Hard Hitting truths - Page 2

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

Yaar your replies reminds me of my mummy🤣🤣Ab bhugto types😆

Same is the case with my mom 😆 So that is coming naturally to me 😆

Very well said !! Tired of this drama . I want Abir to ud chala & fall in love with a new girl. Enough of this. Nannu can have anxiety problems & create problems for Mishti. Then everyone will realize what a heera was Abir. Sorry for the rant. I have stopped watching. Just going through the write up & Twitter. Was waiting for MishBir union. But the makers have spoilt that with the third angle.

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Nishant standing up for mishti is natural because he is family and a friend and there is nothing wrong if if he does so , in fact if he didn't stood up toh ajeeb lagta,

But abir , like you pointed out in all the situations haa rightly stood up for her even before he was a Boyfriend or fiance , he also fought with his own family multiple times in order to make them give some respect to the girl but his gadheda family never understood

Nishant standing up for mishti is totally fine with me but ..no where it negates the efforts done by abir and just because of this if ppl believe that nishant is better toh main kya hi bolun

First of all this comparison is blah from the word go !!

I know abir screwed up with the break up thing , and I wanted him to go for mutual break up , atleast a proper closure was required here for mishti's sake ...other than that I have no complaints with abir...he only suffered much thanks to his angelic parents

Ultimately it's mishti's choice...who she wants to be with for the rest of her life.....uski Dil ki pukaar me kya hai

frankly

neither of the boys should be given a chance...Shaadi ki mazaak Bana dia..any normal person wouldn't marry someone else this fast idk just saying... Same was my masla with you wedding

User BHI zyada muje abir Ka attitude abhi roke ke function me digest nai hua.....kya tha vo🤣

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Abir's fate is like karna of mahabharat actually ... bichare ne poori life achi archery ki lekin jab actual mein sahi time aaya uske skills use karne ka toh vo apne skills bhool gaya 😳.... baaki jo reh gaya tha vo MishNish attack aur birth secret ne bigaad diya ache se 🤣

It's like itni saari monthly test mein rank laane ka koi benefit nahi jab final exam mein below average performance de di ho 😆 Lame hai but relatable hai 🤣

And that is not his fault but his fate was such ....ab kya karein bhugto🤣

Voh hi kehta hai na sabko ki sambhalna mera kaam hai toh ab sambhalo😆

Hi meri uru! Loved your @bold points.

Kunal Mahabharata mein kaun sa character hey?

With all due respect to everyone's opinion, tbh I don't understand any comparisons at all.. 😆Nishani vs Abir vs Mishti.. 😈 In our TV shows leads sacrifice for silliest of reasons.. Personally I don't get much affected by them. Undoubtedly, if we see from a rational point of view, be it Mishti not confiding in Abir on various occasions or Abir not confiding in mishti this particular time, is wrong. It shows trust deficit and most importantly inefficiency in managing their important relations. (Though with Meenu around, anyone will go bonkers while trying to get through life without much friction 😆). Nishant is a fine friend too. But the reason why these two should not get married is simple. Because Mishti and Abir's hearts lie with each other. Love is fragile in real life. Who knows had Mishti and Abir might have been real characters, they might have given up on each other. I do see people give up on their relationship because of family and move on. Very few fight. In that case NishMish might have been ok. But so far it's shown that Mishti and Abir have not fallen out of love for each other. Most importantly the hope within them has not ended.

I agree and genuinely wish that ITV characters take decisions that are rational, well thought and communicate, but sadly that does not happen. From the start till date, their have been situations that could have been dealt in a better way, in a more practical manner by both Mishti and Abir. Sometimes, I understood the situations became overwhelming for them and sometimes they just fell pray to the usual melodrama.. I am sure these things will happen again. Infact, after marriage it will happen more.. They will again hide and lie and sacrifice.. So I don't find much of a point in expecting too much.. Jab tak entertainment milta hai dekh le rahi hoon.. 😆

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

Hi meri uru! Loved your @bold points.

Kunal Mahabharata mein kaun sa character hey?

Koi nahi 😆😆

Originally posted by: meen123

exactly.. comparison nai banta

Ultimately it's mishti's choice...who she wants to be with for the rest of her life.....uski Dil ki pukaar me kya hai

frankly

neither of the boys should be given a chance...Shaadi ki mazaak Bana dia..any normal person wouldn't marry someone else this fast idk just saying... Same was my masla with you wedding

User BHI zyada muje abir Ka attitude abhi roke ke function me digest nai hua.....kya tha vo🤣

May be hum abir ko theek se samajh nahi paaya meen , he is not fighting for mishti's entitlement of love but he has sensed that this whole jhat phat shaadi is a mess , unfair to mishti and nishant both , and he also feels that he deserves s second chance to clear the mess ...

I have no complaints now, he is actually behaving like AIBER...the one we love ❤️

Originally posted by: Onyourface

May be hum abir ko theek se samajh nahi paaya meen , he is not fighting for mishti's entitlement of love but he has sensed that this whole jhat phat shaadi is a mess , unfair to mishti and nishant both , and he also feels that he deserves s second chance to clear the mess ...

I have no complaints now, he is actually behaving like AIBER...the one we love ❤️

namesake to Mera naam dubaane me lagi hai

Pta chale muje yaha se boycott Kar dia gaya🤣

Originally posted by: EtTuBrutus

I wont comment on the rest of the points because I honestly don't care for any other character at this point but the one thing I'd never understand is how Nishant is better than Abir or how Abir never really stood up for Mishti unlike Nishant or Abir only gave her love but never protected Mishti.

a. Abir stood up for Mishti and prevented Naman from blurting out the truth in the Holi party when Mishti was a stranger

b. Abir stood up for Kuhu and family when Meenakshi mixed up the rishta

c. Abir stood up to Kunal when he wanted Mishti change herself and fought for her individuality

d. Despite his love for Mishti, he was willing to let go if she truly loved Kunal

e. Though Abir loves Kunal, he defended Mishti's right to reject the rishta and even stood up to his mom

f. Abir did not misunderstand Mishti though he saw her fighting with Kunal/telling him she rejected him and understood she has her reasons

g. Abir defended Mishti in the e-mail fiasco and used up his one question to defend her

h. Abir defended Kuhu multiple times in the past

i. Abir stood by Mishti during the haldi fiasco though her own family din't

j. Abir did not misunderstand Mishti even when she slapped Kunal

k. Abir was willing to live alone away from his family just to protect Mishti

l. Abir did not misunderstand Mishti even when his mom told him that Mishti knew about his baba all along

There is so much more but apparently his jerk behaviour during the break leap and two weeks of contrived MU somehow makes Nishant better within one month. I don't know if the writers intend to show that he is better cuz am not convinced at all 🤪

Fabulous. let me add a few more

1) Abir stood up for Mish when Kunal was forcing her to do the eye surgery

2) Abir stood up for hr AFTER break up too and scolded Kunal for being rude and then apologized on his behalf.

3) Abir begged the Mahs for Kuhu to marry the guy of her choice and promised to support her, which he has done (Kuhu's whole biz is running thx to RV's, mahs have done zilch for her)

4) Well bfr they were even friends, when Meenu brought the police to Ketu's wedding, it was Abir who ensured they had privacy so the Mah family wud not be humiliated and then it was HIM who voiched for both girls so they wudnt be arrested.

5) The IT raid during Champaner? Again Abir.

6) He actually saved Kuhu's life too on top of the hotel terrace bcos it was Abir that Kuhu called.

7) OFC Abir saved Mishti's life in the forest fire, risking his own (for which Nishant has not shown one ounce of regret until now tho he felt bad for risking Mishti's life.)

8) And now too, accdng to segments, Abir goes into the Mah house to save Mishti from the fire and gets slapped for it.

How nice. Mahs should take classes on how to be grateful, I think!!