Yay meri family hain 25th July analysis

“Monsters exist, but they are too few in number to be truly dangerous. More dangerous are the common men, the functionaries ready to believe and to act without asking questions.”

― Primo Levi

Hmm did I like Abir questioning Mish. No, I did not. Did I understand why he did it? Yes. Sometimes in situations like these silence is not the right answer. Especially when no one in the family supports you sometimes you have to say it and set the record straight. The trio is trash. Varsha mistrusting Mish just because she lied to bring KUKU together is so stupid it boggles my brain. Even Kuhu knew about Shwet why doesn’t she ask the same questions to her daughter. Mish decides to walk away because she is so done with every one. Then Abir stops her

“Kia tumnay who email bhejay thay? Main jaana chaata hu. Mera aik sawaal tum par udhar tha yay wohi sawaal hain”

“Nahi yay kiya mainay kal koi email nahi bheji yay meri family hain aur yay who family hain jis main meri behen ki shaadi honay wali hain aur main who larki hu jis kay apnay maa baap nay ussay chod diya tha family ki importance kia hoti hain yay mujh say bethar koi nahi jaan ta. Main kisi ko hurt nahi karna chaati”

My heart broke here for this girl. She goes on to explain how she wouldn’t even think of hurting her family as she belongs to a broken family. I wish at least someone should have given her that confidence that we no you can not do anything as bad as this. It hurts that she has to fight some battles alone but then this is life sometimes its us against the world. Abir isn't the perfect male lead we all think he is , Kunal is his weakness as I said yesterday that his bro is his blind spot the day Abir gets to know what his bro did to break apart him and Mish is when his illusion will break. He needs to stop molly coddling his brother. As humans we all are flawed even Abir .When her voice breaks while talking about being abandoned by her parents the camera pans on Abir’s pained expression he does care about her but he cares about Kunal and his family too.

“Misthi nay keh diya na kay uss nay email nahi bheja matlab uss nay email nahi bheja tha” I loved how resolute he was here he couldn’t have said this before her answer as no one would have believed him. I think he asked the question for other and not for himself. “Misthi jis kisi nay tumhay phaasnay ki koshish ki hain main ussay dhoond kar rahu ga”. Abir promised her that he would find the culprit and she looks at him with so much gratitude.

The Varsha/Mish scene was puke worthy loved how BM actually called out Varsha for her hypocrisy and how she apologized from Mish on the family’s behalf. BP and BM are real gems. Lol so Mish became violent chorni right fully and Abir had to control her. The poor hacker was dead meat if Abir hadn’t arrived. They get to know that someday might have used her password. All in all this was a filler episode. I hope Misbir have a heart to heart in the next episode.

That precap was amazing. Misthi has actually surprised me I love this strong daring female lead so blessed to see someone like her on ITV. Yass Mish fight for your pyar all our duas are with you and good always triumphs evil.

Stray thoughts

• Hahahahahah loved how Ben BAA was like Mish nay kia jaadu kia hain I am losing my son well lady let me tell you something you will lose your son due to your own antics. Mish is the anchor who is keeping him home. I hope someday she will see that how happy Abir is with Mish and how Mish doesn’t threaten her position.

• As stupid as Kuhu is I still wouldn’t wish what’s happening with her on my worst enemy to be made a fool in love is the worst thing that can happen to a person.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

“Monsters exist, but they are too few in number to be truly dangerous. More dangerous are the common men, the functionaries ready to believe and to act without asking questions.”

― Primo Levi

Hmm did I like Abir questioning Mish. No, I did not. Did I understand why he did it? Yes. Sometimes in situations like these silence is not the right answer. Especially when no one in the family supports you sometimes you have to say it and set the record straight. The trio is trash. Varsha mistrusting Mish just because she lied to bring KUKU together is so stupid it boggles my brain. Even Kuhu knew about Shwet why doesn’t she ask the same questions to her daughter. Mish decides to walk away because she is so done with every one. Then Abir stops her

“Kia tumnay who email bhejay thay? Main jaana chaata hu. Mera aik sawaal tum par udhar tha yay wohi sawaal hain”

“Nahi yay kiya mainay kal koi email nahi bheji yay meri family hain aur yay who family hain jis main meri behen ki shaadi honay wali hain aur main who larki hu jis kay apnay maa baap nay ussay chod diya tha family ki importance kia hoti hain yay mujh say bethar koi nahi jaan ta. Main kisi ko hurt nahi karna chaati”

My heart broke here for this girl. She goes on to explain how she wouldn’t even think of hurting her family as she belongs to a broken family. I wish at least someone should have given her that confidence that we no you can not do anything as bad as this. It hurts that she has to fight some battles alone but then this is life sometimes its us against the world. Abir isn't the perfect male lead we all think he is , Kunal is his weakness as I said yesterday that his bro is his blind spot the day Abir gets to know what his bro did to break apart him and Mish is when his illusion will break. He needs to stop molly coddling his brother. As humans we all are flawed even Abir .When her voice breaks while talking about being abandoned by her parents the camera pans on Abir’s pained expression he does care about her but he cares about Kunal and his family too.

“Misthi nay keh diya na kay uss nay email nahi bheja matlab uss nay email nahi bheja tha” I loved how resolute he was here he couldn’t have said this before her answer as no one would have believed him. I think he asked the question for other and not for himself. “Misthi jis kisi nay tumhay phaasnay ki koshish ki hain main ussay dhoond kar rahu ga”. Abir promised her that he would find the culprit and she looks at him with so much gratitude.

The Varsha/Mish scene was puke worthy loved how BM actually called out Varsha for her hypocrisy and how she apologized from Mish on the family’s behalf. BP and BM are real gems. Lol so Mish became violent chorni right fully and Abir had to control her. The poor hacker was dead meat if Abir hadn’t arrived. They get to know that someday might have used her password. All in all this was a filler episode. I hope Misbir have a heart to heart in the next episode.

That precap was amazing. Misthi has actually surprised me I love this strong daring female lead so blessed to see someone like her on ITV. Yass Mish fight for your pyar all our duas are with you and good always triumphs evil.

Stray thoughts

• Hahahahahah loved how Ben BAA was like Mish nay kia jaadu kia hain I am losing my son well lady let me tell you something you will lose your son due to your own antics. Mish is the anchor who is keeping him home. I hope someday she will see that how happy Abir is with Mish and how Mish doesn’t threaten her position.

• As stupid as Kuhu is I still wouldn’t wish what’s happening with her on my worst enemy to be made a fool in love is the worst thing that can happen to a person.

Copying my previous answer here

" Today I didn't even find wrong about abir questioning mishti. It was very clear they he did that so that no one questions her and also he is no one and has no right on her to say " Meri mishti hai aur mujhe jaantiyae yeh wesa kuch nahi karegi".. perfectly logical..

But I thought how he handles that hacker very patiently and also at the same time he was strongly questioning him whereas in ketki's case he pounched like a lion on that groom. This question was just troubling me and then I finally got the answer.

Mishti instructed him not to get angry and end up in jail 😅. After that when mishti's father secret came out , bade papa or shaurya asked him " pata nahi aap apne gusse ko kesa control karta hai".. he immediately remembered mishti's words and her words on not to be impulsive. So, today he handled the situation with more mature and care than mishti itself( though I enjoyed mishti hitting that man and her angry avatar)..

He respects mishti so much and we should patiently wait for next episode for their confrontation about today's events. And abir will clear all about questions even though mishti understood about the reason behind it without words..❤️

Very good analysia dear, tomorrow we will get to know and abir in his words will definitely explain her..."

I too feel sad for mishti:( poor girl..

Once he gains his place in mishti's life , he stands for her no matter what . Even if he does that now , it sounds illogical .

I think abir is not flawed now. He is flawed from beginning. He runs out of house, does crazy things, fell in love with brothers fiancee( though he didn't attempt to reveal it)..

And mishti too is flawed in her own way . Some of her fights with kuhu and that bracelet thing ...

" Flaw leads make this show more beautiful"😊

Good night dr:)🤗

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

“Monsters exist, but they are too few in number to be truly dangerous. More dangerous are the common men, the functionaries ready to believe and to act without asking questions.”

― Primo Levi

Hmm did I like Abir questioning Mish. No, I did not. Did I understand why he did it? Yes. Sometimes in situations like these silence is not the right answer. Especially when no one in the family supports you sometimes you have to say it and set the record straight. The trio is trash. Varsha mistrusting Mish just because she lied to bring KUKU together is so stupid it boggles my brain. Even Kuhu knew about Shwet why doesn’t she ask the same questions to her daughter. Mish decides to walk away because she is so done with every one. Then Abir stops her

“Kia tumnay who email bhejay thay? Main jaana chaata hu. Mera aik sawaal tum par udhar tha yay wohi sawaal hain”

“Nahi yay kiya mainay kal koi email nahi bheji yay meri family hain aur yay who family hain jis main meri behen ki shaadi honay wali hain aur main who larki hu jis kay apnay maa baap nay ussay chod diya tha family ki importance kia hoti hain yay mujh say bethar koi nahi jaan ta. Main kisi ko hurt nahi karna chaati”

My heart broke here for this girl. She goes on to explain how she wouldn’t even think of hurting her family as she belongs to a broken family. I wish at least someone should have given her that confidence that we no you can not do anything as bad as this. It hurts that she has to fight some battles alone but then this is life sometimes its us against the world. Abir isn't the perfect male lead we all think he is , Kunal is his weakness as I said yesterday that his bro is his blind spot the day Abir gets to know what his bro did to break apart him and Mish is when his illusion will break. He needs to stop molly coddling his brother. As humans we all are flawed even Abir .When her voice breaks while talking about being abandoned by her parents the camera pans on Abir’s pained expression he does care about her but he cares about Kunal and his family too.

“Misthi nay keh diya na kay uss nay email nahi bheja matlab uss nay email nahi bheja tha” I loved how resolute he was here he couldn’t have said this before her answer as no one would have believed him. I think he asked the question for other and not for himself. “Misthi jis kisi nay tumhay phaasnay ki koshish ki hain main ussay dhoond kar rahu ga”. Abir promised her that he would find the culprit and she looks at him with so much gratitude.

The Varsha/Mish scene was puke worthy loved how BM actually called out Varsha for her hypocrisy and how she apologized from Mish on the family’s behalf. BP and BM are real gems. Lol so Mish became violent chorni right fully and Abir had to control her. The poor hacker was dead meat if Abir hadn’t arrived. They get to know that someday might have used her password. All in all this was a filler episode. I hope Misbir have a heart to heart in the next episode.

That precap was amazing. Misthi has actually surprised me I love this strong daring female lead so blessed to see someone like her on ITV. Yass Mish fight for your pyar all our duas are with you and good always triumphs evil.

Stray thoughts

• Hahahahahah loved how Ben BAA was like Mish nay kia jaadu kia hain I am losing my son well lady let me tell you something you will lose your son due to your own antics. Mish is the anchor who is keeping him home. I hope someday she will see that how happy Abir is with Mish and how Mish doesn’t threaten her position.

• As stupid as Kuhu is I still wouldn’t wish what’s happening with her on my worst enemy to be made a fool in love is the worst thing that can happen to a person.

Meri family and meri community ki conditioning me hai ladke ki mom does become like Meenu is....that is a scary thought in itself.....

Kuhu to bevakoof hai or kuch ni ,

Originally posted by: Keerthija

Copying my previous answer here

" Today I didn't even find wrong about abir questioning mishti. It was very clear they he did that so that no one questions her and also he is no one and has no right on her to say " Meri mishti hai aur mujhe jaantiyae yeh wesa kuch nahi karegi".. perfectly logical..

But I thought how he handles that hacker very patiently and also at the same time he was strongly questioning him whereas in ketki's case he pounched like a lion on that groom. This question was just troubling me and then I finally got the answer.

Mishti instructed him not to get angry and end up in jail 😅. After that when mishti's father secret came out , bade papa or shaurya asked him " pata nahi aap apne gusse ko kesa control karta hai".. he immediately remembered mishti's words and her words on not to be impulsive. So, today he handled the situation with more mature and care than mishti itself( though I enjoyed mishti hitting that man and her angry avatar)..

He respects mishti so much and we should patiently wait for next episode for their confrontation about today's events. And abir will clear all about questions even though mishti understood about the reason behind it without words..❤️

Very good analysia dear, tomorrow we will get to know and abir in his words will definitely explain her..."

I too feel sad for mishti:( poor girl..

Once again gains his place in mishti's life , he will not do that now. Even if he does that now , it sounds illogical .

I think abir is not flawed now. He is flawed from beginning. He runs out of house, does crazy things, fell in love with brothers fiancee( though he didn't attempt to reveal it)..

And mishti too is flawed in her own way . Some of her fights with kuhu and that bracelet thing ...

" Flaw leads make this show more beautiful"😊

Good night dr:)🤗

You know when I wrote my own post I didn't expect a reply. Frankly was having a bad day but I am glad you gave such a detailed reply. Now when I look at it again I can't help but wonder why woild Abir use his precious question for this the answer is Mish sometimes even if you believe the other person the world will not sometimes to make people see your perspective you have to voice your opinion. He wanted her to clear the air and she only did it because he was the one asking . The bond between them is so pure. Also love your observation on the anger thing Mish did warn him and I am glad that he was the level headed one here. Thank you so much🤗

Originally posted by: meen123

love your post but loved more your stray thoughts.

Meri family and meri community ki conditioning me hai ladke ki mom does become like Meenu is....that is a scary thought in itself.....

Kuhu to bevakoof hai or kuch ni ,

Lol I was having a bad day so didn't write my post with the same passion . Yes this is a flaw in our south Asian society where parents sometimes feel threatened by the girl in their sons life. They fear getting replaced but they need to understand that every relationship has its own space. But kon samjhay logo ko

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

You know when I wrote my own post I didn't expect a reply. Frankly was having a bad day but I am glad you gave such a detailed reply. Now when I look at it again I can't help but wonder why woild Abir use his precious question for this the answer is Mish sometimes even if you believe the other person the world will not sometimes to make people see your perspective you have to voice your opinion. He wanted her to clear the air and she only did it because he was the one asking . The bond between them is so pure. Also love your observation on the anger thing Mish did warn him and I am glad that he was the level headed one here. Thank you so much🤗

Exactly.. Abir asked that question so that everyone gets a clear answer..he did this for mishti more than himself and it has nth to do with trust..

And abt kuhu, i have lost all hopes for this girl after watching todays episode..not gonna hope anything from her anymore just gonna see what happens

And i hope ur bad day is over ✌ do take care coz sad times also passes away :)

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Lol I was having a bad day so didn't write my post with the same passion . Yes this is a flaw in our south Asian society where parents sometimes feel threatened by the girl in their sons life. They fear getting replaced but they need to understand that every relationship has its own space. But kon samjhay logo ko

would you believe that i feel threatened by my jiyaji so i actively avoid the situations where he has to say yes or no....to not make my sister choose over us and to save myself from heartbreak.....

Time lagega...Par meenu samaj jayegi...bahut time lagega infact.. Mishti kisi ke dil me jagah bana sakti hai agar vo soch le to

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

“Monsters exist, but they are too few in number to be truly dangerous. More dangerous are the common men, the functionaries ready to believe and to act without asking questions.”

― Primo Levi

Hmm did I like Abir questioning Mish. No, I did not. Did I understand why he did it? Yes. Sometimes in situations like these silence is not the right answer. Especially when no one in the family supports you sometimes you have to say it and set the record straight. The trio is trash. Varsha mistrusting Mish just because she lied to bring KUKU together is so stupid it boggles my brain. Even Kuhu knew about Shwet why doesn’t she ask the same questions to her daughter. Mish decides to walk away because she is so done with every one. Then Abir stops her

“Kia tumnay who email bhejay thay? Main jaana chaata hu. Mera aik sawaal tum par udhar tha yay wohi sawaal hain”

“Nahi yay kiya mainay kal koi email nahi bheji yay meri family hain aur yay who family hain jis main meri behen ki shaadi honay wali hain aur main who larki hu jis kay apnay maa baap nay ussay chod diya tha family ki importance kia hoti hain yay mujh say bethar koi nahi jaan ta. Main kisi ko hurt nahi karna chaati”

My heart broke here for this girl. She goes on to explain how she wouldn’t even think of hurting her family as she belongs to a broken family. I wish at least someone should have given her that confidence that we no you can not do anything as bad as this. It hurts that she has to fight some battles alone but then this is life sometimes its us against the world. Abir isn't the perfect male lead we all think he is , Kunal is his weakness as I said yesterday that his bro is his blind spot the day Abir gets to know what his bro did to break apart him and Mish is when his illusion will break. He needs to stop molly coddling his brother. As humans we all are flawed even Abir .When her voice breaks while talking about being abandoned by her parents the camera pans on Abir’s pained expression he does care about her but he cares about Kunal and his family too.

“Misthi nay keh diya na kay uss nay email nahi bheja matlab uss nay email nahi bheja tha” I loved how resolute he was here he couldn’t have said this before her answer as no one would have believed him. I think he asked the question for other and not for himself. “Misthi jis kisi nay tumhay phaasnay ki koshish ki hain main ussay dhoond kar rahu ga”. Abir promised her that he would find the culprit and she looks at him with so much gratitude.

The Varsha/Mish scene was puke worthy loved how BM actually called out Varsha for her hypocrisy and how she apologized from Mish on the family’s behalf. BP and BM are real gems. Lol so Mish became violent chorni right fully and Abir had to control her. The poor hacker was dead meat if Abir hadn’t arrived. They get to know that someday might have used her password. All in all this was a filler episode. I hope Misbir have a heart to heart in the next episode.

That precap was amazing. Misthi has actually surprised me I love this strong daring female lead so blessed to see someone like her on ITV. Yass Mish fight for your pyar all our duas are with you and good always triumphs evil.

Stray thoughts

• Hahahahahah loved how Ben BAA was like Mish nay kia jaadu kia hain I am losing my son well lady let me tell you something you will lose your son due to your own antics. Mish is the anchor who is keeping him home. I hope someday she will see that how happy Abir is with Mish and how Mish doesn’t threaten her position.

• As stupid as Kuhu is I still wouldn’t wish what’s happening with her on my worst enemy to be made a fool in love is the worst thing that can happen to a person.

ab mujhe yaad ayi ki aaj ke episode mein koi shayari nahi thi..😄usually i look for ur explanation..

i disagree with most of the ppl on one thing.. everyone is angry at abir and mishtis family for not trusting her on the email drama..imagine same situation with kunal.if instead of mishti , kunal is caught with proof,shouldn’t abir ask him whether he did it nor not?abir is supposed to trust his brother right? because kunal is his younger brother and abir knows him may be more than he knows mishti..thier brotherhood is many years long.. from abir’s point of view, kunal is not a kind of person who is expected to go to such an extent of cheapness ..in that case, everyone agrees that blind trust should not be there and kunal should be questioned...i am sure abir will qstn him too..

when proofs are in front of you, asking for an answer is not a trust issue..this is like expecting blind trust from everyone..even after mishti saying she didnt do, if they dnt believe i would say they dnt trust her..it is not about only abir, i am talking about BP and BM silence too..mishti’s self respect doesn’t fit here for me.. in that party episode when meenu trapped her, everyone should have trusted mishti coz there was no proof that it was mishti’s fault..and of course, mishti would never do such things..

my point is, we need trust, but we should not look for blind trust..i didnt like the way varsha questioned mishti.. but mishti could have told i didnt do it and finished the issue..

Originally posted by: --Devakshi--

ab mujhe yaad ayi ki aaj ke episode mein koi shayari nahi thi..😄usually i look for ur explanation..i disagree with most of the ppl on one thing.. when kunal is caught red handed, shouldn’t abir ask him whether he did it nor not? because kunal is his younger brother and abir knows him may be more than he knows mishti..thier brotherhood is many years long.. kunal is not a kind of person who is expected to go to such an extent of cheapness..so here everyone agrees that blind trust should not be there.. kunal can also say that u dnt trust me n all..i am sure abir will qstn him too..when proofs are in front of you, asking for an answer is not a trust issue..this is like expecting blind trust from everyone..even after telling that she didnt do, if they dnt believe i would say they dnt trust her..it is not about only abir, i am talking about BP and BM silence too..mishti’s self respect doesn’t fit here for me.. in that party episode when meenu trapped her, everyone was expected to trust mishti coz there was no proof that it was mishti’s fault..

Question puchne ka bhi tareeka hota hai....and state of mind ka bhi fark hota hai....Had it been anyone else, Mishti ni answer karti...

Originally posted by: meen123

aapki baat samaj ni aayi muje. ...are you talking jab Shwet usko hug kr ri thi?...Soft spot for Nanko...he thinks Shwet has hold on his Nanko.......uske saamne Nanko is too shareef....

Question puchne ka bhi tareeka hota hai....and state of mind ka bhi fark hota hai....Had it been anyone else, Mishti ni answer karti...

no im talking about the email drama.. i was asking if it is kunal instead of mishti who is caught, shouldnt abir qstn him? sorry for confusing.. have edited