Yeh waqt galat hai

This was quite a "back and forth" epi, I must say😆

One minute Abir responds to Nishant's challenge that he will come for the mehendi and prove that Mishti still loves him.....the next moment he is hesitating to enter the mehendi venue😕😆

One minute Abir seems to be backing off a bit, the next minute he goes racing into the house to save Mishti from a fire. One minute he turns and starts to walk out.....then suddenly decides that THIS is the right time to try to apologize to Mishti😆. Bhai pehle toh tu andar bhi nahin aana chahta tha, and then suddenly you're like, "Might as well kill two birds with one stone now that I'm here"? 😆

Abir really didn't help his own reputation by already having disrupted two ceremonies....lol so he was bound to be misunderstood by the Maheshwaris again.....giving Nishant the perfect opening to create a bigger ruckus.

Meanwhile Mishti on the other end is fighting a losing battle.....despite everything, she still dreams of Abir showing up like a hero to rescue her from this miserable mehendi😆. I was also wondering how Abir suddenly got THIS happy....lol Mishti ki imagination mein hi.

BM summed it up aptly.....yeh waqt hi galat hai....the timing is bad now for so many things. The timing is bad for Abir to be trying to stop the wedding when things have reached this stage....the timing is bad for trying to apologize to Mishti in the middle of her mehendi ceremony while her family is glaring daggers at them....lol but nevertheless, Abir persists😆.

Ab waqt galat ho ya sahi.....1% bhi chance ho toh Abir try karega.

But he really did set himself up for a fall by accepting this challenge to make Mishti choose.....First of all it's ridiculous that the men are forcing Mishti to choose like it's some kind of multiple choice answer. The way they've all staked their egos on it now....everyone from Abir to Nishant to BP thinking that Mishti will choose him🤔. Abir has indeed fallen into the trap....goaded by Nishant.

Perhaps it was needed though....perhaps he needed to experience the level of heartbreak that comes with shattered hope.....the same way Mishti hoped and hoped so many times only to have her hope brutally shattered every single time. This time Abir will get to experience some of that.

Shouldn't have staked everything on a binary choice, man😛

But koi baat nahin.....Mishti ke haath pe "A" toh likh diya....take the small victories where you can👍🏼😆

It's a feeble attempt but the show again seems to be trying to loop back to the point of rushed shaadis.....Mishti bechaari has been crucified three times in this attempt...to the point where it's so easy for society to point fingers at her as a woman who is now on her third engagement. Let's see if they can eventually make a point about how rushing is not the solution to anything....the mindset that "locking Mishti down" will help erase the Abir "problem" from her life is again the wrong way to go about things.

I keep having the feeling that Nannu is provoking both AM to the breaking point. Him pushing Abeer felt out of character, maybe he thought Mishti would react.

At the start of this track I had thought that BP was also in this plan, but can't trust writers.

Mishti can atleast keep looking at 'A' and cry some more

Res

Will be back with my thoughts...

ohh yaar perfect title and totally enjoyed your analysis seriously it was so entertaining 👏😆😆

like you said abir was going back and forth but there is a cycle you see

BB instigated Nishant to rush shaadi - nishant instigated abir to come to mehndi to make him loose - fire instigated abir to go inside - Abir instigated bp/nannu n they lashed - Bp/Nannu instigated abir and he wanted to prove himself.... 😆

so its all a cycle... one instigated the other and finally its gonna end in slap fest tomorrow😆

but in all this the girl in question was not questioned on what she feels and what she wants.. 💔

Abir trying to claim his love, he says he doesnt wanna hurt mishti more so apologizing and trying to get back to her but failed to see what his acts are actually doing to her... he is still unaware of the family pressure on her and his acts are affecting her and the family shows their whole frustration on that girl... kuhu pointed it today to abir n family maybe thats the reason even though he went there he didnt go in and called bm out and after listening to bm he was ready to go away too but the fire.. 😆

Nannu he sees mishti n this rishta as a competition... he knew mishti loves abir but trying to move on and its difficult for her... but still just to prove he is better than abir and make abir loose he invites devil in his house inturn making it even more difficult for mishti...

but all this is having a good and bad effect on mishti... her heart craving of wanting abir to come is fulfilled but her minds craving on wanting to move on and the battle btw mind and heart is slowly making her loose her sanity n she is becoming a zombie like you said...

actually mishti's dream mishbir convo has a significance a reflection of her inner turmoil.. she wants abir or for a fact anyone to say dont worry i'm there to take care of everything... she is literally yearning for this support and her biggest strength and support is abir she wants him to say this but then she is also conflicted as she is already given her commitment to someone else...

jhatpad shaadi concept is being highlighted first by mish now bm i hope they execute it properly n give a proper end 😆

Originally posted by: napster

I keep having the feeling that Nannu is provoking both AM to the breaking point. Him pushing Abeer felt out of character, maybe he thought Mishti would react.

At the start of this track I had thought that BP was also in this plan, but can't trust writers.

Mishti can atleast keep looking at 'A' and cry some more

Yes, it does feel like Nish is deliberately provoking both A and M. If he wants Mishti to react, then to what end? It still feels more like a competition where he wants to prove that Mishti chose him over Abir.

Maybe they want to set up an easy exit for Nish whenever AM manage to reconcile and elope together 😆

BP is not in on any plan. He is just an angry and protective father right now trying to protect Mishti from Abir.

This reminds me....it looked really funny the way the whole family gasped and ran behind Abir when he turned and walked back to apologize to Mishti. They all looked so terrified of Abir going near Mishti 😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

ohh yaar perfect title and totally enjoyed your analysis seriously it was so entertaining 👏😆😆

like you said abir was going back and forth but there is a cycle you see

BB instigated Nishant to rush shaadi - nishant instigated abir to come to mehndi to make him loose - fire instigated abir to go inside - Abir instigated bp/nannu n they lashed - Bp/Nannu instigated abir and he wanted to prove himself.... 😆

so its all a cycle... one instigated the other and finally its gonna end in slap fest tomorrow😆

but in all this the girl in question was not questioned on what she feels and what she wants.. 💔

Abir trying to claim his love, he says he doesnt wanna hurt mishti more so apologizing and trying to get back to her but failed to see what his acts are actually doing to her... he is still unaware of the family pressure on her and his acts are affecting her and the family shows their whole frustration on that girl... kuhu pointed it today to abir n family maybe thats the reason even though he went there he didnt go in and called bm out and after listening to bm he was ready to go away too but the fire.. 😆

Nannu he sees mishti n this rishta as a competition... he knew mishti loves abir but trying to move on and its difficult for her... but still just to prove he is better than abir and make abir loose he invites devil in his house inturn making it even more difficult for mishti...

but all this is having a good and bad effect on mishti... her heart craving of wanting abir to come is fulfilled but her minds craving on wanting to move on and the battle btw mind and heart is slowly making her loose her sanity n she is becoming a zombie like you said...

actually mishti's dream mishbir convo has a significance a reflection of her inner turmoil.. she wants abir or for a fact anyone to say dont worry i'm there to take care of everything... she is literally yearning for this support and her biggest strength and support is abir she wants him to say this but then she is also conflicted as she is already given her commitment to someone else...

jhatpad shaadi concept is being highlighted first by mish now bm i hope they execute it properly n give a proper end 😆

Yes, that dream totally reflected Mishti’s inner state of mind. She yearns for Abir to come back and take care of everything. She is drifting right now in a haze....it’s so obvious in her strained smiles and almost dead eyes as she gazes into space in an empty manner. Rhea is doing a great job of enacting Mishti’s current state of mind. You can’t help but feel for Mishti here. She’s trying to be strong after being let down so badly by Abir....but she still loves him with all her heart because he’s been her strength in so many ways many times in ways even her family couldn’t be. So it’s no wonder that she still yearns for that Abir who was a hero to her.


Despite all the drama yesterday, I liked the subtlety of the way AM’s emotions were depicted. Mishti was silent for the most part but the awareness between her and Abir was so obvious. The way he would become still the moment she said his name in that quiet but strained tone, “Abir, jaao yahaan se”....it’s like they were having their own convo despite others being present around them. It’s like he could tell that she was trying to protect him from the wrath of her family in her own way. But the guilt was still tearing him apart so he couldn’t help but turn back to try and apologize even if the timing was off. Mishti couldn’t look at him because it took all her remaining strength to harden her heart and not give in to him even if she yearned for him.

Despite all her hurt, Mishti’s love for him is still so palpable.

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

ohh yaar perfect title and totally enjoyed your analysis seriously it was so entertaining 👏😆😆

like you said abir was going back and forth but there is a cycle you see

BB instigated Nishant to rush shaadi - nishant instigated abir to come to mehndi to make him loose - fire instigated abir to go inside - Abir instigated bp/nannu n they lashed - Bp/Nannu instigated abir and he wanted to prove himself.... 😆

so its all a cycle... one instigated the other and finally its gonna end in slap fest tomorrow😆

but in all this the girl in question was not questioned on what she feels and what she wants.. 💔

Abir trying to claim his love, he says he doesnt wanna hurt mishti more so apologizing and trying to get back to her but failed to see what his acts are actually doing to her... he is still unaware of the family pressure on her and his acts are affecting her and the family shows their whole frustration on that girl... kuhu pointed it today to abir n family maybe thats the reason even though he went there he didnt go in and called bm out and after listening to bm he was ready to go away too but the fire.. 😆

Nannu he sees mishti n this rishta as a competition... he knew mishti loves abir but trying to move on and its difficult for her... but still just to prove he is better than abir and make abir loose he invites devil in his house inturn making it even more difficult for mishti...

but all this is having a good and bad effect on mishti... her heart craving of wanting abir to come is fulfilled but her minds craving on wanting to move on and the battle btw mind and heart is slowly making her loose her sanity n she is becoming a zombie like you said...

actually mishti's dream mishbir convo has a significance a reflection of her inner turmoil.. she wants abir or for a fact anyone to say dont worry i'm there to take care of everything... she is literally yearning for this support and her biggest strength and support is abir she wants him to say this but then she is also conflicted as she is already given her commitment to someone else...

jhatpad shaadi concept is being highlighted first by mish now bm i hope they execute it properly n give a proper end 😆

great post yaar🤗👍🏼

It truly is a cycle of instigation...started with nishmish attack instigating Abir's jealousy😆😛

Oh dear I feel awful for Mishtu...she truly does feel all alone despite having a home and family. She really is so lifeless with Abir, without any hope and confidence in life anymore😭 I really wonder how she hasn't gotten to depression

In fact, even with Abir..he's faced soo much stress, dhamki and heartbreak. Yet he still believes in 1% chances Turly life lesson goals👏 I admire both these characters for not becoming so depressed to take drastic life or death decision☢️

I guess there power is the power of true genuine, pure LOVE❤️ Their love is just so deep and pure, somewhere in their hearts they know they will unite together🤗

@bold: somehwere I feel the makers/writers still want to address this original concept of the show. I really feel they will put a proper ending to this track, to convey the strong message that jhat pat shaadi under whatever situation is ALWAYS WRONG.

Right know, my bets are likely on Abir or Kuhu (maybe BM will support too) to speak up about the basic issue with nishmish rishta is the 'one-sided love' and jhatpat shaadi will be ruining 3 lives altogether🤔

Please let this idea be true🤗 Really hope the writers/makers drive home this message properly, by having Abir/Kuhu break the rishta, by explaining why forced and rushed marriages is not right

xx

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, that dream totally reflected Mishti’s inner state of mind. She yearns for Abir to come back and take care of everything. She is drifting right now in a haze....it’s so obvious in her strained smiles and almost dead eyes as she gazes into space in an empty manner. Rhea is doing a great job of enacting Mishti’s current state of mind. You can’t help but feel for Mishti here. She’s trying to be strong after being let down so badly by Abir....but she still loves him with all her heart because he’s been her strength in so many ways many times in ways even her family couldn’t be. So it’s no wonder that she still yearns for that Abir who was a hero to her.


Despite all the drama yesterday, I liked the subtlety of the way AM’s emotions were depicted. Mishti was silent for the most part but the awareness between her and Abir was so obvious. The way he would become still the moment she said his name in that quiet but strained tone, “Abir, jaao yahaan se”....it’s like they were having their own convo despite others being present around them. It’s like he could tell that she was trying to protect him from the wrath of her family in her own way. But the guilt was still tearing him apart so he couldn’t help but turn back to try and apologize even if the timing was off. Mishti couldn’t look at him because it took all her remaining strength to harden her heart and not give in to him even if she yearned for him.

Despite all her hurt, Mishti’s love for him is still so palpable.

beautifully explained dear 👍🏼👏

totally agreed Rhea is making us go through all kind of emotions along with mishti... 👍🏼

@bold - well said... the softness and subtle convo was so good..👍🏼 you explained it well dear

Mishti's love for abir is unconditional and cant even be questioned... even if she is trying to move on for her family sake deep down she knows she can only love abir and along with moving forward in this rishta the feeling that the chance of getting back her love is diminishing is killing her... but then abir came and gave her the hope its not the end that made her yearn for him but she cant go back now even if she wants to... but its better late than never naa so she is again building up that abir will make everything alright and she even dreamed about it almost it came true...

did you see the change of her expression and face color,... in her dream and when abir actually came there was a little life in her face, her facade fell and also her dream come true the moment she noticed the A in her mehndi the slight happiness in her face... and when there is no abir that is reality her face looked so pale, she was not even able to show any emotion,... the difference was so visible..

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

great post yaar🤗👍🏼

It truly is a cycle of instigation...started with nishmish attack instigating Abir's jealousy😆😛

Oh dear I feel awful for Mishtu...she truly does feel all alone despite having a home and family. She really is so lifeless with Abir, without any hope and confidence in life anymore😭 I really wonder how she hasn't gotten to depression

In fact, even with Abir..he's faced soo much stress, dhamki and heartbreak. Yet he still believes in 1% chances Turly life lesson goals👏 I admire both these characters for not becoming so depressed to take drastic life or death decision☢️

I guess there power is the power of true genuine, pure LOVE❤️ Their love is just so deep and pure, somewhere in their hearts they know they will unite together🤗

@bold: somehwere I feel the makers/writers still want to address this original concept of the show. I really feel they will put a proper ending to this track, to convey the strong message that jhat pat shaadi under whatever situation is ALWAYS WRONG.

Right know, my bets are likely on Abir or Kuhu (maybe BM will support too) to speak up about the basic issue with nishmish rishta is the 'one-sided love' and jhatpat shaadi will be ruining 3 lives altogether🤔

Please let this idea be true🤗 Really hope the writers/makers drive home this message properly, by having Abir/Kuhu break the rishta, by explaining why forced and rushed marriages is not right

xx

Nandu thank you dear 🤗

exactly it started there the instigation game... and isnt it like the parallel to it... there mish didnt realize the extend the jealous game affected/hurt him, she saw it but to make him open up she was not able to do anything atm...

now abir is able to see the extend he hurt her and the things happening is hurting her but atm the main issue is to stop this rishta and make mish to open up and stop this mishap(shaadi)...

she is depressed nandu... if you notice from the time she came back whenever she got a hope from abir she gets life else her face is void... now when she agreed to rishta remember the episode when she went out but returned as she didnt inform anyone n assured bm she wont hurt nannu... there her vulnerability was clear, from there she started deteriorating and reached to an extend that almost she is feeling numb but then as abir again is giving her hope she is starting to dream of him again.. her love for abir is not something which cannot be dumped in heart for long but her family commitment is stopping her and this pressure is making her lose her sanity almost..

Abir is also similar dear remember the break up time to now... he wants mishti but he couldnt do anything when he saw her back he got a hope then nish mish attack affected him and stopped him as according to him she is nish gf but still he was strong but when finally he wanted to correct everything things went in another direction n nish mish shaadi got fixed there he reached his limit, he got lost... his words still echoes in mind yaar "without you i feel lost" he actually is lost without her but holding on to that 1% chance and going without direction to get back mishti...

Its True love nandu like you said and like uru calls Soulmates.. after shaadi people get multiple changes to correct their mistake and get back together, even if you dont want everyone wants you to give it a chance as you are committed... but imo if your love is true married or not giving it a chance is not wrong, when you know this is where your happiness lies correcting your mistake and getting back together even more stronger is not wrong...

@bold - hifi nandu i too have hopes but still cant bet on writers on this... but seeing them giving such dialogues and knowing that in our show no dialogue is written randomly i think they are gonna give a proper closure... 👍🏼

i bet on bm nandu as mish is her daughter n nish is her grandson and she is observing everything closely only so she can reach a limit after seeing mish break down and she will have a confrontation and make everyone understand how wrong all this is.. and kuhu will surely support her, abir i dont know yaar if he will come back uninvited after mehndi drama... but lets see it will be awesome to see abir confrontation.. ohh yes remember the mishkun GD break up confrontation the most impactful dialogue which abir said girls are not scape goats... something like that will be amazing..

PS: sorry nandu post thoda lamba hogaya 😳

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, it does feel like Nish is deliberately provoking both A and M. If he wants Mishti to react, then to what end? It still feels more like a competition where he wants to prove that Mishti chose him over Abir.

Maybe they want to set up an easy exit for Nish whenever AM manage to reconcile and elope together 😆

BP is not in on any plan. He is just an angry and protective father right now trying to protect Mishti from Abir.

This reminds me....it looked really funny the way the whole family gasped and ran behind Abir when he turned and walked back to apologize to Mishti. They all looked so terrified of Abir going near Mishti 😆

If the writers suddenly don't change then today's episode hinted again that Nannu is repeating what Abeer did to make Mishti realize things. And a hint of BP realizing that Mishti is not happy but since there were no inner dialogs so it'll be easy to change it later or drag.

Yes! Abeer scares them bcoz they know he's capable of winning every heart 😃❤️