Originally posted by: Mimzy
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Thats what I am saying Uru......if the story was not about mishbir and end game wasn't mishbir we wouldn't have been against nishmish...........(these posts are continuation of our discussion)
This is no way a comparison post between Abir and nishant........
This is something which is bothering me on what the show is trying to convey.....that mish nish is not compatible....just because the end game is mishbir.......
What they need is time and space to make the relationship to wrk, Nishant is no Kunal who will try to control Mishti.
Nishaant was spot on when he said.....he will not be able to make her happy like Abir and Abir was right when he said he will not hurt her also like he did.
The thing is if we keep aside mishbir dnt you think mishnish has a probability of wrking even without love ?? They have an understanding and friendship ...I believe its enough to start a relationship......love bhi hoga if given the chance....
Bas the only hindrance is its not the right time to pursue mishnish rishtaa......
See what I understand is that this story was about mishti's struggle to find a life partner....and with life partner as a gift we get his family too
I feel the real comparison here is not between nishant and abir but is of the background that 2 characters have
Abir is no doubt a spotless guy , every girl's dream choice , he will give her all the love and support....I mean a perfect man to be with ....the ket down we get is not because of him but because of his family....like jayu said if meenu can hurt her sons than then what is mishti's security .... even If mishti and abir live separately after marriage what is the guarantee that meenu won't interfere
On the other hand ...nishant is a pretty sorted guy , a more practical one I say , not too much lovey dobey types but a simple man that's all but he has a very strong supporting family...and the atmosphere is quite calm there
There can be a subtle message here that i feel makers are trying to give ...and that is that for a life partner ....are you supposed to look only for a life partner or will you give importance to his family background too ...this is a very practical point mini ...in real life we have to think from all angles too ....also I feel nishant's entry was pre planned like mahs had 3 kids and we saw 2 from the beginning so 1 kid ke aane ka chance tha future mein and we got a hint in one pre leap scene where mishti by mistake sends a message to abir mentioning nannu and he gets jealous saying jiska naam nannu ho usse kon jealous hoga
Marriage involves love understanding and trust..all three of them ....while mishbir pass the first aspect of love ...they are low on trust and understanding levels at this point....for mishnish its 0 on love but trust and understanding is fine ....
It's a very grey area to say what's wrong and what's right here ....if this was the scenario in real life
But since end game is mishbir...people are not thinking much on this aspect
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Also lets see how nannu behaves by the end of this track...that will pretty much sum up the judgement for him ....I am still confused on his characterisation
Edited by Onyourface - 5 years ago
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