhram and uske blame games 😷

The satellite ke coding decoding systems 🙏

The sambhalna uska kaam hai always 😎

The girl finally ready to see her beautiful dream turn into reality 💃

The chuppi chaal by benba 🙃

@ blue: Satellite ne itna analysis karna kab seekha re 🤔

The post is great