Abhir Rajvansh - the one man army

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After so long making a post on my thoughts... 😆 ok after last week episodes, reading some sns thoughts on unfairness of the situations and also the discussion on how abhir was left alone to handle everything had to make this post... i'm not all all good with words still trying to express my thoughts..

here lets take a look at the fair n unfairness...

kuhu and abhir:

he fought for her when rishta exchange happened..

he went on knees to convince mah family.. took responsibility of the whole shaadi.. he was the one to suppport kuhu when she begged kunal after haldi fiasco...

when he asked kunal to come back and get married he was worried about kuhu being humiliated and also how as a girl she will be treated if left at alter...

on day of shaadi he reprimanded kunal when she asked sorry to kunal, and also while kuku entered their room he reprimanded kunal for being careless about kuhu... and also when kunal didnt go to pick up kuhu from mah house after phag phere..

In all this he gave more importance to kuhu than kunal..

but have ever kuhu saw anything from abhir's perspective.. even when she got to know mishbir love her reaction was how mishti loved abhir... she never thought about abhir's love.. and also now she showed guilty for hurting mishti but did she think of hurting abhir.... it was like he is a non existent element there..

abhir gave his maximum support to her till now.. now him saying kuku had to take care of their rishta is bcoz he can only be the external support but cant go in between them for their personal issue...

abhir and kunal:

first.. when baba left them abhir maybe was around 10-12 and kunal dont know if he was born or not.. Abhir became a father figure to kunal never let him feel that he needed father.. he gave up on everything kunal didnt like.. knowing about meenu tried to instill some good qualities and happiness in kunal..

he always scolded or argued with kunal not only for mishti but also for kuhu, when kunal disrespected parul maasi, and also when he slapped atul... he never wanted kunal to be a feminist but he wanted kunal to respect everyone, their choices bcoz they are some good qualities a human should have... he indeed tried being a father to kunal in all this...

and about abhir respecting kunal feeling..

when kuhu rishta came he wanted kunal to get some happiness so literally kidnapped him n made him understand that he had to move on...

kunal cant handle rejection.. so abhir did try pacifying him after the argument he tried explaining calmly too but never forced his decision on him.. he gave space to kunal... he didnt force kunal to accept mishti in anyway..

when he came to know about kuhu love he wanted kunal to get the love coming his way... he cared about kunal feeling after haldi fiasco suppressing his pain he consoled kunal... on shaadi day when he ran away he cared for kuhu but also he didnt want kunal to give up on his love for the hatred he has on mishti bcoz of meenu...

even when shwet came back he wanted kunal to stay away but when he wanted to know answers from her he let him go... and also after party he said you are smart and you should decide for yourself what you want not me... even about kuhu he said the same that he should decide whether he love n want kuhu or not...

he was the one to always go behind kunal after their arguments or easily forgave him for his mistake.. he was brother here and failed as a father... him giving into kunal from childhood has spoiled him that now he cant differentiate between a thing and human... but cant hold it against abhir completely.. let me tell why

if kunal was a kid who needed love and support abhir was also a kid... his father ran away, he doesnt get along with mother bcoz of their difference, he had to be a father at that age for his brother, cant talk about his father bcoz of kunal, keep the family together.... In all of this Abhir, his happiness, his need and want everything was neglected by others and himself too sometimes..

Is abhir unfair to kunal? No bcoz if today he gives into kunal tomorrow he will demand to do the same with baba too... kunal has abhir as father but abhir needs baba n his love which he is been longing for... always kunal thought he gave up things for abhir in his life but never thought of what abhir needs in his own life, where abhirs happiness lies,.. its always about him only not abhir...

On cyclone accident he was more concerned about mishti not taking calls... on ganesh pooja day he saved abhir physically but killed his soul by humiliating his love(mishti) infront of so many people and also asking him to choose between them.. mental pain is more worse than physical pain.. thats what he did to abhir..

Abhir and other:

he was needed by ketki during her shaadi talk n after it broke to console her.. Parul maasi needed him when its about kunal life.. Nanu supports him but always keep quiet when brothers argue even meenu scolds kunal for disrespecting his elder brother... Meenu ufff no words for the mother.. Everyone says they love him but never once prioritize or even thought of abhir and his happiness..

he was left alone to deal with his emotions and needs... even for his rishta he went alone to face the girls family... isnt everyone being unfair to abhir...

Abhir and mishti:

lets put abhir in others place and mishti in abhir...

Mishti got angry on him when he went to jail.. bcoz she cared for him

she went out late at night to find abhir bcoz she knew he needs a friend when ketki shaadi broke...

She saved the painting jus bcoz it was important for him risking her life..

She risked her life in champaner so that abhir gets to fulfill his fathers wish as she knew how important its for him..

She let go of her self respect and asked sorry to meenu without her mistake only for abhir.. she didnt want him to go through the pain of always standing up for her against everyone..

She encouraged abhir to talk about baba which no one had done till date... she is someone to whom he can share everything in heart without any filter...

She gave him the support to do the biggest thing in life.. searching his baba.. she wanted to give this kid the father he is longing for...

She is fighting for their relationship not only bcoz she loves him but also bcoz Abhir loves her.. she respects abhirs love over her...

Like till day abhir did everything for kunal, mishti is doing everything for him without even him asking... the "kuch din pehle aaye hui mishti" gave him everything, understands him, prioritizes him, his happiness, needs and wants before her own....

More than mishti needing him... Abhir is the one who needs mishti ....

and he will be affected if this relationship breaks.... but everyone meenu, kuhu, kunal, varsha, jas, even BP,BM everyones concern is mishti... no one thought from abhir's perspective.. why????? relationship are always two sided but why no one is being fair enough to abhir...

This boy is the one who needs all the love, happiness, support everything... I want mish to express the amount of love she has for abhir like abhir did on friday.. she is always good in showing her love.. but a heart to heart convo on abhir by mish is what i want...

dont know if i made sense.. still wanted to rant on this.. finally done... please do say if i've been fair..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Diyaaaaa🤗

Awesome awesome awesome awesome

Thanku so much for writing this post

Beautiful and truthful 👍🏼👍🏼

Valid points with so much proves, Kuch din pehle aayi Hui mishti is way better than saalo puraani family, atleast she understand him, give priority to him, let him speak his heart out, don't allow him to sacrifice and so does he, he also prioritize her, respects her, trust her, and can't bear unfairness towards her.

Rv family are gonna hate mishti when they will come to know that mishti helped abir finding his baba but come on people abir is a mature man, who stand for right, if baba had done anything wrong, abir will definitely not support him, but let him decide Now, bahut Ho gaya Ye hide and seek 🙄

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Originally posted by: diya_divakar

After so long making a post on my thoughts... 😆 ok after last week episodes, reading some sns thoughts on unfairness of the situations and also the discussion on how abhir was left alone to handle everything had to make this post... i'm not all all good with words still trying to express my thoughts..

here lets take a look at the fair n unfairness...

kuhu and abhir:

he fought for her when rishta exchange happened..

he went on knees to convince mah family.. took responsibility of the whole shaadi.. he was the one to suppport kuhu when she begged kunal after haldi fiasco...

when he asked kunal to come back and get married he was worried about kuhu being humiliated and also how as a girl she will be treated if left at alter...

on day of shaadi he reprimanded kunal when she asked sorry to kunal, and also while kuku entered their room he reprimanded kunal for being careless about kuhu... and also when kunal didnt go to pick up kuhu from mah house after phag phere..

In all this he gave more importance to kuhu than kunal..

but have ever kuhu saw anything from abhir's perspective.. even when she got to know mishbir love her reaction was how mishti loved abhir... she never thought about abhir's love.. and also now she showed guilty for hurting mishti but did she think of hurting abhir.... it was like he is a non existent element there..

Yass even I made a post on it. Whatever her equation is with Mishti. Abir has always treated Kuhu like a sister and has always helped him. Not even once did it cross Kuhu's mind that she would be hurting Abir too

abhir gave his maximum support to her till now.. now him saying kuku had to take care of their rishta is bcoz he can only be the external support but cant go in between them for their personal issue...

abhir and kunal:

first.. when baba left them abhir maybe was around 10-12 and kunal dont know if he was born or not.. Abhir became a father figure to kunal never let him feel that he needed father.. he gave up on everything kunal didnt like.. knowing about meenu tried to instill some good qualities and happiness in kunal..

he always scolded or argued with kunal not only for mishti but also for kuhu, when kunal disrespected parul maasi, and also when he slapped atul... he never wanted kunal to be a feminist but he wanted kunal to respect everyone, their choices bcoz they are some good qualities a human should have... he indeed tried being a father to kunal in all this...

and about abhir respecting kunal feeling..

when kuhu rishta came he wanted kunal to get some happiness so literally kidnapped him n made him understand that he had to move on...

kunal cant handle rejection.. so abhir did try pacifying him after the argument he tried explaining calmly too but never forced his decision on him.. he gave space to kunal... he didnt force kunal to accept mishti in anyway..

when he came to know about kuhu love he wanted kunal to get the love coming his way... he cared about kunal feeling after haldi fiasco suppressing his pain he consoled kunal... on shaadi day when he ran away he cared for kuhu but also he didnt want kunal to give up on his love for the hatred he has on mishti bcoz of meenu...

even when shwet came back he wanted kunal to stay away but when he wanted to know answers from her he let him go... and also after party he said you are smart and you should decide for yourself what you want not me... even about kuhu he said the same that he should decide whether he love n want kuhu or not...

he was the one to always go behind kunal after their arguments or easily forgave him for his mistake.. he was brother here and failed as a father... him giving into kunal from childhood has spoiled him that now he cant differentiate between a thing and human... but cant hold it against abhir completely.. let me tell why

if kunal was a kid who needed love and support abhir was also a kid... his father ran away, he doesnt get along with mother bcoz of their difference, he had to be a father at that age for his brother, cant talk about his father bcoz of kunal, keep the family together.... In all of this Abhir, his happiness, his need and want everything was neglected by others and himself too sometimes..

Is abhir unfair to kunal? No bcoz if today he gives into kunal tomorrow he will demand to do the same with baba too... kunal has abhir as father but abhir needs baba n his love which he is been longing for... always kunal thought he gave up things for abhir in his life but never thought of what abhir needs in his own life, where abhirs happiness lies,.. its always about him only not abhir...

On cyclone accident he was more concerned about mishti not taking calls... on ganesh pooja day he saved abhir physically but killed his soul by humiliating his love(mishti) infront of so many people and also asking him to choose between them.. mental pain is more worse than physical pain.. thats what he did to abhir..

I get that Kunal loves Abir but the cyclone incident and the pooja incident shows that he loves his ego more. Like his brother almost died, Mish wasn't frolicking in some park she was trying to break a window and saved Abir from a burning car so what if she didn't check her phone. Kunal should be glad that she got to his bro in time because all Kunal did was say I hope bhai aap theek ho as if his hope could save bhai from a burning car matlab kuch nai. Yeah and even in the pooja sequence not once did he think that this event is very dear to his Bhai and that he has official guest here and he must have worked so hard but instead he just threw a temper tantrum.

Abhir and other:

he was needed by ketki during her shaadi talk n after it broke to console her.. Parul maasi needed him when its about kunal life.. Nanu supports him but always keep quiet when brothers argue even meenu scolds kunal for disrespecting his elder brother... Meenu ufff no words for the mother.. Everyone says they love him but never once prioritize or even thought of abhir and his happiness..

Which is why I always say that even in a house full of his family Abir feels lonely because no one sees beneath his mask. No one cares about him they all just use him according to their own wishes no one bothers to check if he is doing okay.

he was left alone to deal with his emotions and needs... even for his rishta he went alone to face the girls family... isnt everyone being unfair to abhir...

Which is why when he said to BP like abb main bhi iss family ka hissa hua and the way he got overwhelmed when BM called herself his Maa made me cry. The poor boy is just so desperate for love,care and attention.


Abhir and mishti:

lets put abhir in others place and mishti in abhir...

Mishti got angry on him when he went to jail.. bcoz she cared for him

she went out late at night to find abhir bcoz she knew he needs a friend when ketki shaadi broke...

She saved the painting jus bcoz it was important for him risking her life..

She risked her life in champaner so that abhir gets to fulfill his fathers wish as she knew how important its for him..

She let go of her self respect and asked sorry to meenu without her mistake only for abhir.. she didnt want him to go through the pain of always standing up for her against everyone..

She encouraged abhir to talk about baba which no one had done till date... she is someone to whom he can share everything in heart without any filter...

She gave him the support to do the biggest thing in life.. searching his baba.. she wanted to give this kid the father he is longing for...

She is fighting for their relationship not only bcoz she loves him but also bcoz Abhir loves her.. she respects abhirs love over her...

Like till day abhir did everything for kunal, mishti is doing everything for him without even him asking... the "kuch din pehle aaye hui mishti" gave him everything, understands him, prioritizes him, his happiness, needs and wants before her own....

More than mishti needing him... Abhir is the one who needs mishti ....

and he will be affected if this relationship breaks.... but everyone meenu, kuhu, kunal, varsha, jas, even BP,BM everyones concern is mishti... no one thought from abhir's perspective.. why????? relationship are always two sided but why no one is being fair enough to abhir...

Which is why I loved Mish when she said that now Abir is also involved in this relationship and now she can't make any decision without thinking about how it will affect him too.

This boy is the one who needs all the love, happiness, support everything... I want mish to express the amount of love she has for abhir like abhir did on friday.. she is always good in showing her love.. but a heart to heart convo on abhir by mish is what i want...

Yass please I so want a heart to heart convo between Mishbir. I want Mish to tell Abir why she loves him so much.

dont know if i made sense.. still wanted to rant on this.. finally done... please do say if i've been fair..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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yeah exactly

yeah maheshwari family has not much love like rajvansh family

but its very real but in rajvansh family on the name of unity and family love noone is happy or get what they want they do unnecessary thing on the name of sacrifice and protection which other not need like abir sacrificed by marrying kuhu to protect his brother and this thing will neither make abir nor kunal happy and one kuhu happiness is even sacrificed

i dont know what baba truth but i really hope he is just the person who abir describe and is not this kunal father

in rajvansh family actually nidhi and company r healthy type expecially ketu and atul they r sweethearts and actually knows to love it was ketu who even got to know that her abir bhai is doing dikhawa jokingly only on kuku shadi

i am just waiting to see ketu reaction and bond with mishti when she will know abir loves mishti

and that cyclone incident i thought thing will change somewhat but that day only i got confirmation with both the ma beta for them first ego come then abir

they both tried to show how they even were doing effort and cared for him like she was saying main raat bhar bhagwan ke paas baithi thi and this that

they just want abir physically rest they not care about his mental state

only parul of all actually selfish lot somewhat care for his emotional state that too her priority is kunal but till now she never done anything at cost of abir like cyclone day even her concern forst was kunal but when she realised abir actually is in danger her immediate focus became abir on shadi day even she promised to bb to help but now she is supporting abir

even i like nidhi mami and koshlu dont n=know what they will say regarding mishti but their care is even shown sometime

but for nanu meenu and kunaltheir so called family unity and respect come first

nanu dont know why everyone like he is only the one who is reponsible for parul state he only not let her speak truth and kept mother son away

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Tu aaj kya kha ke aayi hai diya?👏👏👏👏👏🥳🥳🥳🥳🤗

First ball pe boundary ke bahar sidha...thaaaaaa !

Loved loved loved reading this !

Yes Abir is the one who always kept others above himself , he was there for Parul for nanu for nanko for kuhu but none of them tried to understand the real "Aiber"

You know sometimes people take you for granted , like iske saath toh kuch bhi karo, yeh itna acha hai , yeh kuch nai karega, ... people around Abir take Abir for granted and use him for their own selfish motives , plan right under his nose

Mishti atleast has BP and BM to support her in her vulnerable state, Abir has none to support from his side of family !

He can't even cry khul ke, that takes away my heart, then he just expresses his feelings by Shayaris when alone, because actually there is no one to share that conversation with him

Mishti is slowly starting to enter those deep dark places in his heart, they are connecting now on emotional levels, still have a long way to go though ...but am sure that will happen gradually and beautiful !

Thank you for the khidki tod post Yaara ...idk what's going on in the sns world regarding Abir's character but I really really loved reading this !

#superproudguruji !

😊😊❤️❤️

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Posted: 6 years ago
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First of all a tight wala jahppi to you dear🤗...

Amazingly written about one of the best make TV lead characters I've known in recent times👏👏👏....

To the beautiful description you have about Abhir there's nothing much left for me to add...

He's an emotionally inclined beautiful family man😃.... He sits his bro, respects his mother irrespective of her doings n loves his family... Not just that, he's goals when it comes to a boyfriend be it supporting n unconditionally loving his girl. Any girl will be lucky to have him for her man

Again a very very beautiful description of our Abhir Yaara👏🤗

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Originally posted by: Onyourface

Tu aaj kya kha ke aayi hai diya?👏👏👏👏👏🥳🥳🥳🥳🤗

First ball pe boundary ke bahar sidha...thaaaaaa !

Loved loved loved reading this !

Yes Abir is the one who always kept others above himself , he was there for Parul for nanu for nanko for kuhu but none of them tried to understand the real "Aiber"

You know sometimes people take you for granted , like iske saath toh kuch bhi karo, yeh itna acha hai , yeh kuch nai karega, ... people around Abir take Abir for granted and use him for their own selfish motives , plan right under his nose

Mishti atleast has BP and BM to support her in her vulnerable state, Abir has none to support from his side of family !

He can't even cry khul ke, that takes away my heart, then he just expresses his feelings by Shayaris when alone, because actually there is no one to share that conversation with him

Mishti is slowly starting to enter those deep dark places in his heart, they are connecting now on emotional levels, still have a long way to go though ...but am sure that will happen gradually and beautiful !

Thank you for the khidki tod post Yaara ...idk what's going on in the sns world regarding Abir's character but I really really loved reading this !

#superproudguruji !

😊😊❤️❤️

Gurujiiiiiiiiiii... In your post me n diya come together....

N in diya's post u n me together... Great connection haan😎🤗

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: diya_divakar

After so long making a post on my thoughts... 😆 ok after last week episodes, reading some sns thoughts on unfairness of the situations and also the discussion on how abhir was left alone to handle everything had to make this post... i'm not all all good with words still trying to express my thoughts..

here lets take a look at the fair n unfairness...

kuhu and abhir:

he fought for her when rishta exchange happened..

he went on knees to convince mah family.. took responsibility of the whole shaadi.. he was the one to suppport kuhu when she begged kunal after haldi fiasco...

when he asked kunal to come back and get married he was worried about kuhu being humiliated and also how as a girl she will be treated if left at alter...

on day of shaadi he reprimanded kunal when she asked sorry to kunal, and also while kuku entered their room he reprimanded kunal for being careless about kuhu... and also when kunal didnt go to pick up kuhu from mah house after phag phere..

In all this he gave more importance to kuhu than kunal..

but have ever kuhu saw anything from abhir's perspective.. even when she got to know mishbir love her reaction was how mishti loved abhir... she never thought about abhir's love.. and also now she showed guilty for hurting mishti but did she think of hurting abhir.... it was like he is a non existent element there..

abhir gave his maximum support to her till now.. now him saying kuku had to take care of their rishta is bcoz he can only be the external support but cant go in between them for their personal issue...

abhir and kunal:

first.. when baba left them abhir maybe was around 10-12 and kunal dont know if he was born or not.. Abhir became a father figure to kunal never let him feel that he needed father.. he gave up on everything kunal didnt like.. knowing about meenu tried to instill some good qualities and happiness in kunal..

he always scolded or argued with kunal not only for mishti but also for kuhu, when kunal disrespected parul maasi, and also when he slapped atul... he never wanted kunal to be a feminist but he wanted kunal to respect everyone, their choices bcoz they are some good qualities a human should have... he indeed tried being a father to kunal in all this...

and about abhir respecting kunal feeling..

when kuhu rishta came he wanted kunal to get some happiness so literally kidnapped him n made him understand that he had to move on...

kunal cant handle rejection.. so abhir did try pacifying him after the argument he tried explaining calmly too but never forced his decision on him.. he gave space to kunal... he didnt force kunal to accept mishti in anyway..

when he came to know about kuhu love he wanted kunal to get the love coming his way... he cared about kunal feeling after haldi fiasco suppressing his pain he consoled kunal... on shaadi day when he ran away he cared for kuhu but also he didnt want kunal to give up on his love for the hatred he has on mishti bcoz of meenu...

even when shwet came back he wanted kunal to stay away but when he wanted to know answers from her he let him go... and also after party he said you are smart and you should decide for yourself what you want not me... even about kuhu he said the same that he should decide whether he love n want kuhu or not...

he was the one to always go behind kunal after their arguments or easily forgave him for his mistake.. he was brother here and failed as a father... him giving into kunal from childhood has spoiled him that now he cant differentiate between a thing and human... but cant hold it against abhir completely.. let me tell why

if kunal was a kid who needed love and support abhir was also a kid... his father ran away, he doesnt get along with mother bcoz of their difference, he had to be a father at that age for his brother, cant talk about his father bcoz of kunal, keep the family together.... In all of this Abhir, his happiness, his need and want everything was neglected by others and himself too sometimes..

Is abhir unfair to kunal? No bcoz if today he gives into kunal tomorrow he will demand to do the same with baba too... kunal has abhir as father but abhir needs baba n his love which he is been longing for... always kunal thought he gave up things for abhir in his life but never thought of what abhir needs in his own life, where abhirs happiness lies,.. its always about him only not abhir...

On cyclone accident he was more concerned about mishti not taking calls... on ganesh pooja day he saved abhir physically but killed his soul by humiliating his love(mishti) infront of so many people and also asking him to choose between them.. mental pain is more worse than physical pain.. thats what he did to abhir..

Abhir and other:

he was needed by ketki during her shaadi talk n after it broke to console her.. Parul maasi needed him when its about kunal life.. Nanu supports him but always keep quiet when brothers argue even meenu scolds kunal for disrespecting his elder brother... Meenu ufff no words for the mother.. Everyone says they love him but never once prioritize or even thought of abhir and his happiness..

he was left alone to deal with his emotions and needs... even for his rishta he went alone to face the girls family... isnt everyone being unfair to abhir...

Abhir and mishti:

lets put abhir in others place and mishti in abhir...

Mishti got angry on him when he went to jail.. bcoz she cared for him

she went out late at night to find abhir bcoz she knew he needs a friend when ketki shaadi broke...

She saved the painting jus bcoz it was important for him risking her life..

She risked her life in champaner so that abhir gets to fulfill his fathers wish as she knew how important its for him..

She let go of her self respect and asked sorry to meenu without her mistake only for abhir.. she didnt want him to go through the pain of always standing up for her against everyone..

She encouraged abhir to talk about baba which no one had done till date... she is someone to whom he can share everything in heart without any filter...

She gave him the support to do the biggest thing in life.. searching his baba.. she wanted to give this kid the father he is longing for...

She is fighting for their relationship not only bcoz she loves him but also bcoz Abhir loves her.. she respects abhirs love over her...

Like till day abhir did everything for kunal, mishti is doing everything for him without even him asking... the "kuch din pehle aaye hui mishti" gave him everything, understands him, prioritizes him, his happiness, needs and wants before her own....

More than mishti needing him... Abhir is the one who needs mishti ....

and he will be affected if this relationship breaks.... but everyone meenu, kuhu, kunal, varsha, jas, even BP,BM everyones concern is mishti... no one thought from abhir's perspective.. why????? relationship are always two sided but why no one is being fair enough to abhir...

This boy is the one who needs all the love, happiness, support everything... I want mish to express the amount of love she has for abhir like abhir did on friday.. she is always good in showing her love.. but a heart to heart convo on abhir by mish is what i want...

dont know if i made sense.. still wanted to rant on this.. finally done... please do say if i've been fair..

idk abt others but it was a must needed post 4 me yaar..

yesterday i was so perplexed by dis one twitter user who actually thinks dat everything dat is wrong with kuku r faults of mishbir..dat kuku's feelings r never considered nd mishbir r selfish nd blah blah i had dis long argument with her nd wen she had nth to say (which i m guessing) she just said very irrelevant things nd left it at dat..🤣

seriously some people just like to play blame game nd demean good characters..the funny thing is she actually had the dp of mishbir even tho she always posts in favor of kuhu nd against mishbir😆😆

u literally said all d things i said to her yesterday nd also more dan dat..👍🏼

it was a really good read🤗

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Originally posted by: vssdp

Diyaaaaa🤗

Awesome awesome awesome awesome

Thanku so much for writing this post

Beautiful and truthful 👍🏼👍🏼

Valid points with so much proves, Kuch din pehle aayi Hui mishti is way better than saalo puraani family, atleast she understand him, give priority to him, let him speak his heart out, don't allow him to sacrifice and so does he, he also prioritize her, respects her, trust her, and can't bear unfairness towards her.

Rv family are gonna hate mishti when they will come to know that mishti helped abir finding his baba but come on people abir is a mature man, who stand for right, if baba had done anything wrong, abir will definitely not support him, but let him decide Now, bahut Ho gaya Ye hide and seek 🙄

thank you so much Vaishu... 🤗

yaar was going through tweets and also for the post here about abir not caring about kunal feeling made me post this..

@bold - very true... she never expected anything from him but was always giving and he also does the same...

are yaar jus now saw the spoiler in AT where kunal stops abhir from going away in search of baba.. here in post i mentioned that if abhir gives into kunal for mishti then he will expect the same for baba.. see that is what he is doing... yaar everyone will surely get angry on why mishti bought baba in abhir life but they will never see how much abhir needs baba to answer his ques and also to shower love on him... in all these years they never realized how much abhir is suffering without baba if realized too they never cared to console or support him..

i'm so happy that BP/BM are there to support him and mishti... always abhir stood up for mishti.. now i want mishti to stand up for abhir in front of family when baba enters.. and show them how wrong they are..

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I get that Kunal loves Abir but the cyclone incident and the pooja incident shows that he loves his ego more. Like his brother almost died, Mish wasn't frolicking in some park she was trying to break a window and saved Abir from a burning car so what if she didn't check her phone. Kunal should be glad that she got to his bro in time because all Kunal did was say I hope bhai aap theek ho as if his hope could save bhai from a burning car matlab kuch nai. Yeah and even in the pooja sequence not once did he think that this event is very dear to his Bhai and that he has official guest here and he must have worked so hard but instead he just threw a temper tantrum.

exactly... he was talking to kuhu that he doesnt want anything wrong in the pooja as its important to abhir but see he himself did it.. such a hypocrite..

Which is why I always say that even in a house full of his family Abir feels lonely because no one sees beneath his mask. No one cares about him they all just use him according to their own wishes no one bothers to check if he is doing okay.

yaar i felt happy that nanu was able to see atleast his love for mish if not for his other feelings.. but then he too disappointed big time

Which is why when he said to BP like abb main bhi iss family ka hissa hua and the way he got overwhelmed when BM called herself his Maa made me cry. The poor boy is just so desperate for love,care and attention.

i really teared up at that scene zara.. he was like a kid craving for parents love and finally he is getting it.. that too BM accepting him as her son really thats the best moment for abhir..

Which is why I loved Mish when she said that now Abir is also involved in this relationship and now she can't make any decision without thinking about how it will affect him too.

very true...

Yass please I so want a heart to heart convo between Mishbir. I want Mish to tell Abir why she loves him so much.

exactly zara... friday when abhir was full on expressing his love and also why he loves mishti.... she needs to do the same and that too i want it infront of family yaar.. they need to see n realize that there is someone who gives true happiness and love for abhir...

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