Relationships arent fairytales

I see a lot of blaming abir going on, his ill treatment of mishti, etc.

While i dont completely disagree i just wanted to bring up the fact that irl relationships are not fairytales.

Abirs pov, he disnt want to hurt his brother and was stuck btw a rock and a hard place so he made that decision to leave mishti. Not a good one and yes there are ways around it but abir didnt choose that route. This happens. People make decisions they end up regretting or are not perfect. People break up for reasons they dont entirely understand. Its life.

Now coming to his treatment of mishti post her telling him the truth. To abir kunal is his brother. Putting yourself in his shoes, how would you feel if someone else told your sibling a fact that is family driven and shouldnt have come out the way it did? That paired with kunals potential accident abirs going to reasonably be pissed.

Yes he should not have pushed mishti. Thats not okay but again, people in anger react in ways they regret later because they werent thinking clearly. This happens. Relationships have this happen. Its not battery or assault. Jeez the parallels people draw to assault it actually makes me mad because its not the same. ITS NOT OKAY but its also not the same thing

Relationships never have perfect partners or perfection in them and its unrealistic to think that and expect the other person to always understand, always be good, never to have made mistakes.this is how people grow and learn and my hope and expectation is for abir and mishti to grow from all of this. No matter what the course of the relationship.

That being said i for one am not going to dismiss abir. Nor dismiss mishti. I want to see how both develop from this.

Finally👏

Same thoughts dear 👍🏼

I could never compare abir's action with man handling, never ever, it was not same at all

Abir ne apna ego satisfy karne ke liye ya Mish se nafrat kar raha hai Isliye Ye nahi kiya, balki it was just a reaction to action

Not justifying his act but it was really normal for every human being

I don't see any manhandling there, mishti ko jab abir ne bola don't touch to he meant it right, I don't know why I am being so practical here, but gussa har insaan ko aata hai And abir ko bhi aaya Its not justification to his act but I don't find it abnormal at all. Abir mishti ki jagah kuhu mishti hote ya abir kunal hote to ye scene differently judge hota, ya mishti abir ko push karti to bhi ye scene differently judge hota. This is not called manhandling according to me. Don't bring abir to such low level Yaar 😅😅😅

This is what I posted on AT

Hey exactly same perspective I had posted in AT.👍🏼

Exactly here it was the intensity of the truth that eas being revealed.Mishti Meenu ni hai na ki achanak se bolegi Kunal tmhara RV khandan se koi astitva he ni...ya Mishti tmhara baap ek khooni hai...Is tarah k high level ke jhtke wale sach Meenu ko he mubarak 😅

I am not against Misti's outburts minus the kunal's birth reality.

Imagine Abir revealing Kuhu's sach(even though kuhu k ew her reality)..To mishti ne sar phodna tha Abir ka Aur Maheshwaris ne Abir ko boycott krna tha(current scenatio jaisa).

Abir ne so call puch kiya Mishti Abir ka collar pakar k body shake krti(that would not have been man handling..vo passionate scene banna tha fans ki nazar me).

I am not against Abir's reaction too minus few of his rude lines(I have different view on that too).The mishti who. She loved vo rishtey jodna jaanti thi...What Mishti 2.0 did unintentionally vo rishtey todne ka kaam hai..

Now we as a fans just need to see how both as a lover are going to tackle this situation.