Originally posted by: Indira1211
abhira is a better bahu than both naira and akshu. She respects her relationships. Yes we can't stand poddars. .because they're not nice people. But they are abhiras in laws and she stayed with them ..tolerated their abuse and won them over. They all like her now. And made her their beti. And you have to be strong to stay and fulfil your responsibilities .running away is an easy way out. Abhira is a better woman than both akshu and naira according to me. She fulfills all her responsibilities and stands by her relationships.
And regarding this,
Abhira is a bad example of a bahu to other women in a Society.
Do you undestand a woman's position in a family?No matter how much they do,they are always questioned & their importance is always less than the men,be it in her own father's family or in-law's family.There are countless example where girl's father /mother advises her to bend according to in-law/husband no matter how much wrong they are just to save a meaningless marriage,sometimes a abusive one so that,that girl's responsibility doesn’t fall upon incase the marriage breaks.
And what to talk about in-law!!!
Take example of Gayatri of season 1 rishta.She is called somewhat the good saas in terms of other generation,still she was so toxic I remember.Akshara had to think thousands time before taking any steps,she even hesitated regarding permission to go Out with her own husband.She always was in a constant state of distress to not to make Gayatri angry.That's the reality of in-law's where no matter what anyone says,a daughter -in-law can't never be daughter(exception can never be an example)
Then comes your point,you are considering Abhira a good bahu than naira & akhshara because the later two's didn’t bend to inappropriate behaviour or insults thrown to them?
Wowww,what a logic!!
In this logic,every women has to bear every kind of Torture from Their in-laws Just to be a better bahu according to you right??
Akshara is only criticised for hiding her & abhi's son from him.Regardless whatever she did to save her own respect,she did right.Not everyone is a doormate like Abhira.
Abhira couldn’t even stick to the Justice of Abhir' accident which she herself initiated in the pretense of becoming a good bahu & be good in Armaan's eye.
If good bahu is like this who doesn’t bring Justice to her brother despite being a lawyer, then Society doesn’t need such good bahu.
Now,Don't come to say,Abhira is a fictional character and blah blah.These lame characters has some great impact in a Society & people are more becoming like heavily expectant on women
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