YOU CHOSE ABIR! YOU CHOSE

https://www.hotstar.com/in/tv/yeh-rishtey-hain-pyaar-ke/s-2049/will-abir-convince-vishambhar/1000242945

Remember this episode guys. It was the one which made me (and I am sure many others) go head over heels for Abir and wanting our life partner be like him. He was labelled the Perfect boyfriend by many. But do you remember the most important point of discussion. Bade papa asked him that if he had to choose between Kunal and Mishti then what. Abir simply said that he would not leave Mishti. Then what did he do today? He chose. He chose between his Nanko and Mishti. Many will say he was forced to. But then he only had said it multiple times before that a relation can be broken only by the people involved. Maybe he had no way but he also didn't try to make one. He let his love for his brother overpower his love for Mishti, the person he claimed was his life. Abir can cry all the day after Mishti going out of his life but did he leave any way for her to come back. I don't know why but i resent Abir for not trying to save both the relations. Maybe my resentment is wrong but I can't help it. I just want to say "you chose, you promised that you wouldn't but you did"

P.S. Sorry if I had hurt anyone. But seeing Mishti so helpless made me mad

I do agree with you. I think Abir was very wrong in the way he broke up with Mishti.. he could have confided in her and told her the real reason.. she may have supported him or he could have asked for some time. Tried to work out how to manage Kunal and Mishti.. but he totally shattered her heart he said the most mean and hurtful things to her... Taunted her about not having a family..he hit her where it hurt the most. He broke every promise he gave her and I thought that was really unfair.

In this situation my sympathies are with Mishti. I don't blame her one bit for resenting him, hating him, moving on and ignoring him as he deserves it. I feel even when the truth does come out Mishti will not go back to him that easily.. even if Minakshi herself comes to apologise for her mistakes and Abirs breakup. I hope Mishti doesn't agree easily.. Indian women are treated as sacrificial and every forgiving . The way Mishti was treated was completely unwarranted.

Abir chose Kunal even though he promised to manage Mishti and Kunal but he chose his brother..so what's wrong eventually if the Maheshwaris ask Mishti to not go into the rajvansh family and she chooses them. I know eventually all will be well and Mishti and Abir will come together but I don't want Mishti to make it easy for him.

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

https://www.hotstar.com/in/tv/yeh-rishtey-hain-pyaar-ke/s-2049/will-abir-convince-vishambhar/1000242945

Remember this episode guys. It was the one which made me (and I am sure many others) go head over heels for Abir and wanting our life partner be like him. He was labelled the Perfect boyfriend by many. But do you remember the most important point of discussion. Bade papa asked him that if he had to choose between Kunal and Mishti then what. Abir simply said that he would not leave Mishti. Then what did he do today? He chose. He chose between his Nanko and Mishti. Many will say he was forced to. But then he only had said it multiple times before that a relation can be broken only by the people involved. Maybe he had no way but he also didn't try to make one. He let his love for his brother overpower his love for Mishti, the person he claimed was his life. Abir can cry all the day after Mishti going out of his life but did he leave any way for her to come back. I don't know why but i resent Abir for not trying to save both the relations. Maybe my resentment is wrong but I can't help it. I just want to say "you chose, you promised that you wouldn't but you did"

P.S. Sorry if I had hurt anyone. But seeing Mishti so helpless made me mad

He broke everyone's heart !!!🥺It pains more because he swore he would never do it!!! He would never chose......He even burnt all bridges for a comeback!!! We believed him , but it all turned out to be a lie!! 💔

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

https://www.hotstar.com/in/tv/yeh-rishtey-hain-pyaar-ke/s-2049/will-abir-convince-vishambhar/1000242945

Remember this episode guys. It was the one which made me (and I am sure many others) go head over heels for Abir and wanting our life partner be like him. He was labelled the Perfect boyfriend by many. But do you remember the most important point of discussion. Bade papa asked him that if he had to choose between Kunal and Mishti then what. Abir simply said that he would not leave Mishti. Then what did he do today? He chose. He chose between his Nanko and Mishti. Many will say he was forced to. But then he only had said it multiple times before that a relation can be broken only by the people involved. Maybe he had no way but he also didn't try to make one. He let his love for his brother overpower his love for Mishti, the person he claimed was his life. Abir can cry all the day after Mishti going out of his life but did he leave any way for her to come back. I don't know why but i resent Abir for not trying to save both the relations. Maybe my resentment is wrong but I can't help it. I just want to say "you chose, you promised that you wouldn't but you did"

P.S. Sorry if I had hurt anyone. But seeing Mishti so helpless made me mad

he should have once at least tried ..as soon as i saw the humiliation n tearing up d card in the episode Abir promising Bade Papa hit me straight .......did Abir even try to give an explanation to Mishti or her BP BM ? it was brutal for him that he couldnt think beyond Kunal n Parul maasi throughout this fiasco...

the girl doesnt deserve it at all .....he should have at least given some hints when she tried asking him in last episode but no he had to snatch the pendant n manhandle her to get her though a shock

As a girl am totally disappointed how the writers have got this impactful by chossing this way...its a story but it hurts ....i think this is what they wanted viewers to feel d impact n they succeeded ....but cant deny the man who once promised he would protect had to let it go for his own selfish reasons n step brother .....he loves nanko more and lets hope Mishti doesnt fall easily for the trap once again post leap .....fingers crossed !!

Not defending Abir.But What exactly could have he done?

Oprion 1:

Many suggest he should have taken Parul,kunal,Mishti with him and lived separately which we all know Mishti would not have supported.She really wanted to be a part of family.

Option 2:

He should have discussed things or had given some hint.Again in that case Mishti would have suggested to convince Meenakshi or sort things out which we all know Meenu would not have done.

It's not that Abir has chosen Kunal over Mishti...we all have seen that in Ganpati episode.This time it is the intensity of truth that made him do so.Along with that he saw that meenu's hatred for Mishti is at such an intense level that she would end up ruining Kunal's and Parul's life.

Going by precap it seems Mishti understands it's all meenu behind his words.

Yes. Abir did choose😭💔

Originally posted by: Mimzy

The bitter truth!!! 😭

He broke everyone's heart !!!🥺It pains more because he swore he would never do it!!! He would never chose......He even burnt all bridges for a comeback!!! We believed him , but it all turned out to be a lie!! 💔

Originally posted by: popeye

I do agree with you. I think Abir was very wrong in the way he broke up with Mishti.. he could have confided in her and told her the real reason.. she may have supported him or he could have asked for some time. Tried to work out how to manage Kunal and Mishti.. but he totally shattered her heart he said the most mean and hurtful things to her... Taunted her about not having a family..he hit her where it hurt the most. He broke every promise he gave her and I thought that was really unfair.

In this situation my sympathies are with Mishti. I don't blame her one bit for resenting him, hating him, moving on and ignoring him as he deserves it. I feel even when the truth does come out Mishti will not go back to him that easily.. even if Minakshi herself comes to apologise for her mistakes and Abirs breakup. I hope Mishti doesn't agree easily.. Indian women are treated as sacrificial and every forgiving . The way Mishti was treated was completely unwarranted.

Abir chose Kunal even though he promised to manage Mishti and Kunal but he chose his brother..so what's wrong eventually if the Maheshwaris ask Mishti to not go into the rajvansh family and she chooses them. I know eventually all will be well and Mishti and Abir will come together but I don't want Mishti to make it easy for him.

Originally posted by: Bujee09

@BOLD ....word

he should have once at least tried ..as soon as i saw the humiliation n tearing up d card in the episode Abir promising Bade Papa hit me straight .......did Abir even try to give an explanation to Mishti or her BP BM ? it was brutal for him that he couldnt think beyond Kunal n Parul maasi throughout this fiasco...

the girl doesnt deserve it at all .....he should have at least given some hints when she tried asking him in last episode but no he had to snatch the pendant n manhandle her to get her though a shock

As a girl am totally disappointed how the writers have got this impactful by chossing this way...its a story but it hurts ....i think this is what they wanted viewers to feel d impact n they succeeded ....but cant deny the man who once promised he would protect had to let it go for his own selfish reasons n step brother .....he loves nanko more and lets hope Mishti doesnt fall easily for the trap once again post leap .....fingers crossed !!

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

Not defending Abir.But What exactly could have he done?

Oprion 1:

Many suggest he should have taken Parul,kunal,Mishti with him and lived separately which we all know Mishti would not have supported.She really wanted to be a part of family.

Option 2:

He should have discussed things or had given some hint.Again in that case Mishti would have suggested to convince Meenakshi or sort things out which we all know Meenu would not have done.

It's not that Abir has chosen Kunal over Mishti...we all have seen that in Ganpati episode.This time it is the intensity of truth that made him do so.Along with that he saw that meenu's hatred for Mishti is at such an intense level that she would end up ruining Kunal's and Parul's life.

Going by precap it seems Mishti understands it's all meenu behind his words.