Cross Connection...Bad....Really.....Nahi yaron - Page 3

Originally posted by: JDTKP

Yes you’re right the cross connection is good thing n this will them realise that they are nit made for each other. Will help to find what they are feeling for each other.

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

YA I EVEN feel if there was no cross connection then they would have just liked each other and the end but now on one side they will show abir and mishti melmilap kunal kuhu kunal mishti melmilap all type m=of melmilap and how they all will understand who is right for thembut the problem is writer dont want to show devar bhabhi conversation they are not bold enough to show that the rishta which once came for younger brother got involved with elder brotherif they want to show modern concept of rishta then they should be bold enough to show that once the two who were considering ech other their possible match and talked to each other or seen each other like that chose the other oneeven meenu changed the rishta so it should not be a big deal but problem is makers are just using courtship courtshi[ but it is not seen on ground

Bang on, story will get more messy.

Mishti's heart belongs to Abir . This is a situation created by Meenu as there was no Rishta meant to be in the first place

Ketki is the reason why all of them met. She is no longer married. They are creating complex situations by making Mishti and Kunal sit face to face. Now Meenakshi will see that the word Rishta is wiped off from her dictionary.

I am expecting a bride and groom swap.

I know that Kunal and Mishti's lack of interest in each other seems weird to many here but I have seen lots of people who get married despite this just because their families want it. There doesn't seem to be any chemistry or attraction and families expect the couple to love each other after marriage.

That's exactly what Mishti's request is about: to get to know Kunal, because she isn't even thinking about chemistry or sparks between them. She doesn't expect romance or fireworks at this point and deep down isn't really convinced about getting married right now. She's also trying to honor her bade papa and ma because deep down she feels a lot of gratitude towards them for taking her in as a child and protecting her all these years. It's not majboori but a chance for her to give them happiness, since she can obviously never repay the debt she thinks she owes them.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I know that Kunal and Mishti's lack of interest in each other seems weird to many people but I have seen lots of people who get married despite this just because their families want this. There doesn't seem to be any chemistry or attraction and families expect the couple to love each otheraftermarriage.

That's exactly what Mishti's request is about: to get to knowKunal, because she isn't even thinking about chemistry or sparks between them. She doesn't expect romance or fireworks at this point and deep down isn't really convinced about getting married right now. She's also trying to honor her bade papa and ma because deep down she feels a lot of gratitude towards them for taking her in as a child and protecting her all these years. It's not majboori but a chance for her to give them happiness, since she can obviously never repay the debt she thinks she owes them.

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

The pacing of the episodes is choppy and they are introducing too many events so it's clouded, but I *think* the whole point of this is irony.

This precisely is the issue with YRHPK. It’s so crammed and busy one has to pick various threads to make sense. I hope the makers start tidying up these loose ends

The confusion in viewers' and some characters' mind arises from the inaccurate use of the termmarital courtshipand impromptu translation by Mr Googleprem-alaap. What Mishti wanted to do wasdateand GTK Kunal … Like BadePapa said,mel milaap

The realprem alaaphas started showing some signs between Abeer and Mishti. Those aredil ke mamle… nothing controls those

Where I am looking at this from, I can see why Kunal and Mishti are so aloof. Kunal, like Sam said, cant see why the need formel milaap… Who to hota rahega. He looks at Mishti as a person from a certain family and assumes their values will match and they can then conduct marriage like any other (He has only one marriage to look at as an example. His mama and mami. When they can manage, so can he…) He expects the same from Mishti…Burayi kya hai mere main… However, when it comes to Kuhu, it’s an organically growing Rishta…pyar ka Rishta. You can define and decide the rules of friendship as time goes. So he ends up spending time with her like any other friend

Mishti, on a subconscious level, she is drawn to this mystical confusing man – Abeer. One who she finds friendly. This is why she ends up doing unexpected things like eloping from the balcony. With Kunal, she expects a certain decorum and protocol. She expects that if and when they will spend some time together it will be done quite formally… She already tried and was directed to his secy!

Kunal and Mishti now assume that theirmulaqatswill be formally planned initially and they will take it from there. They are both waiting for the other to make that 1st move now. Not to mention, BigBen and BadiMa making a complete mess of this in their heads

In summary,the show has issues; however, so far their overall plans aren’t that bad. Indian arranged marriages do not have themel milaapperiod. Post-roka courtship is skewed.Youngsters are right in asking for a period where they can be themselves and GTKY the other person without societal pressure. As soon as it’s official, it gets quite difficult for the man & the woman to be themselves or raise any concerns. The show is doing a good job of showing both sides of the coin –elder generation and the present time youth

PS: I want my pink back. I am having major withdrawal

PPS: The form does not listen to my editing.. i give up.. I am sure soon these teething issues will be resolved

I used to watch Humsafars only the name taken from a very famous Paki show called Humsafar.

This was on Sony before all the channels brought their apps in the market. This one was also notorious with their shows

So it was a love story about broken people the ML was on the very of being pyschotic as his wife extra marital affairs and the FL's father left the family as he had no son, very young kids were at the cross roads. This was the basis of the story.

Then the pace was also so choppy, loose ends. It was necessary for the creatives the give glimpses of the past as to why a character is behaving like this in the present. The ML of this show had a wife who cheated but before she was going to leave him, an accident took place. This was not placed well. It was loose forever. The revelation happened in not manner so desired. The execution was bad. Many a times it had a feel of a typical Sony show and then it became a typical ITV drama. Chemistry was not so great but the ML brought in a lot physical intimacy which looked bold, just a lip lock was missing.

For me YRHPk is similar, Meenakshi never wanted the rishtas. She twisted the whole angle, Maheshwaris look like some duffers who are thinking she has come with good intentions. This going ahead of rishta with a courtship or dating condition is where things are going wrong as the intention of the boy's mother is to break the connection.

They aren't showing Meenakshi as lady Macbeth as she does have emotions. The show is going ahead on parallel lines. Meenakshi's pent up hatred towards Mishti and this marital courtship where Kunal is avoiding Mishti and she instead of meeting her would be Mr. Future husband is getting close to Abir (whose favourite spot is a tent besides the lake, he needs a phone badly).

Mishti accepting the rishta subject to condition is what has gone wrong. If she upfront spoke to Meenakshi that the proposal was for my sister and not me was more appropriate. Maheshwaris can always come as Parekh's guest and expose Ved

A lot of loose tracks, with a theme which is not clear, leads are in friend zone, parallel leads story cannot take place with this most awkward and inappropriate proposal.

Ideally they shld end this track with either Mishti or Kunal deciding they are not made for each other, Mishti can then persue Abir and vice versa making way for Kunal and kuhu.

in this current track Nidhi almost curses Meenakshi, it looks very certain that Mishti and Abir will fall in love without Kunal's knowledge and Big Ben is going get hurt in the process. They are going ahead with this twisted track. As the track is not in place, the pace also is so damn unusual.

Not a typical Shaheer Sheikh show, his earlier ones were executed very nicely. The makers are at fault here. I mean this isn't expected from the producers too

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

This precisely is the issue with YRHPK. It’s so crammed and busy one has to pick various threads to make sense. I hope the makers start tidying up these loose ends

The confusion in viewers' and some characters' mind arises from the inaccurate use of the termmarital courtshipand impromptu translation by Mr Googleprem-alaap. What Mishti wanted to do wasdateand GTK Kunal … Like BadePapa said,mel milaap

The realprem alaaphas started showing some signs between Abeer and Mishti. Those aredil ke mamle… nothing controls those

Where I am looking at this from, I can see why Kunal and Mishti are so aloof. Kunal, like Sam said, cant see why the need formel milaap… Who to hota rahega. He looks at Mishti as a person from a certain family and assumes their values will match and they can then conduct marriage like any other (He has only one marriage to look at as an example. His mama and mami. When they can manage, so can he…) He expects the same from Mishti…Burayi kya hai mere main… However, when it comes to Kuhu, it’s an organically growing Rishta…pyar ka Rishta. You can define and decide the rules of friendship as time goes. So he ends up spending time with her like any other friend

Mishti, on a subconscious level, she is drawn to this mystical confusing man – Abeer. One who she finds friendly. This is why she ends up doing unexpected things like eloping from the balcony. With Kunal, she expects a certain decorum and protocol. She expects that if and when they will spend some time together it will be done quite formally… She already tried and was directed to his secy!

Kunal and Mishti now assume that theirmulaqatswill be formally planned initially and they will take it from there. They are both waiting for the other to make that 1st move now. Not to mention, BigBen and BadiMa making a complete mess of this in their heads

In summary,the show has issues; however, so far their overall plans aren’t that bad. Indian arranged marriages do not have themel milaapperiod. Post-roka courtship is skewed.Youngsters are right in asking for a period where they can be themselves and GTKY the other person without societal pressure. As soon as it’s official, it gets quite difficult for the man & the woman to be themselves or raise any concerns. The show is doing a good job of showing both sides of the coin –elder generation and the present time youth

PS: I want my pink back. I am having major withdrawal

PPS: The form does not listen to my editing.. i give up.. I am sure soon these teething issues will be resolved

Originally posted by: EtTuBrutus

Till that point, I hope they do a better job handling Mishti-Kunal interactions. Don't want any interaction which will complicate the future devar-bhabhi rishta and at the same time, I hope it ain't too robotic. All am hoping is for it to not be jarring so I can enjoy Abhir-Mishti in peace :D

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

The makers have to be very careful with kunal-mishti... all other interactions are "safe"... They have a future placeholder... jeeja-salee, lovers... but kunal-mishti have a dewar bhabhi future. It can be hard to morph any wedding potential rishta into dewar-bhabhi rishta... which is why I can see where the hesitation on the writers' part is coming from.As soon as kunal and mishti start evaluating the long term shaadi potential, we get into the meaty, more difficult bits of the show. I am prepared to be patient for that to happen and for them to unpick the whole perfect-for-each-other bias. That, how they look perfect but actually arent...